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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I feel like I'm missing out on my youth by being in love.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 23 years old and have been in my relationship since I was nineteen, so we're going on four years now. We live together, have a dog, and are partners and best friends! The problem is... I feel like i'm missing out on my youth...

My husband doesn't mind me flirting with other men, has he fallen out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My husband doesn't mind me flirting with other men, has he fallen out of love with me? I feel as though he is pushing me away. When I mention so and so, he jokes around and says "are you flirting with him again" laughingly as if he were my friend ...

I need help to get me back on track of focusing on me and my goals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles i really need advice my boyfriend and i were having problems and i was sos deeply in love with him i stopped focusing on myself and my goals to help him obtain and find his but now i feel like i need to take a break from people ...

Could I be falling out of love ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 3years now, and things have been great. clearly there have been ups and downs, but it's generally good. Recently tiny things have been getting to me, and make me so annoyed at him. I always tell him when i'm...

10 Tips To Help You Get Over A Broken Heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Weekly I get e-mails from around the globe and recently I noticed a spike in the topic of being heartbroken. Going through heartbreak is one of the most excruciating things anyone has ever had to go through and regardless of if it's your first time ...

We live together, we don't make love as often and he goes out a lot! Any help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) - me and my boyfriend we are deeply in love and live together for 3 months and everything is going good. i have noticed that we dont make love as much as we used to before and he says that i say im always tired and not feeling good. is true but not ...

How can I make my husband leave his hobby alone for a night so we can have sex to bring back the spark in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Okay , all the lady's and Men please help me. ima keep it simple wich is the best way to bring that spark back in our marriage. If my husband tells me he is sick of me keeps on talking in an angry voice, never talks to me at all. How can i ask a ...

Do I always have to keep him chasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Help from the gentlemen out there please (although ladies' opinions will be helpful too! Ta!!!). I have been in a relationship for 18 months now, and I feel that my partner has lost a bit of his interest in me. I feel that the excitement has g...

When is a marriage just not worth trying for anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Do you think ,is it foolish to stay in a marriage ,which does not make you happy sexually and emotionally,or it is not ,because marriage is more important than some happy sex and feelings? I mean ive been in therapy to try to and save my marriage, ...

Any insight about why she may need time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now... Right before i 1 year anniversary, she freaked out. The last time i saw her everything was fine, then i recieved no replies to texts for 1 week, at first, she said she was busy, as she has a ...

Has my guy lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ive have been with this guy for over a year now . i live with him we see each other every day . were very involved in each others lives but here lately its like he doesn't want to tuch me. what does that mean, has he lost interest. i love this man ...

Please help...I love this girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - Hi, have a question my girlfriend of six months sent me this email the other day.what should I think of this.I care for her deeply.(I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but when I ask for time to get my thoughts and feelings inline, that's pretty ...

BF wants our LDR to become an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my guy for over 8 yrs now..since like school days....but it has always been a long distance relationship.. when we started i used to look very pretty and was a very confident girl....n he found this very attracti...

He's my best friend, but I don't feel any love for him anymore. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm with my fiance for the last 3 yrs and everything was going okay...but never great. We never argue, we like the same things and i know he loves me very much. But i dont know if i love him as much as he does. I love him, but I'm not IN love ...

I moved across the world to be with him-now he's not sure if he loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - This is a hard situation. I moved to another country to be with my boyfriend, he was pretty scared/nervous/unsure about it but he still did a lot for me as well as his family. I live with them now the last 6 months and he broke up with me because ...

I am not happy with him and wasn't before we got married either. How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I just got married a few months ago. I am not happy with the marriage. I am not in love with my husband. I made a mistake getting married. I knew in my heart that it wasn't right for me, but there was a glimmer of hope things would change after we ...

Lately, my gf seems to be going off me'. What can I do to keep her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Ok so I dont really know where to start I am in love with my girlfriend, I really am. But lately I dont know...she seems to be going off me. And that put's me in a really bad mood which makes our conversations not as pleasent. We've never had ...

