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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Worried that my boyfriend may be going off me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone Sorry if i drone on in this but i really want some help please My bf and i have been together just over 6 months He is my first ever bf and im in my early 20's We used to be long distance as he was away with work a lot but now ...

I feel like I've been forgotten by my girlfriend... should I just end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - latley My girlfriend hasn't been acting the same. She just got back last week from us being a apart for a month. She went home for break. For the past week I feel like i've been forgotten. She doesn't call, or talk to me. It used to be that ...

She flirts in chat and on texts and takes stuff from me...is it time to call it a day??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Lately (my now ex fiance)was calling me by a different name several times daily. I since found she`s yet again been flirting in chatrooms and also now by text.When asked about it, she automatically turned on me, and as usual got angry and started ...

Sometimes, I feel nothing when I kiss my bofriend. What could be missing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much; he’s so caring, loving and sweet. I really don’t know what else more I can ask for. However, some times when I kiss him I not sure that I feel any thing why is that? What could be missing? ...

He scolds me, he short tempered and the sex is horrible! Should I just go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - Ive had a 20+ relationship with someone and he just left his wife. At first we were suppose to get a place together and things quite did not fall into place. Now a month after his move, he's been acting different towards me. He has been very ...

He seems distant--Is his exams really stressing him or is it me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - hi ive been with my boyfriend for about 8months we met through friends but we only see each other on weekends as were at different universitys we phone and text all the time probably ten times a day but for2weeks he hasnt been texting so much or ...

She doesn't pay me much attentions anymore and I don't want to lose her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

24 January 2007 (M) - I have a huge problem ! OK, me and my girlfriend are going on 6 months with each other. in the beginning thing were great. We hung out more we talked more and our love life was good. but recently she has taken things down a few notches and ...

How long will my doubts last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 5 years and this past year he has been kinda of acting out. Saying things like I don't know what i want to do. Whether to proceed on to the next step or be my himself or what. I'm wondering how long does this type of ...

How do I get him to want to be with me more? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - i just want my bf to want to spend more time with me... he says its impossible to send a lot of time together but the truth is its just too much work for him and he doesnt want to...how do i get him to want to be with me more???...

She wants to be friends but should I still ask her out on a date for Valentine's Day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 January 2007 (?) - i want to ask this girl i really like out on valentines day. before i went on holiday i asked her out on msn, she said she just wants to be friend's right now. i went on holiday for 4weeks. now i'm back. suprisingly every girl who rejects me never ...

My husband takes me for granted so I cheated on him with a guy at work. But this guy is married aswell. Who should I choose? My husband or the married guy at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for 20 years to a guy who takes me completely for granted, we have no kids because he doesn't want any (I do!)Just lately I have been attracted to another man at work. I got a new job working in the same office as this man, I ...

Four years and four million reasons not ot trust her !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

20 January 2007 (M) - Help! Very confused! I really hope someone answers this question as i feel like banging my head against a birck wall.I met my girlfriend whilst in the first few months of an attempt at university. We got together very quickly and it was the first se...

At first things were great, but now it feels like I don't matter anymore. Why has he changed towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - i've been with my long distance boyfriend for over a year now. Dispite the distance, at first things were great. He made me feel so wanted and loved..which before was something I didn't think i'd ever feel.But now things seem to have changed so ...

Does marriage counselling help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I seem to have let love slip away. Now I feel no love or respect for my husband. I am ready to leave but feel that it is worth it to try to get it back. Does marriage counseling (or one of these highly advertised alternatives that you can order) ...

Meeting this other girl has made me realise how bad my current relationship is!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I am in a relationship at the moment and have been for the past 5 years. For the past year or so things haven't been great and my partner has felt very distant and unapproachable. We don't talk as much as we used to and we keep having rows ove...

Things just dont seem the same, can we recover??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and 2 weeks ago she said she doesnt want the relationship anymore, due to the arguements etc. She said she still wanted me and loves me. We agreed to give the relationship another go and try ...

