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writes: me and my boyfriend we are deeply in love and live together for 3 months and everything is going good. i have noticed that we dont make love as much as we used to before and he says that i say im always tired and not feeling good. is true but not all the time. i have also noticed that he goes out alot but he swore that he been with his friends. i do believe him but something i feel insecure. what shell i do. plz help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe been together for 10 months and i have enjoye evey moment of it. that you for the advice.
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reader, Glitzy-ChieChie24  +, writes (25 January 2010):
Hello, I notice you didn't mention how long you have been in this relationship but however have been living together for 3 months, Moving in together can be alot of strain on a relationship, Maybe this has changed the way you are towards each other and somewhere along the line you/ your partner or both of you have lost or forgotten what it was that made your relationship work? I suggest you tell your partner how your feeling and if he can be willing to put back into the relationship the time you spent together and less time on going out with his friends, and then compromise on times when you both see your friends. I think it is important that you both make time to spend with each other, maybe watch a movie together, go for a walk, go out for a meal and get some romance back into your relationship with a candle lit relaxing bath, some soothing music and some massage oils. I think your relationship will be just fine if you both put a little extra into it and rekindle the romance. I wish you well.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 They say that eating wedding cake will permanently reduce a womans sex drive. There is a similar reaction in men. When they move in with a girl they stop romancing them. They for some reason think that they have won, so they stop trying. Communication, and dating on a regular basis is the answer to this. Also try not to reject his advances when he makes them, it is sending the wrong message. This is a young relationship and probably the first for both of you. You need to stop blaming, nagging, and accusing. You both need to bring back courting and seduction. This is a very common situation, so don't feel all alone in this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): if you feel insecure talking out clearly is the only way before it becomes too late
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