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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Am I in love? Or just comfortable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I've come to the stage in life where i'm wondering whether i'm in love with my boyfriend or just comfortable in our relationship. The thought of breaking up with him tears me apart at some times, but at others I feel like I want a relationship with ...

Help - Relationship Falling Apart -I Love My Girlfriend, But She Is an Irresponsible Slob

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Help. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over three years. We have been living together in an apartment for almost two of those three years. I am 25 and she is 21. Things seem to be slowly falling apart. I almo...

She says it just doesn't feel the same anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend says she loves me and loves hanging out with me, but just doesn't feel the same anymore, and she means everything to me and she knows it.What can i say or do to help her feelings. ...

How do I recapture the lost feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I met the girl of my dreams. Coming up on over a year together, I am suddenly over her. No emotional feelings what so ever. I am not even remotely attracted to her... we are rarely intimate. I dont feel it. How do I ressurect the emoti...

How do I stop us from growing apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - me and my girlfriend are growing apart, how do i get her closer again?...

Why does he keep saying "you can do better"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone Please help if you can!!! I have no close guy friends to ask. What does a guy mean when he keeps saying "you can do better"?? Other than the obvious what is he really saying? We have been in a relationship for almost 5 years ...

I love her, she doesn't seem to return the favour!

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27 June 2010 (M) - Hey, i'm completely confused. This girl, we've gone out, and she really likes me and all, but she doesn't want to start anything with me, because she claims that the place where we are living is unsuitable. She says she cant say she loves me, beca...

Why did my girlfriend's behavior towards me change? Why isn't she expressing herself like she used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - I need some advice about this, because it's driving me nuts. I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl that I met about a year ago. Because we live far away from eachother, the only ways to communicate is by phone, text, msn (+webcam). We us...

Torn between my girlfriend and another girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - 3 weeks ago I got with this great girl, shes my age (14), beautiful, smart and everyone likes her. I love her but I don't feel any connection with her, I think its just something i'm going through but i find myself looking,dreaming and even liking ...

Has my boyfriend gone off me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - ive only been with my boyfriend for two months,so we dont love each other yet, when we first were together he always wanted to see me, he text me quite alot and said really nice things to me, then out of no where he never texts or calls, i havent ...

I feel like my relationship is at breaking point, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for just over two years, during the last few months our relationship has become - to my mind - quite strained. Our sex life is actually non existent, we had sex about a week before our second aniversery, prior ...

In love and hurt. Do I move on? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - So I am 16 years old. And I have already fallen really hard for a guy. We knew each other since we were 13 and 14. Best friends and all. We just told each other last January that we liked each other. That June we started going out. I fell in love ...

What do I do, he wants to break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years. Things were going really great until I left the country for 3 months because of school. I came back thinking everything was the same.... and is not. He suggested to break up with me.I panicked and he ...

He keeps cheating on me and lying about it, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. It is very clear that he and I have a lot of passion for one another. We have everything in common and spend a lot of time together. To make a long story short ... I started noticing signs here and ...

Why don't I feel the same chemistry with him anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - So theres that whole thing about chemestry with someone and how you can feel if its there or not right away on a date or upon meeting soomeone. Can that chemestry that was so great and immensly there just go away all of a sudden? For example me and ...

He trades pictures with women and masterbates too often to be intimate with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - my longtime boyfriend masterbates so often now it is getting in the way of our sex life, he is using porn to view other females and i have found pictures of him in the act on his computer, he said he did trade some with some ladies but never met any ...

After four months, I am having trouble reading the writing on the wall!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M) - Okay, in a 4 month relationshsip, that basically has gone awall. Awall in the effect, that we both been stubborn towards one another. She wants it one way, and I want it the other way. We both have had a tough few weeks with our jobs. She is ...

Why do I lose interest after we've had sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M) - Ok so here I go. So I can really be into a girl, but then once I have sex with her, something kicks in and I lose interest. Its kind of like I find something that I dislike after we have been intimate. In most cases I wouldn't care, but its ...

