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*amboy94
writes:My (ex) girlfriend broke up with me 9 weeks ago. At the time she broke up with me, I didn't realise what i had done to her, but now i can see that i was killing her mentally. I was being a complete jerk to her and being really unfair for about the last 5 weeks of our relationship.When we were together, we became really close and grew to love eachother very much.I miss her very much, and love her as much as I ever did. I really want her back but she has a new boyfriend, and they have been together for 3-4 weeks.I want to know how to apologise to her for everything i ever did to her and I really want her back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): You can't really expect to get her back, hindsight is a great thing and all you can do is learn from this so you don't mess up a future relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 January 2010):
You can't. That's the point. It's like missing the last train. There are no other chances. If she hadn't got a new boyfriend, you would have been okay to try again. But she's moved on. Even if you spoke to her, she'd just turn you away, because she's with someone else. That's as clear as it can get. She didn't even wait for you to make it up. She just ended it and moved on. Chasing her will get you nowhere and leave you looking desperate in front of everyone.
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reader, samboy94 +, writes (10 January 2010):
samboy94 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncmon people. i'm not asking for advice on whether to move on or keep trying, i'm asking for advice on how to actually get her back. please, be helpful.
thank you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 January 2010):
You can't do a thing. She's moved on. You've learnt an important lesson and that is to respect the woman you're with. She is now happy with someone else, and you have to move on.
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