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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Our sex life is so limited, how can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - *MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity* My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it a...

The spark is gone in our relationship, is this letter appropriate to send?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Dear all, Okay, where to start, been in relationship for 2 years, at first was the best, everything great and now she says spark has gone etc but whats to be with me, I still have that spark for her but really confused...anyway, I have written h...

Unrequited love.... I now realize she was my first love, should I write this letter to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - unrequited love My flat mate and me fell for each other at uni three years ago. We had lived together for two years and just got on fantastically well, however despite her being a reasonably attractive girl I must admit that I didn't find her sexu...

It feels like our relationship has gone backwards not forwards!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my partner (also my sons father and father to the child im presently carrying) have recently broke up, after a cupple of days we realised we wanted to be together but the problem is, is the fact he wants to saty in his own house and not our ...

Is it true that all you need is love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my boyf have been with each other for over 3 years and he really is such an amazing guy but he has anxiety problems which he has had for over 2 yrs and it has hit our relationship hard. He never goes out or does anything but sits in the hous...

I'm not sure if my husband still loves me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if my husband of 10 years still loves me. He was my first so I'm having all these feelings that I'm not expeienced enough for him and that he thinks I'm boring. I'm not sure if he's getting sex elsewhere or if our relationship is ...

He says that he loves me, but he dumped me, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - My ex is STILL saying he loves me, it has been a month since he dumped me. I told him to stop saying this to me but he said no, and that he would always love and care about me. He said,why can't you accept my love,whatever form it is in?..What does ...

In a twisted situation......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months 16 days and for a period of time,recently,i felt indifferent towards him and wasn't calling him like i did before. Before all this, i had developed a lot of affection and like for a guy who ...

Is there a chance we'll be okay again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I had to move away, a few months ago, and things were still okay between us, this time last year he had asked me to marry him, I'm 17, he's 20 I know it's young but anyway. We've been ver...

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend but I don't want to hurt her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I dont know what to do with this situation? I have a gf that is funny, pretty, smart, but i am not attracted to her sexually. I have never felt a spark between us since weve been dating. My friends like her and find her attractive, my family likes ...

I think I moved her in prematurely... how can I get this spark back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been living together for about 5 months now, and we've only been dating for 6. Her dad is a drunk so I decided to move her out of there to come stay with me... but now it's just like I'm not so interested any more, I love ...

Help! How can I let him see that having more kids is nothing to be scared of?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - hi all could you please help. my boyfriend and me have been together for 13 years we have had our ups and downs and seperated for 3 years but stayed together, we have a 12 year old daughter and i have asked him for more children for years but he ...

Should I call off my wedding to a man who finds me unattractive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we're engaged and getting married this summer but lately he's been acting weird towards me he complains about my weight he tells me that I'm not attractive anymore, the sex is awesome, he wants it all ...

How can I help my obese wife who won't help herself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - I'm having serious issues right now... I have been married almost 3 years. My wife and I have been together since middle school except for 3 years after high school when we broke up and dated other people. When we first got back together, all of ...

Help!!! Is she just not interested in me any more...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My girl hasn't made love to me in over four months and this has never happened before. She allows me to make love to her but she doesn't return the love. Is she using me? or is she just not interested in me anymore? I am so confused. Also I ha...

Is he embarrassed by me or bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I got a question. My boyfriend been acting distance lately but he don't think so. I would ask him to do stuff with me and he be like no. He download games for me on the computer but when it comes down to us doing stuff together w...

Closeted lesbian, homophobic society and loveless relationship, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I am a 30yr old lesbian from a small town in India. I have a problem which is weighing my heart down because ending my 5 yr relationship seems to be the only solution, i can formulate. I hope you will be patient in reading my letter and giving me ...

He's been taking me for granted, but now he's talking about how much he needs me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has been taking me for granted lately and I began pulling away to do my own thing. Last night he told me that I don't love him or care about him anymore. I responded "if this is a break up, just be up front with me and I will go on with ...

