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writes:i dont know if my boyfriend loves me anymore. we've been together for 2 years now and it seems like he's lost interest in me, he tells me he hasnt and he will argue that with me but im not convinced. he's always telling me he's too busy to talk and i know he doesnt do much except school and even then he just goes home and watches tv all night. iv tried telling him to make more effort but it only lasts a day or two then he's back to ignoring me. we spend most of our time aapart too as we live 4 hours apart and see eachother maybe a week out of a month. . he does still gives me a goodmorning text and a goodnight phone call (which we sleep next to the phone because its like sleeping next to eachother) and he does tell me he loves me everyday but i hardly hear from him, he always makes plans when im not there and sometimes i dont hear from him for days. i think iv heard every excuse there is and i dont know what to do. . i know he's not cheating on me
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reader, catcatcat  +, writes (19 June 2010):
I think its normal for either partner to sometimes feel distracted in a relationship, the magic can come and go its normal, as long as you guys love each other.
I recommend ignoring him back, rather than asking him to make more effort, i.e take a different approach. Not only will he miss you and be forced to ask abt u, but he'll also "get a taste of his own medicine" and learn his lesson because u know sometimes we act in certains ways and not realise how it makes others feel UNTIL we're actually put in that position.
Good luck :)
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