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writes:hi me and my bf are both 16 and are relationship is going very well. we have both been going out with each other for about 2 months. (so far all we have done is kiss (not with tougues yet).we go round each others houses a lot. he's coming round my house this weekend and do you think he would get the wrong idea if i asked if he wanted to stay the night? (i dont want to have sex yet cos im not ready and i actually dont think he is ready either) he hasnt told me he's not, he's just not that kind of person to want it right away. I have a spare room with 2 beds in that we would sleep. what do u think?and what would you boys think if your gf had asked u to sleep round? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Hey,
I'm in the exact same situation this weekend, although just wondering, are your folks ok with it cause mine wouldn't be home and I daren't ask them, lol :)
Anyway, the way I got around asking my boyfriend is saying exactly how you feel, usually easier to do over text or msn or phone than face to face, just say "Do you want to stay over, we don't have to do anything"
That's exactly what I said and all my boyfriend did was accept and make jokes about bringing board games over. :)
Have fun!
xxxxx
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reader, si101 +, writes (24 February 2007):
 when i was going out with my first girlfriend she invited me over to sleep over quit a bit but i never thought that she wanted sex we would sleep in the same bed or i would go on the couch he sounds like a good lad and if something does happen just remember what you want and talk about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): If you asked whether he wanted to sleep round at first he might assume that you want to have sex with him so ask him and also point out that it doesn't mean that you are ready to have sex with him. You are only 16 and have only been with your boyfriend for about 2 months so he'll understand. Explain the circumstances (i mean with the 2 beds in the spare room in which you'll both sleep in) and then leave the decision up to him.
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (23 February 2007):
 i have my boyfriend round to sleep and when i first asked him he didnt assume we were going to have sex. i didnt think twice about asking him aroud. and if your still worried then lay down the ground rules before he comes. good luck xxx
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