My gf says she doesn't love me anymore! What am supposed to do? Help me plz

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

18 January 2007 (M) - my girlfriend say's she doesn't love me anymore, what am i meant to do? i have been with her for the last 9 months, she say that her feelings have gone and she doesnt feel the same way anymore, but only a week ago she told me she loves me, i really ...

My head has been turned by a colleague, now I no longer love my wife. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - To be honest you may have been asked this very question a million times and it must be the hardest to answer! Its is a matter of a married person who thought he was in love with his wife only to find a true love without looking. Ok here goes. I...

He's forgotten about the "little things" and I don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost two years. When we first started going out, he was really sweet and attentive. And now some things have really started to change. He doesn't kiss me anymore unless we are having sex, he never ...

I find my husband-to-be an irritating little nerd... give me a wake-up call

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6490 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I find my bloke an irritating little nerd! Honestly, we are getting married in 8 weeks time and he gets on my nerves. He picks at my son (aged 15). States all the jobs he is 'going to do' and nothing gets done. He works shifts and sometimes we don't ...

My partner shows me no love or affection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - my partner does not show me any love or affection or tells me that i am important. this has been going on for around 18 months now and he knows how i feel but he tells me its alll in my head. i have asked if we can go to relationship coulcelling but ...

My boyfriend doesn't want sex anymore, and whenever I make an effort to look good for him he has negative things to say. Should I leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - Hi I'm writing because I'm very, very unhappy in my relationship!he won't have sex with me!! in two months!!! and I don't want to cheat should I stay or leave him? I've been with my partner now for two year when we met he said that he wanted to ...

He blows hot and cold!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.We live in the same house and are getting married. My question is Why does he not seem to care how I feel at times and other times he can be so sweet? I am not sure how to read him....

Been married for 11 years and we are having marrital problems. I think it's time to get out. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

15 January 2007 (M) - I feel like it is time to get out. I have been married for 11 yrs. with 2 kids.(Whom I love dearly) We have had marrital problems in the past do to my actions. 8yrs later, I still get comments like-where have you been, your girlfriends? why ar...

I am stuck here in our apartment with someone who I don't think wants to be with me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for over a year and a half.. everything was going fine and he asked me to move in with him because he was going to law school and I was going to college. We have been living together for about 6 months now and he is ...

He says I am too good for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6519 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - I dont know what to do in this situation, my bf and i have been together for approx 2 months at the beginning he was loving and caring and wanted to spend time with me then i hurt him by saying i wasnt sure how i felt about my ex but realised it was ...

Our sex life is non-existant. I even get the feeling she'd be happy if I left her and the kids. How do I save our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years and I have 3 beautiful kids. I love her and used to think she did too. However, she just won’t have sex with me. It went downhill after our first baby but that was OK – she just needed time right? Now our youngest is 16 ...

Boyfriend's addiction to porn is ruining our relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Iv been with my bf for 3 years, im 20 and his 25, the problem is I work all day and when I come home I often find evidence that he has been getting off to porn, it really bothers me because he says that his sex drive is low do to some medications he ...

I've fallen in love with my best mates daughter, but I don't want to hurt my gay partner of 16 years. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - ive been in a gay relationship 4 16yrs and have fallen in love with my best mates daughter im not happy in my relationship and have not been for a few yrs now but we have 2 children together so its stopping me from leaving her as i dont wanna hurt ...

Husband can't control his own finances so he leaches off mine and lies about it! Please someone give me advice on what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - My husband had a heart attack in September followed by quadrupple bypass surgery. While I have suspected serious financial difficulties - my suspicions weren't nearly as monumental as what I found while he was in the hospital. When I went to clean ...

Not sure if I want to have a boyfriend in my life...is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Hi! I was told to keep my question short, so I'll write in point form. -I'm 19, attractive (at least I like to believe so), sometimes shy -the problem: I've never had a boyfriend -I actually dated 2 guys, one for 2 months, and the other one for....

When she's at Uni, it feels like she doesn't care about me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - i feel like lately me and my girlfriend are not that good, its only when she goes to uni it all messes up, i start this october and will be nearer to her, but while shes there alone she goes out alot and it scares me cause i dont know who shes with ...