Do I have to look like a model to keep the sex alive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - My husband does not seem to be attracted to me anymore.He does not say it ,but he never touching me or looks at me sexy... Now he is very polite guy, and kind.He is not rude with me, but I just see our sex life dead. I did put on weight over the ...

How do I break the big heave ho to him... gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hiya, I really need help! I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I love him very much, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. We met in college, when we were 16/17 and everything was great until about 5 months ago. We have bot...

I'm tired of being ignored. Is there anything I can do or say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hello, i need some advice. I have been living with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I do love him and he says that he loves me but rarely shows it. There is a 21 year age gap between us though i have never noticed it. My problem is that ...

I think he's getting back at me for dumping him when he went to prison. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for about a year when I was 21. He went to prison, and although I tried to keep the connection going, he was going to be gone for 3-4 years and I knew I couldn't handle it, so I severed ties with him (never told him, just stopped ...

He hates me! So tell me... how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have a crush on someone who hates me. Hate might be a little strong but he is definately not interested. Yet I still can't stop thinking about him. It is making my life unbearable and I keep asking myself how could you be attracted to someone ...

Since getting back together, he's made no effort to reassure me--and he's the one who cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together four years (lived together/wedding booked). he cheated on me and started going with this other girl (I didnt know), he split up with me but maintained we were on a break. Treated me really badly - didn't say sorry and said ...

How can I not hurt my boyfriend? I just don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Dear Dr,i have a 2year old son.i broke up with his dad and have been dating my current bf for almost one year.the problem is i still secretly see my ex,and we've had sex several times.i have lost feelings for my current bf and i feel am still in ...

My husband of 32 years said he doesn't love me anymore, I feel so lost and confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do am scared and confused. My husband of 32 years told me he doesn't love me anymore and wants me to move out. We split several times I left him. Funny thing I left him cause he had said before that he thought he didn't love me. ...

Why is my army boyfriend communicating with me less?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend is in the army and we've been been dating for a year and a half. The first three months he left me for basice training was real hard because we barely communicated but i received letters during his absence every week or so and ...

My boyfriend needs to be more motivated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have recently got back from a year travelling. My boyfriend and I met one year before I went and as it was something I always wanted to do I decided to go anyway and we decided to try and make it work as we really liked each other. We worked at ...

I'm so confused! Does he love me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hi i will try to keep this as short as i can. My story starts way back in Jan 2009 my boyfriend and i had a heated row the first proper row in 6 years. A few days later he said he didn't feel the same way about me anymore his feelings had changed ...

Relationship going stale...

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18 January 2010 (F) - hi I am frightened that my relationship has gone stale. we have been together just over a year and i feel as though he is fed up of me. i try to talk to him about it but the truth is i dont know where my insecurities are coming from. i cant giv...

After 5 years what is a girl to do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We now have 2 kids together. I am worried about our relationship...it seems to be fading away slowly. For the last year he has been taking 30 to 45 minute showers. This made me wonder so I looked ...

What should my next move be about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for two years. we have had rows in the past but always made up. last week end we had a huge row cos of comments that i had and regretted and apologised since for making them. I saw him sunday and he said that he ...

The spark is fading here..how do I get it back?

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15 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend seems to be losing interest in relationship day by day ...its a long distance and we meet once in 2 months ....she never tells anything and we arent talking as much as we used to do since 2 years....we dont talk even if we arent doing ...

We split, we continued to communicate, I went on vacation, she found somebody else, I decided I wanted her afterall, but now its too late

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - In August 09 i split up with my girlfriend over silly things like hardly seeing each other due to the distant.. anyway after the split we still continued to keep in contact via emails during working hours - she would continue to email me for advice ...

Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were married. How did you handle this. What decisions did you weigh out. What was the final out come. Do you feel like you made the right choice. How long did you second guess yourself. What ...

