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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...

He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges ...

Is it to where I don't want to be with him anymore?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I have been living with my bf for 3in a half yrs. And I have for a long time that I have got that strong feeling of not wanting to be with him nomore. I have been wanting to break up but I get the feeling of not breaking up with him. Why I'm I ...

The spark has gone, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - HI. I hope someone can help somehow. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and I split up with him 3 times. We r back together, we have similar interests, but there is something missing. The fire, the spark. The other problem is that I dont ...

I don't like the idea of being cheap to someone I love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have a friend who has been saying he loves me although i love him i refused to give him a reply unless i was sure i loved him. When i told him later that i loved him, he told me that he already has a girlfriend, that i was too late. He started ...

Why do men think they can get away with cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am 43 and have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. He is divorced with 2 children and I have 2 children. His teenage son introduced him to this woman a year ago and evidently they were attacted to one another. I discovered the ...

How can I be happy with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - So here's my story. It's been 4.5 months since breakup and i realize that I still miss her. I don't love her as much as i did when she ended things with me but i still miss her tremendously. She's in my thoughts everyday. My ex girlfriend's healing ...

My ex wants to try again, but take things slowly this time. Should I give a shot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I split with my ex around 7 months ago, as i didn't feel the same... like I didn't feel the love I did before. I've recently started talking to him again and he said he wants us to try again, but take it slowly. What do you think? Should I try ...

Why did he suddenly decide that he didn't want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So in the beginning of the year, I met this guy at school (first year of college - we're both 18) and he immediately showed interest in me. He also became my lab partner and 3 days after meeting him, he told me he liked me through a drunk text. I ...

How to I face a girl that I love and hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I don't know how to face her now. Last week, I told her the truth of her current boyfriend and she was really upset and angry because she thinks I am trying to make an excuse for her to dump him. But my intention was not and I was just trying to l...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

My boyfriend said he tried to love me but just couldn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - OK. I will try to make this story as short as possible while including all the pertinent details. Me - I am 32 years old, divorced, and have a 5 year old daughter that I share custody of. I work and support myself and her. Him - 32 years ...

We're more like friends than a couple!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - HI! i got a partner about 1 and half year ago and we have a baby together. We had a very good sex life when we met about 3 months but since i got baby my partner didn't care about me any more as he said i was pregnant. But after our baby be ...

I'm afraid to call my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi Recently i feel even scared to call my bf. He is often calling me names and ignoring me and even when i call him, after the call is over i always feel humiliated and even less secured in the relationship. He often says im needy and clingy, ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...

It all went great at first but then I got kind of bored.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone ! First i just wanna say i love this site ! It's great to hear other people's opinions. Ok, so I've been dating a guy for like 2 months already, it all went great first weeks, then I kind of got bored and we are verryyy differe...

I feel like I have to do everything for him, for us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are'first loves'. We've been living together for about a year, and I'm getting to the point where I don't know if I want to stay with him, but if I think about leaving him, the ...

Our four year relationship has stagnated. Could it be reinvigorated? And how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - We are in our early twenties. We have been dating nearly four years (having met in high school). Things were passionate but have died down steadily. I truly love her personality (at least the positive part of it). But there are things that have been...

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relations...

My boyfriend goes out of his way for a woman he is not even good friends with. Is he interested in her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of 1 year avoids me often, and says he is busy at work. He takes extreme measures to help a girl whom he is not close friends with, but when I asked him for a favour (which will not take more than 15 mins for him to do) he said he ...

Baring my soul here after my life changed drastically. How do I salvage my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi - I'm very curious to hear people's responses please. My husband and I have been together 14 years (Im now early 30s -he's mid 30's). I realize now that I met him at a very vulnerable time in my life. I needed a lot of attention and I was just...

I love him, but has his love for me died? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - He's doing it again! He's saying I've broken his heart more than once... HOW??? I've been faithful throughout this relationship, while he was out doing God know's what from 6pm-1am! I love him dearly but sometimes it does my head in to HAVE TO ...

How can we stop fighting and get back to how we used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - My partner and i have been together for 2 and half years. things were great at the start but as life gose on a few problems come with it. Laterly all we seem to be doing is fighting. We have spoke many times about whats going on and end the end we ...

There is nothing between us in our marriage. Its just a habit

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Ive been married almost 8 years and we have a 13 year old son. We have argued a lot the past year and a half and are on our last chance of trying to make the marriage work but i feel like i dont love him anymore. Theres nothing between us it just ...

If absence makes the heart grow fonder at what point is the absence too long?

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26 January 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and she has just split up with me... Things to firstly note are that she is 30 and has previously been married and got divorced about 2 years ago. Since then she has moved into her own house and worked ...

I thought he was my true love. But his actions since the breakup make me wonder. How has he been able to move on so soon after our breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My ex is 27, 4 yrs older than me. We were together for 2 years, it felt like true love, he always hinted about the future together we had plans made. We didn't see each other for 2 weeks, due to exams, and he barely texted me. Last week, exams over...

