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writes: I've written a few posts about the similar topic but i want some advice. Im trying to recover my relationship w/ my ex, we're having a baby together in a few days, and he doesnt have any love for me left, but i want to start a friendship with him and hopefully one day be what we once were, idk if its possible but i want to fight for what i want. I know we can become good friends and i can possibly win his heart back since i am what he once loved and we have a baby together. I need some advice from someone in a similar situation as myself. Is it possible to find what we both lost , i'll give anything and do everything to have our relationship again. My ex one day wants to try again and the other changes his mind, so i know i may still have some hope once our daughters born since we'll spend time together very often.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): i say its possible. im in a similar situation as you im 14yrs old and im having A Baby with my ex boyfriendd, we started off in the wrong path, when i told him i was having his baby he stopped talking to me 3months later we start talking and his being helpful its stresses me out though. i just hope you in a better situation than mine. as for you just be the gil he once loved and things will fall in place for some eason god gave both you a baby and that probably a 2nd chance for both of you to work thi ngs out.
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reader, Waiting for an angel +, writes (19 June 2010):
Waiting for an angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for you advice
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (19 June 2010):
I guess it depends on the reasons you two aren't together. There is always a chance at getting back together but there is also a chance that it won't happen. I've seen it happen before and I've also seen it not happen. Thats the reality of these kinds of situations, they're unpredictable. You can't make anyone feel anything they don't wanna feel or cannot feel anymore. I'd say try and get yourself to friends level with him before you focus on being anything more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): It's love that makes the world go 'round.——W.S.GilbertIf you want to do,never give up,even just for you kid.there might be some difficulties,but make a person change his mind is much easier than make a devil love heaven,isn't it?Now you killed the devil in your heart and be filled with love that your kid brings,why not try to talk with him?His child might give him duty.
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