He keeps wanting to see me even though we have broken up. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - first of all, i want to thank those who answered my question coz i could assure u i took all ur opinions into consideration!!xx now i hav another prob!(surprisingly enough)...i told my bf how i feel about wanting to be single and he didnt take it ...

We both can't see us growing old together. Can anyone help us get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) - My wife informed me that she had kissed one of her female friends three weeks ago. prior to this i had expressed my feelings, that i did not trust this woman and i did not think she was the good friend my wife thought she was. Now i am can't get ...

She broke up with me, but still frequents all the bars I go to. My heart's broken, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) - I (21) was with the girl (24) for the last three months, she chased after me all summer n finally when i caught on we got together n were really good together.. we ended up starting a relationship and we did fall in love, she told me she loved me ...

Should I text my ex I've been sleeping with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6525 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - My ex and i split 8mths ago. We've slept together twice since. He came for dinner a week ago and text to saw it was lovely. I've not spoken to him since. He left my place of work on thurs. Doubt i'll see him again. We saw each other and neither said ...

I don't understand why he doesn't want to sleep with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - hi, i wrote about this problem i have a while ago and while i got some answers im still confused so i thought id ask again! rite. iv been going out with my boyfriend for around three years. he is a really nice guy and we get on really well toge...

Should I back off? Should I send her flowers? What should I do!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) - I need you guys' help. I am 30 and my girlfriend who recently dumped me is 20. Don't ask me why but we just hit it off. Recently we have been arguing a lot lately and she has changed a lot over the last month and a half. Total time we have dated ...

I feel like he's only staying with me to spare my feelings... so should I break with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 5 years, and we've been long-distance that entire time - he is in the UK, I am in the US. In the beginning, we decided that the only way the relationship would work is if we planned at what point we would be ...

We were supposed to live together, but he became distant and says he wants his own place. Is he not in love with me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6530 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He is from England but we have spent about 10 months total of that time in the same place, usually living together. He is in the process of getting a visa to live with me for a year on a ...

Boyfriend dumps me for the second time. Why does he carry on doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - dear agony aunt, my boyfriend dumped me again for the second time but told me 2 days later that he made a mistake and that he wants me back, he says he really loves me and doesnt know why he did it. he said that we would talk when he got back from ...

Is this a normal "guy thing" or does it mean he has 2nd thoughts has about our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. I know he loves me but thats not the problem. We have a long distance relationship but we meet up regular, and talk everyday so thats not the problem either. The problem is he has mood...

He broke up with me, but I don't understand why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - i was with my ex boyfriend for a month but knew him before. everything was perfect my mum knows his parents an an she liked him an his parents liked me, we spent christmas together and thats the first time i ever spent christmas with a boy. he was ...

I'm prepared to do anything to get her back. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) - hi, just wondering if anyone out there has any advice to get my girlfriend back? we had been 2gether 10 1/2 years (engaged for 5) and i thought everything was fine, geting on as normal etc. then out of the blue 2 weeks before xmas she told me she ...

He lies continuously and cheats on me. Why do I put up with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - I have been involved with a man for 7 years. When we met i was 21 and he was 35, married with 3 kids.(he did get divorced), supposedly for me. over the years he has lied and cheated, yet he says that i am the only one he really loves and would ...

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

This question has 198 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

We got back together after he split w/ me - then I cheated on him. Is one more try at our relationship even worth it at this point?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years back in August. We split b4, last October 2005, as he wanted a break and liked someone else. I found someone else he came running back, I then didn't want him! 3 mths later and I started thinking ...

Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

3 January 2007 (M) - I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...

Does he still love. So many mixed signals, I don't know where to turn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - I have asked this questions before, but I am still struggling and still crying myself to sleep....My ex and I split after a year in MAy 2006. I did not take it well as it was so unexpected and we had only spoken about marriage 7 days before. We ...

My bf's ex is obsessed with ruining our relationship!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - ok my bf's ex is sending me mental she is still madly in love with my bf so is trying to break me and him up. here sum stuff she been doing looking at my myspace and texting him about any chnages i have done ( this one back fired when she told hi...