Is he only staying for the sake of the kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - Should i stay in this relationship? My partner and i have 2 children together and id say its always been a rough relatioship,although there has been some happy times. It started off as more of a fling than a relatioship, he would turn up now and ...

My boyfriend's mistress is his music....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my musician boyfriend . But he's always spending time with his music . I go to the gym regularly and there is a really sweet guy there . He's cute and he seems to be attracted to me . I get butterflies around him sometimes and i'm ...

Why don't I love him? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My bf is hot,cute and honest and loves me like hell. And here is the turning point. I dont love him. Why why why wont any one love some one like that? And thats why i broke up. But he still loves me and i still think why dont i love him? I want to ...

What's gotten into him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* I met this guy last year, who I got really close to and in a way, fell head over heals over. He isn't the nicest guy you could meet, he's the cocky, douche, player, immature guy who happens to be really hot! (haha) So during s...

Is my ex a sociopath?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - to begin with, please ignore my age, i messed it up when i signup online. i am really 21. i dated a guy for 2 years and im 6 months pregnant by him. he left me when i told him. 1. he never regrets anything or feels guilty about the bad stuff...

Should I confront her or trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Hi to anyone out there. Hopefully you can help me with some advice. I just registed to use this site as an outlet for some of my thoughts and pains. I need some advice as to whether or not my gf may be cheating on me, and how to discuss the s...

Enough with the "Mr. Spock"! I want some Spark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - This may not sound like something to complain about but it seems as though my boyfriend is too logical or practical or something. Its taking away the romance from our relationship. He doesn't think the romance part is very important and ive told...

Amnesia stole four years of my life and what I am learning of my boyfriend now, is not promising.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - right this is quite complicated and long so please bear with me i need advice. In April of this year i ended up in hospital having had a seizure, it turned out i had a small blood clot on my brain. the main side effect was that i got retro grade ...

My boyfriend is never in 'the mood' for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years doesn't want to have sex with me! When I say sex I mean intercourse and giving me oral. I go down on him regularly and we both enjoy that, but that's where our sex life seems to linger. When I try to initiate sex one...

Married but lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - I have been married for 28 years and have definitely grown apart from my husband. He has been an OK husband and OK father of our two grown kids. Our kids have left for college in the past two years. I had a great relationship with both kids and I am ...

My husband says he isn't in love with me and it's tearing me apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - I don't know where to turn. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and we have 3 kids(one is my teenage daughter from a previous relationship). We have a comfortable lifestyle and a nice home. We both have good jobs we enjoy, and I am so ...

My two best friends are fighting and it's tearing me apart!

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23 June 2010 (M) - Im in what most people would call one of the biggest problems of their lives. The story may be a little hard to follow. I am just telling it how it unfolded to me. I have my best friend (male who will be known as M), who ive been friends with...

Is it normal to not have that "crush" feeling anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - Hi, Im 16 and am feeling a bit disappointed because I dont feel like I have a crush on my boyfriend of about a year anymore. By crush I mean that excited feeling you get when someone you like texts you., when he asks you to hangout, obsessin...

How do I get back that sexual attraction I first felt for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 June 2010 (M) - My partner and I have been together for 10 years. I seem to have lost my sexual attraction for him. I just cant seem to get it back. I dont know what to do. How do I get that feeling back?...

After 4 years, no chemisty and no spark left?

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23 June 2010 (F) - It feels as though as me and my bf of 4 years have become just really good friends as opposed to boyfreind and girlfriend. He seems to be fine with the way things are but im not at all. We still have sex (so i guess you could say i feel like were ...

The romantic connection is lost and I'm distracted by my crush for his friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have always been crazy in love with him. The past while he has become sort of complacent in the relationship and sort of like he is not as into me anymore and i have always tried talking to him ...

