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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My girlfriend has been slowly distancing herself from me, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Im getting conflicting messages from my girlfriend. We have been together for 4 years and for past 3 she has slowly, bit by bit, distanced herself from me. She tells me she loves me, but only when I ask. However her body language tells me somet...

Uh, just ask me out already!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Okay, I've liked this guy for months now, and I'm positive he likes me back. We have a few classes together and the same extra curriculars, and we're pretty good friends. Here's why I think he likes me: I always seem to catch him staring at me. He ...

She told me graphic details about her past that I can't get out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm 23, and I have been seeing my girlfriend since I was one month shy of 22. She was my first, and before her I was a virgin. However, she has had a few ex-boyfriends. Anyway, I was talking to my girlfriend as she was sorting out photos on the ...

I don't love him anymore, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm only 19 years old and i've been dating this one guy for about 4 years. But our relationship is far from perfect. I dont even know why i'm still with this guy. I know that sounds mean but he has done soo many things that i should have just walked ...

I don't know if I love her anymore, what should I do?

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29 November 2010 (M) - We're both almost 30, been together for about 4 months now, we started out our friendship in an unusual way; I posted an online ad looking for a girlfriend for a long term relationship, she responded, but according to her, she later said that at ...

Loss of feelings and now I'm pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a problem I don't think I'm In love with my boyfriend and I'm prego and also has no sex drive at all. I just found out I'm two months preggers happy but scard. Three months ago I went on two crusies with my family and sadly couldn't bring my...

How do I know I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 years, he was my 1st boyfriend, intially i thought i loved him, i just loved being with him and spending all my time but in the last year i don't find him attractive but he is the most sweetest and he ...

What is wrong with me? Am I uninterested... please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over three years. There are a lot of amazing moments and sometimes there are those "stupid arguments for no reason" like recently, which led me to this website. Well after i graduated high school, last spr...

I know this is a waste of my time but why can't I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - alright so i dated this guy last year for about 6 months. it got really serious. i loved him. he was my first love. and he was the first guy i went far with. we didnt have sex but it was close. the day i realized i loved him, i realized how stupid i ...

Don't want to lose my high school sweetheart!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - hello I'm 47yr. male met my highschool sweetheart at a 30 year reunion she's 46yr. were both still married but were both seperated her for 20 yrs. me for 2yrs. we hit it off great as if we were still dating. back than i was normally a talkative ...

Holding back so she shows me love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - i am happily married for 12 years now and i used to work abroad for almost 7 years now, sometimes i've questioned my wife's priority with regards to giving attentions only on my mind(our kids, her friends over me) ... so im thinking maybe it's just ...

I dumped him because he told me to dump him!

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27 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I have been with my bf for 3 yrs,we always fighting and now we are in a LDR since may this year,everytime when we fight he told me to dump him and find another bf if his not treating me well,he can't even say sorry,yesterday he told me ...

I'm still having trouble moving on..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Our break up was just 2 weeks ago and she became involved with another guy within the first week. Every time I go to browse around on Facebook there are pictures of them together. It sucks when I can't even check my own updates without being ...

How do you get back out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I'm still suffering from a shattered heart, and I know I'm not in any way ready to begin dating again, but I'm wondering how on earth you get back out there once it's time. Do you have to force yourself? Is it easier to just attend parties or ...

I need to let go of my boyfriend for good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I have dated my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He is my first for EVERYTHING (first guy to ask me out, i lost my virginity to him, everything). We have our ups and downs His idea of a relationship is I do what I do he does what he does and we meet ...

Should I leave for me and my son's sake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Should i leave him? My partner of ten years and who is the father of my son has cheated three times on me.The last time i wanted him to leave but somehow he managed to convince me it wasnt him. However 6 months later he tells me it was.I still f...

So is this him saying he wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Ok, so there's this guy I've been talking to a lot lately- we share core interests, enjoy talking, have some mutual friends, etc. We definitely flirt w/ each other, but whether or not he likes me as more than friends puzzles me-now more than ever. T...

Has this worked for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if not it was never meant to be! Is there any truth in this? Will my Scorpian man come back? ...

We split up for 4 hours and he's already emailing girls for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have had alot of breakups. usually he leaves me, and we only stay broke up for a day or so, yea i know..immmature of us. anyways, yesterday we had another fight and i broke up with him for a short 4 hours. i took my stuff with ...

By not talking everyday will we grow apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - boyfriend and i took a break, we broke up finally and its been 5 months i hadnt contacted him all thoguh iw anted to he wanted space bc i went crazy. anyway he hooked upw ith some girl and for 2 months has been contacting me we ifnally met our ...

Our kiss led to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - My best friend and i ended up kissing a few months ago...It was his b'day and he'd been teasing me for just one kiss so we went ahead and snogged away to glory. May i add that this kiss was totally amazing? The moment his lips touched mine...i...

When will this stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Was with my ex for five years, don't fancy him and don't think I love him anymore. Although, he is still always on my mind. We've been apart four months. When will I be able to switch off from all this? I know in my heart that I don't feel the same. ...

At what point do you throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - What would you suggest in this situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. We are both deeply unsatisfied with the relationship but have seem to have trouble letting go. According to him, the biggest problems are the lack of sex ...

How do you talk to someone who becomes aggressive and intimidating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - How can you talk to someone who doesnt listen to your points and becomes intimidating and aggressive. The problem i have is that my partner of 8 yrs and i have recently split up this was due to a combination of things. He moved out 6 mts ago and ...

My feelings are becoming cold for my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - hi i'm 16 and i've been in a relationship for a year,i have sort of coldness in my feelings toward him because i'm a romantic girl, and he's not that good at flirting, and our phone calls are becoming less and less because of his study and some par...