Should I keep working on our relationship, or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for almost 2 yrs and we have a baby girl. I have a hard time talking to him or even getting him to take me seriously. We have had a lot of problems since we had our baby, nothing seems to be good enough for him. I've been ...

Should I walk away and hope he finds someone on one of his dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to ...

I'm devastated, what can I do? He's blocked from his life over an email.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - He saw an email to my ex - it was bad. I admit that. But it wasn't from present day! And although he saw it recently, before that he saw my messages telling the ex to leave me alone cuz I was happy with my boyfriend. The email was from a stage in ...

Is my wife still attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have been married about 2 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl. However recently our sex life seems to have plummeted. Nowadays I can be romantic and seduce her, or I can come close to begging, yet she rarely ever will accept ...

How do you move on from past relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - This might be a stupid question, but: how do you stop feeling bothered about stuff from the past? When I think of my relationship with my ex-boyfriend [who broke up with me months ago], I still feel bothered by things.. I won't bore everyone with ...

What can I do to help save the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - So let me start out saying I am 17 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. I love him and he's honestly the best guy in the world. But lately we've fought a lot, we've just had a lot of little problems that we argue about and ...

Girlfriend of 4 years asks for a break and starts dating someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - hi guys Ok so i was with this girl for 4years the minute i met her we clicked instantly and we were good frends for many months before getting into the relationship. We know eachother inside out and we are very close to each other. Just last y...

She left me when things were going great!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I'm so confused right now. We were doing great and it's been 4 months. It starts off like this. I met her at a party 6 months ago while I was playing a guitar. She found me on facebook the next day and told me how amazing I was and wanted to get to ...

Should I see what transpires with my ex, or should I break contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Long story short, I got dumped by my girlfriend of two years in September because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there ...

Sex is not special anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Today I write, I write about my experiences with sex, and love. How I have experienced so much and have come to many realizations about sex and love. First off to anyone who even reads this I know what you must be thinking. That somewhere out ther...

Married and have feelings for another man

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I am a married woman. I have been married to the same man for almost 20 years. He loves me with all his heart. He is loyal, a good father to our kids, and he does everything for me. He puts up with me even when I am not nice to him. Any woman would ...

I don't think my wife is in love with me any more. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My wife is not in love with me.She says she is but she always putting me down.I'm a pretty laid back person and now i'm tired of it...

Where did my loving feelings go :(! !!!!!!???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - so i haven't been in a relationship for around 2 years or so and recently i just met a girl who has all i want we have been talking so much till early in the morning but there one problem i just don't have the of feeling of love. I did felt a l...

I'm just not sure what's going on with her!!! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about a month now. She's cute, silly, beautiful, smart, and pretty darn awesome. But there are things that are making me turn away. Before we started dating we were both in very tough relationships. My ex girlfriend...

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relatio...

My ex and I are over, but we have a young son together. How do I get over these feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I need major help. I was with my ex for two years before he broke up with me, and we have a nine month old son together. We had been going through a major custody battle, but we were able to come to a written agreement and work on this outside of ...

I am bothered by the thought of my ex moving on. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for about a year and a half. I broke up with him because we were both in college and we were in different places in life. I was just starting college and he was graduating, and he resented me wanting to party because he ...

Should I reconcile with my ex now, or wait until she and my best friend break up. I am somewhat turned on knowing he is with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a heated argument a few days ago. Yesterday, I was having a drink with my best friend, we have been friends since high school. He asked me how Linda was and I told him we had split and that she was fair game. I knew that he ...

Reality versus Illusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In reflecting upon a relationship I had with a girl last year, I think a source of the many problems I had was my confusion of the illusion I had of her and what our relationship was with the reality. I thought I would relate a little bit about it ...

Do I leave my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I'd be really grateful for some advice on this one, as i'm going round in circles. 10 years ago,when I was a young and foolish teenager (just!) I met a lovely guy,(let's call him Dave) we dated for about 6 months, then I was moving away, so ...

Together for two years but lately no affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We live together and everything. I love him dearly, but in the past three months I have noticed it is very rare for him to ever hug or kiss me. We rarely have sex either and when we do it's ...

Now that I live with my boyfriend, he no longer pays any attention to me! What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We used to be in a long-distance relationship and while I was gone, we used to talk about how happy we were and how excited we were for me to move and get our own place. Well... Now, we're li...

If he will not use this separation to work on our marriage then why should I hold out hope that we'll ever get back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been separated a couple weeks now. We decided we needed to separate when it didn't seem like things were getting better at home. He is not sure what he wants and I have been willing and ready to work through our problems. He ...

Am I just nothing to him now? Does he just forget me, completely, after years of marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - Does a man just forget his wife after he finds a new woman, even when he knows he was at fault for cheating does he just forget his wife, after 18 years, I was good to him... Can he just forget me just like that... i fought for him back begged h...