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writes: dear agony aunt, my boyfriend dumped me again for the second time but told me 2 days later that he made a mistake and that he wants me back, he says he really loves me and doesnt know why he did it. he said that we would talk when he got back from his holiday trip which will be on saturday and i havent heard from him since then. my question is why does he keep doing this everytime he gets insecure he dumps me and it just hurts me more and more every time.
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reader, Farris  +, writes (5 January 2007):
 Did he even give you any reasons for breaking up with you in the first place?
It sounds to me like he doesn't even have enough respect for you to actually be honest with you.
Also, is it possible that he broke up with you just so he can do things with other women whilst he's on holiday? Even if he doesn't sleep with anyone else, he quite obviously isn't in love with you, because he anticipated taking the opportunity to be with someone else.
Don't be drawn into his lies. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): I agree with the other poster.
What you can do is to refuse to talk to him again. If he calls on Saturday just tell him you're no longer interested and don't ever want to hear from him.
Why should you put up with this kind of treatment? Dump him!
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 Because he's an insensitive jerk that only wants you around when it's convenient for him. Lose him.
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