Is there anyway we can maintain a good and healthy long distance relationship while I'm on a summer exchange program?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are happily attached for about 2 months already. But now I am going for a summer exchange programme overseas for a period of 3 months. I really feel very insecure about long distance relationship and so does he. As he is not s...

Would you date someone like that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has a high school diploma ad he does not know if he wants to go back to school, while i am getting my bachelors. he does not have a bank account, he is not that intelligent meaning he can not really read or spell that great. ...

Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Okay basically; im in a relationship with a boy who iReally love. iLost my virginity to him which makes the situation more complex. He is impatient and takes things a bit too literally when he knows iDont mean it. iReally want to be with him but ...

My wife is not sure she wants to be with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - MY WIFE IS NOT SURE SHE WANTS TO BE WITH ME I've been with my wife for 10 years but now tells me she does want children but not sure if it's with me and that she doesn't think she has feelings for me any more. We've had loads of really good time...

What should I do? I love him, but he keeps hurting me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - hi everyone, Well first a little background. I am gay, fully out to my family and friends and I am accepted by all of them. My boyfriend is bisexual, hes not out to anyone in his family and only out to a few friends. his family is very conserva...

My boyfriend of only one month is avoiding me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hi i'll just get right to the point. My boyfriend of only 1 month is avoiding me. He stoped calling and hardly ever emails. The last time he emailed he cancelled a date so I called him to say it was all good and I would talk to him later. He acted ...

He never wants to go out, spend any money or do anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Ever since the beginning of the year I have felt different towards my boyfriend of 6 years. I used to feel a connection, but now not so much. We still get on very well, but it's like we have separate lives, despite the fact that we live together. ...

I can't stand the sight of my alcoholic husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - hello i have a question about my marriage we have been together for 12 years in the past 5 years we can't see eye to eye my husband is now drinking very heavily and only wants sex when he is tipsi and i can't stand the site of him when he is ...

I'm afraid to leave her because I'm her entire world. I don't want to be stuck like this either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

20 April 2010 (M) - Well, I am in a rut, and so I decided to post a question out here after reading around and seeing some very helpful answers. However, I've yet to see a case much like my own. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now, and knew her for...

How do I handle a workaholic husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - How to handle a workaholic husband? I really dont want to end this 20 year long marriage,but my husband is pushing it to my limits.. He is working on the computer, so his work hours are 9-10 everyday or more also on the weekends. He is totally ...

I love him as a person but there's no sexual spark!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Is it right to stay with someone who you love very much as a person, but the sexual spark isn't there? I love him and want him to be happy. I know my being with him makes him happy, but he is happy with me just being there. I want so much more, like ...

Boyfriend needs space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years and currently we live together. He just told me a couple weeks ago that something in our relationship has changed and he thinks he needs space to figure things out. The truth is we had been fighting a lot in ...

I ruined something beautiful and now he doesn't want to know me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - hii...i am an engineering graduate. i got attracted to my classmate when i was in first year. he was interested in me too.we started talking and liking each other a lot. we used to converse in phone calls whole nights..even till 6 in the morning... ...

I'm not completely satisfied with my girlfriend, need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

17 April 2010 (M) - I'm confused about what to do with my girlfriend. We have been together for approximately 4 months. It has been a wonderful experience, but in so many ways I'm not sure if I'm content. Many would consider her very attractive but certain f...

He has time for his friends and revision but none for me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - Lately, my boyfriend has been really confusing me. He keeps telling me that he wants to see me, but I always feel as though he doesn't. We used to see eachother a lot - his excuse is that "people change". He tells me he needs to do revision as h...

We've broken up countless times, but this time I don't want him back. What if I'm making a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I had been for my boyfriend for little over 3 years and a half. Of course, we believed we were soulmates. He was my first boyfriend, first love, etc., and he had plans to marry me next year. But of course it wasn't as rosey ...

