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writes:alright so i dated this guy last year for about 6 months. it got really serious. i loved him. he was my first love. and he was the first guy i went far with. we didnt have sex but it was close. the day i realized i loved him, i realized how stupid i was. i mean seriously, im 15 and i loved a guy. i dumped him and regretted it so badly. we kept talking though up until now. were just friends cuz he cant trust me. all through this ive had other guys ive talked too but i really cant commit cuz im scared from last time. i dont think ill ever fully get over it and i really dont know what to do. this is so stupid. im young and this is all a waste of my time and i know it, so why cant i let it go? sorry my spellings bad, i didnt want to take the time.xoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): ~Friendship Breeds Beauty~
Remain his friend.
God Bless~
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (28 November 2010):
Hi there. First romances are always pretty special to everyone.
It sounds like you got caught up in the moment, but it just happened a bit too early in your life - before you were really ready for something so serious.
Probably, that's what scared you the most.
Somewhere in your mind, you were thinking ahead to marriage, kids, a mortgage, bills galore - all sorts of things at the same time. That's why you broke it off so suddenly.
It probably gave you a sense of time passing by very quickly and things getting out of control.
It was your intuition telling you that the time was not right.
You have a lot more to do regards education and college etc., so to get serious with a boy now would prevent most of that from ever happening. A situation you would later regret.
However, once you have finished your education and lived a bit more of life, in another 10 years, it will be a whole different ball game then. You will be ready for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): I think that if u can't let go it's because there is obviously something that attractes u to him I say stay as friends and see wer it goes
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