My boyfriend no longer loves me. Is it over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of six months told me yesterday that he thought we were going to to fast. In myself I knew we were, I mean he asked me to marry him a day into our relationship and we were having phone sex before we knew each others name (we met ...

Does he have male intimacy issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5455 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been dating for 2 months. He told me loved me on Christmas. Everything was going great, he was affectionate, sweet it was blissful Sunday 1/10 he broke up with me. Told me just didn't want to be with anymore that he wasn't ...

My attraction to my wife has been lost, and now I can't get this other woman out of my thoughts.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for about 9 years now and our relationship was very fulfilling until my wife had consistently put on weight. It has been an issue and she has attempted to try and loose weight but only stays motivated for a couple weeks and ...

I should never have married my husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I should never have married my husband. I never wanted to get married, but I cared a great deal about my husband and was very much in love with him, so when he asked I said yes since getting married seemed to be so important to him. I ignored the ...

My feelings for him have changed and I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hi there. i promised myself that life was too short to think about thinngs so deeply enymore so i said as a new years resalution that i would just go with the flow (with in reason of course).. then i met sean... he is a big man i mean as in body ...

Do I throw away 4 and half years of hard work for this friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 n half years now n everything was good to begin with. We have been through a lot as well and still stuck ny each other. Now, it feels like I'm.just a cook,cleaner and dog walker. I do everything in the house an...

My wimpy boyfriend makes me mad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I really love my bf, we've been together for a year and we've been talking about marriage and kids and we're only 15 (yes i know we're too young to know anything about love). we've already had sex but he's too much of a wimp and cries a lot ...

I was a jerk, we broke up, now she has a new b/f and I want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - My (ex) girlfriend broke up with me 9 weeks ago. At the time she broke up with me, I didn't realise what i had done to her, but now i can see that i was killing her mentally. I was being a complete jerk to her and being really unfair for about the ...

Why has my girlfriend suddenly changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 January 2010 (M) - Hi I have just came out of a long distance relationship that has lasted for 2 years. I had a friend at school who was very skilled at spanish and he would go on spanish forums and talk to people who lived in spain, he contacted a girl who really ...

He says we will be together but he never wants to see me or talk to me. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - Hello okay I have this problem I've been with my partner for almost a year..we use to spend every day with each otha now its like he never want 2 spend tyme with me he's says I'm annoying he barley wants 2 talk 2 me on the phne..n when I askd him ...

I'm walking on eggshells. Is he a cold person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. When we first started dating he dropped hints about being very intense and mentioned that his parents used to tell him not to be mean as a child. I didn't understand because he seemed so laid back, ...

Did that pain in my heart mean that much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I actually need your help. Im confused so much and Im seriously getting upset about it. There is this boy and don't stop reading this.. this isnt just some teenage matter. I fancied him for so long, like 2 years and i tried everything to get him to ...

My girlfriend went traveling and came back single!! I don't know what to do! Advice, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - i was going out with a girl for 6 years up until last may when she traveled to Australia for 7 months. everything was fine before she left in that we promised to stay together etc, loved each other etc. while she was traveling she met another guy ...

For the last 6 months he has been fading away from me, I just want my old boyfriend back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - ok, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. but in the last 6 months, hes fading away from me. i know hes not cheating on me but i feel like hes falling out of love. our sex life has gone crap because hes always tired, he works 20hr shifts 5 ...

He loves someone else but isn't going to do anything about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - ok i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been going out with each other for four years, about six months ago he told me that he loved somebody else but he wasn't going to do anything about it. it took awhile but i'd thought that we had worked ...

Is it possible to love someone but not want to be close to them or show it, or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hi there I am in a similar situation to many of the former posters in this forum and do not know what to do...I am at my wit's end. I met my now husband in 2006 10 and when we first dated he was very affectionate and enjoyed sex and even initiat...