What do you do when you want to leave someone but feel stuck (because you live with them)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3 years, and I love him deeply. However, when we moved in together 2 years ago, our relationship turned into a rollercoaster. Things will change for a little while, and everyone is happy, then he will regress back to ...

Has she given up on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (M) - So me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now. We broke up because she didn't like my lifestyle at the time. You can say that I got into the mix with the "wrong crowd". Since the break up, I've totally cut ties with those people, and ...

How can a person fall out of love overnight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

13 April 2010 (F) - So here is a background, my boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. We live about 1.5 hrs apart and see each other at least once a week. He's a firefighter so on the days he is working, he can't always text me. He has this big test ...

How do I get my boyfriend to care more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 years. We are both 22 years old, have part-time jobs and go to University full-time. Recently, I feel like my bf seems to care less and less about me. I know he loves me and cares for me, but ...

Boyfriend knows I don't love him but still wants to keep trying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - I told my boyfriend i wasnt inlove with him,i said i think am still inlove with my ex...i even went 2 the extent of trying 2 break up with him because at that time i was feeling guilty about d whole thing.but he pleaded with me and told me to give ...

Should I file divorce? Is enough enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

10 April 2010 (F) - Do I leave my husband?? I need help please. I have been married for 17 years and have two beautiful children. However I feel that I need to put an end to a failing or failed marriage. I feel that I am in it just for the sake of the children. S...

How do I leave my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 April 2010 (F) - hey, i really need some help! Been with my boyfriend with 2.5 years, and live together with 2 other housemates. I havent felt that things are right for a long while but recently its been even worse. hes always been v opinionated and argumentative. ...

Is my relationship at it's end If I am unhappy and find myself irritated all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

8 April 2010 (F) - I am just so confused. I've been with my bf for almost 3 years and we have a one year old,but I don't know if we were meant to be together. I find myself irritated at many little things he does now. For example how long it takes him to get ready to ...

Are we on the rocks? His arguing is getting me down..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

6 April 2010 (F) - *Op's own title* Hi, I am currently in a long term relationship, and until recently it was great, just the normal sort of thing. We would argue like any other couple, but make up quickly and laugh about it after. I was really happy, and after a w...

Losing love for my brainy boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

6 April 2010 (F) - hey..m in a comitted relationship since 9months. its a ldr..and last time i visited my bf was 3months back.well in terms of acaedemics my bf is very brainy.he studies in india's top coaching class.. last year he only studied for few days and lef...

I want to feel the way I used to about him to save our marriage, what do I need to do to get it back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

6 April 2010 (F) - Me and my husband are both in the Marines and we got married each other after knowing one another only 5 months. We were so crazy about each other at that time though. The problem is, the first year of our marriage was horrible. I felt like he ...

Choosing Between Them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Im still not over my ex and its been 2 yrs, it hurts me. I have so much feelings for him, yet he didnt even kiss me. He lost interest in me at the start of the relationship, thats why he didnt kiss me, and blamed it on my shyness, and told me a yr ...

How do I get her to love me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

4 April 2010 (M) - Ok where should i start !!! My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years. She moved in with me after we dated for 1 year. In the last 5 years we have been threw it all... I have cheated on her both emotionally and physical, and even tho ...

Have I lost him forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

4 April 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend are in a relationship since 1 and half years. things got worse.we fought over some issues. and now he says, he wants space. i begged n cried but no use.he is really upset and wanted to break-up instead but since he doesn't want ...

He used to be affectionate, now he doesn't even answer my texts!

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3 April 2010 (F) - This guy is acting damn strange! When I'm with him he acts very sweet! He speaks to me so well.. Hold my hand in midst of the other folks. Previously, he used to call me every time I got back home and text. Now, nothing! He doesn't even bot...

Mixed messages from my ex-girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

3 April 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago. Things were going great for a while but later she wanted to spend less and less time with me. She asked me if we were going to be bus buddies and I said yeah if you want to be and she said well "duh, ...