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30-35,
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writes:Im still not over my ex and its been 2 yrs, it hurts me. I have so much feelings for him, yet he didnt even kiss me. He lost interest in me at the start of the relationship, thats why he didnt kiss me, and blamed it on my shyness, and told me a yr after the break up the truth that he wasn't into me. We were best friends now thats over. Our friendship is broken and theres nothing i can do to fix it. Its like this situation.http://www.postthelove.com/entry/6a0120a8417d7d970b01310f4f5a48970cI've met a new guy im not sure if i like him, i feel like i will never be able to like anyone as much as i liked my ex, which i dont mind because i dnt want to be hurt again, but i feel guilty its unfair on the new guy. He seems interested, and i have a little bit of feelings but i dont want a proper relationship with him. Will this make me a hoe, even though i know i wont be doing anythin sexual i still havent kissed. I cant go through the heartache again, i just want to keep things casual and simple if anything goes further. Some of my friends dont like him but i dont care they think he's a jokeman and is the type that will use me for sex, he's completely different to my ex really loud, funny not shy in public always dancing around and teasing me, strangely he's shy when its just me and him. Sometimes i think i like him over times i think i dont. I dont want to lead him on, i just feel emotionally numb towards boys except my ex. I feel bad that i still want him and i have an oppourtunity to move on but im still holding on to my ex even tho i've cut contact with him now.Advice much appreciated thank u x
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reader, Lpslancelot  +, writes (15 April 2010):
Move on. The only reason you were into the first guy so much was because he was not into you.
Thats the way we work. If someone doesn't like you that much it make you like them a whole lot. If you don't like someone very much it will make them like you even more. I know it sux but thats how humans work.
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reader, chanelcarlyne +, writes (10 April 2010):
I can kind of relate to what you are saying because I was in a similar postion as you a few years back when I was 16 (im 20 now) I had a boyfriend in high school that lasted little more than 6 months but feelings grew. One day some time before graduation he broke up with me. The reason doesnt matter but where Im trying to go with this is I felt for much time that I would never meet anybody like him that he was it for me. I was stuck on him for years until one day O realized we were never going to get back together. I started dating and since then have had several interests in other men and now a relationship with another man for year now. So move on girl open up to other guys and you will find somebody else... Really just keep your mind open to other guys while still being careful with them to avoid getting hurt.. Sorry it got long but I hope I helped a little
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