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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I had to move away, a few months ago, and things were still okay between us, this time last year he had asked me to marry him, I'm 17, he's 20 I know it's young but anyway. We've been very happily in love, and well the past few weeks we've had a few disagreements. About three weeks ago, he had asked for a break, I obviously didn't want it. But he said he thought it'd be best for us. I couldn't see how it would. (I wish I had back then now though :'( ) Anyway, a few days ago, my boyfriend had changed, he stopped really showing any love towards me, he said he does love me and he misses me... thoughAnyway.three days ago, it got to the point where I couldn't do anything. :( I had to give him his space, so I told him "You' aren't single, but I will give you your space" - because he asked if we were together or what... :/ He said he needs to fix him before we can fix us...Now.This is the 3rd day: I don't send any texts. :/ he doesn't neither. :( !! I only send a "Goodnight I love you xxx" text at night... he replies saying "goodnight I love you too" No, we don't see each other because I don't live near him anymore..The night I said "you're not single and so on" he sent a text that night saying he was an idiot, he said he was sorry for speaking horribly at times. I'm better off without him now, and he said he does miss me and love me...I don't know what to do.Does he want to be with me? If I send one text a day: at night saying goodnight I love you... and he carries on sending one back at night... is there a chance we'll be okay again? Does he want to be with me? It's just his problems are getting to him? Please, please help me. :( I hurt so much. :/ Thank you...
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 There's something he's not telling you. It could be another girl, it could be personal problems, it could be anything. Until he tells you EVERYTHING that is going on you two will not be fine.
A long lasting relationship needs honesty. Without that, it won't work.
Is there a chance it'll be ok? Sure. But ONLY if he tells you everything.
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