I begged him to comeback but I'm not into him now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - 11 months ago my boyfriend left me for a girl he was cheating with and the entire time I begged him to give us another shot. So now he's back ready to be serious and I agreed to have sex with him today and now I feel guilty. Because when we was ...

I just don't love you anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - I have been married for 18 years. I love my wife more than life itself. We have always had a 'rocky' marriage from the outside however we always made it work and deeply loved each other. this past year everything was great, better than it ever has ...

LDR-I feel like he's more of a friend than a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - i've been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months now...n the begining we had a long distance relationship...i wud do my best to go out to new york nd see him when ever he asked. he never came to pennsylvania to spin time with me ...

The love of my life doesn't feel it anymore??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Well I met a girl about 26 months ago....she is perfect, we are perfect for each other. We had a perfect 9 month relationship, then she had to move away with her family. We have been doing long distance for more than a year...almost tw...

She says she still loves me but doesn't want to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I split from my gf 3 months ago after 3 years together we were very close and often said we love each other. I still love her and want her back but she says we are not getting back together in the near future but it might happen one day. The thing ...

Dating mistakes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I Made a huge mistake im only 14 but i had this sweet guy treated me like i was a princess and i thought i found young love ive never been like that with a guy before and i made a mistake i broke up with him for my ex but i didnt realize how much i ...

I want my high school sweetheart back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - i just got over a relationship with a high school sweetheart. we had been friends for a good 6 years and dated for another two. it was great. she ran off after we had our first fight. she has commitment issues and so do i. both our fathers were ...

He hasn't made another move.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I bumped into this old classmate of mine about two months ago. He started calling me and we started going out on a regular basis. After a while, we started calling each other every day and going out almost always together. After about a month of ...

Should I just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - Hey! I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks now, and in that time for the first two weeks i was no contact with her, and since then we have chatted on a few occasions online and seemed to be getting along okay. I haven't seen or heard from her s...

Is my girlfriend losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - So, I'm confused. After spending nearly 4 months in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, I'm getting ready to visit her. The problem is, I have no idea how my girlfriend views our relationship or me. She is not the type who likes t...

Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear? I was dating a guy for a short time (1 month). I wasn't sure if we would be good together, and he just kept working at getting me to like him and I ended up falling for him. He started ...

Does "not ready now" mean "not ready ever"???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I am so crazy about my boyfriend. He listens to me, does nice things to make my life easier or more pleasant, and does little things to make me feel special. We've been together for a couple years now. The first year or so we didn't see eachother ...

Is it possible to be with someone for a year and not have feelings for them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - hello i need some advice is it possible to be in a relationship with someone for a year without having any feelings for you? My g/f and i was together for a year. She moved in with me and everything was fine then she left me but she told friends ...

How do I inspire my girlfriend to trust me after having been hurt in her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Well recently I started dating this girl. At the moment I treat her like she's the only thin that matters but some how she seems not to take it and rejects it like she dosnt want to get hurt again. She was with her ex for a while and I'm just fin...

He said he wanted to marry me then out of the blue he says he's not meant for each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Dear cupied , something happend this days but unexpectet, truly one boy wrote me in fb.and he told me that he likes me, i acceptet his invitation and I began to speak with him , i didnt give him a phone number only in fb we chat. every time he ...

How do I remain cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

19 November 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm already in a relationship with someone else. There is this very beautiful new girl that just came into our office. We've gotten on so well. She is really very beautiful. However, unlike most beautiful girls i know, she is so friendly a...

Should I talk to him about why he'd pulling away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been going out with this guy for almost four months now. He's amazing and I love being with/around/hanging out with him. He's a really great guy . . . and I think I like him more then I intended to. But latly I can't tell if he even ...

He says this isn't going to work but yet he makes googily eyes at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

18 November 2010 (?) - Sorry if i ramble this one out. Basically i am one in a long line of teenagers with boy troubles. I actually can not believe the amount of headspace they take up! Ok so there is this guy and i was really into him at the start of college, we get ...

Girlfriend constantly wants me to chose her over my family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend continually demands that I choose her over my family, and refuses to compromise about the issue. She comes from a broken family, and has picked fights with my mom, sister, and brother over menial issues. She demands that I take her ...

Is it wrong to end a good relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - This may sound a little crazy but im thinking about ending a relationship, when there is nothing wrong with him. We have been together for 3yrs, and they have been great years together. we started as friends which evolved into a really fun ...

He's lost interest in our casual deal!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Hi, so i've been seeing this guy for 2 months now and even though it's a very casual deal between us he was very intense about me at the beggining. I kind of did some damage and he didn't want anything to do with me after.. however he forgave me and ...

She's the one who cheated, now she has the audacity to ignore me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend and I have split up. We were very close. When I was away in France recently she had an affair with an old friend. When she told me, she was so sorry, and I thought we might have had a chance, but a few days later, she rang ...

Crabby girlfriend or this new girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - ok so for the past 3 months my gf has been a total bitch to me every time i go to kiss her or hug her she shouts at me and storms off. when i ask her she just does the same thing. now theres this other girl who aparently is nuts about me ,but i ...

The most he says to me now is "What page are we on?", what gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - The guy that sits next to me in one of my classes, we'll call him 'Joe', used to talk to me alot. But now he doesnt? I mean... We flirted and stuff, but now... He doesn't even talk to me at all anymore. and if he does, its only to ask things like ...

How do I ignite the fire again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I honestly have no idea what to do. My boyfriend of 8 years (on and off) says he doesn’t feel the spark when we kiss anymore. We are both 21, and when we were 12 we met. He doesn’t feel like he could see us in the future and the pain is killing me ...