How close should one be to their best friend's spouse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* My best friend and I have much more of a family than friend relationship. We talk almost daily for hours, go on trips together, etc. I have been married 20 years and all but a few of those have been miserable. My best fri...

Help! I'm not attracted to my boyfriend at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - please help. i am not attracted to my partner at all. i love him and care for him but dont think im in love. i dont get excited about him . but he is the nicest boyfriend and would do anything to make me happy. we have a 7 month old son and i do...

My girlfriend's reason for breaking up doesn't make sense!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

22 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend recently dumped me but I can't seem to understand why. Her reason was that when she was with me she was happy but when she was not she was really down. This seems really strange and sounds like she is not giving me an honest reason why ...

Is this depth of pain after a break up normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 June 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid-- I've recently been broken up with. The world doesn't feel right anymore. I can feel my heart swelling in my chest and find myself physically ill. Driving home was almost impossible. I had to pull over to the side of the road to sob ...

Is it time to end things...or keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - I need advice. I have been with my bf for almost 4 years. We are both in our late 40s and care about each other deeply. However, his family (his kids, his parents, stepparent, siblings etc) don't treat us all that well. You would think by now, they ...

No sex for 8 years, I'm going crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - I'm lost i have been with my "man" for 12 years. we have a child together, a nice home, a buisness and a good relationship. problem is we have not had sex in 8 years! yes8!!!! no kisses no touches no nothing...it wasen't always like that the first 4 ...

Should we try marital counselling again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for 3 weeks (married 2 years). For the last 6 months of our marriage it's been terrible. During that time we went through marital counseling and honestly it was not effective. My husband wants me to return ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - i think my girlfriend is cheating and does not really care bout me bcuz she changed from wen we first met. she doesnt call me really. she goes days sometimes she ignores my call. sometimes when were out ad people ask if we are together she says 'no ...

I've come to have feelings for my wife's older sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

20 June 2010 (M) - Hi, i'm a married man for 6 months and my problem is i came to like my wife elder sister very much and sometimes lost interest in my wife. My wife elder sister is a simple person with a soft heart, she seem 2 like me as well but as i'm married to ...

I'm supposed to go on holiday with him and his mum tomorrow, but I don't want to go!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - Hi. I have been having problems with my boyfriend lately. I'm supposed to be going on holiday with him and his mum tomorrow, but i dont want to go. he said " you're dead if you dont come " because his mum paid for the rooms. We only have to take ...

How can I move on and stop loving him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

19 June 2010 (F) - I'm really hoping people can give me some insight on this because I'm beyond hurt right now. I dated a guy I'll call Sam for about a year and a half. We broke up but acted like we still were together. I went away to college and he told me he wanted ...

Has he lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 June 2010 (F) - i dont know if my boyfriend loves me anymore. we've been together for 2 years now and it seems like he's lost interest in me, he tells me he hasnt and he will argue that with me but im not convinced. he's always telling me he's too busy to talk and ...

I'm having his baby! Is it possible to ever be in a relationship with him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

19 June 2010 (F) - I've written a few posts about the similar topic but i want some advice. Im trying to recover my relationship w/ my ex, we're having a baby together in a few days, and he doesnt have any love for me left, but i want to start a friendship with him ...

How can I deal with this breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F) - Hi! I feel in love with a guy this last spring. He broke off with me and I thought he was afraid of commitment. Maybe he was so I wrote him emails without any answers. He finally mad me angry so I told him off! Then I decided to let him have his way ...

Just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, now I'm wondering about FWBs and other things!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (F) - Hi everyone Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of two years... It was me that ended it but i didnt want to. I just didnt feel it was fair to keep going with it when I wasnt in love with him any more. I know Im not ready yet but when do yo...

My girlfriend is distant because we never go out and do things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

18 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is really distant and does not seem all loving and affectionate as she was before. She said that she loves being wined and dined and my financial situation does now allow for that now. I love her so much and would hate to lose her ...