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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months 16 days and for a period of time,recently,i felt indifferent towards him and wasn't calling him like i did before. Before all this, i had developed a lot of affection and like for a guy who i befriended when i went to the university last august. My feelings for my friend became very strong from january 2010 to date and i know the feeling is mutual from his actions and from what he has been telling my girlfriend. What i don't get is that he tells my girlfriend all this and hasn't said anything to me and he tells my friend he wants to back out,dismiss his feelings for me and carry on with me as a friend but his actions towards me says otherwise. In addition to all this, my boyfriend cheated on me with a girl he claimed was just a friend whom he was helping ward off advances towards her and himself by pretending to be dating. We are in different schools in different parts of the country. Please, i need suggestions as to what to do.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (13 November 2010):
 You boyfriend cheated on you. That's difficult in itself. You are in different parts of the country, that's hard to hold down a relationship sometimes as well. You are of an age group where lots of dating and getting to know other people is the norm. Let your boyfriend know that you don't want to be tied down for the moment and then you can both find out what it is you really want. How do you know he isnt seeing anyone else now, he's done it before. You sound like you are getting curious as well so to have a break from him now would be the best thing at this moment in time I think. Good Luck
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