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writes:I've been in a relationship for 5 years and this past year he has been kinda of acting out. Saying things like I don't know what i want to do. Whether to proceed on to the next step or be my himself or what. I'm wondering how long does this type of doubt usually last and should I stick around for the end result? Reply to this Question
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reader, intoodeep  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 I am experiancing the same problem. It is definite to dig into his emotions. My boyfriend of 2 years has been acting up for awhile now and I have approached him about it, yet it seems not to get through his head. He understands what he needs to do differently now that I talked to him, but he doesn't follow up with what he knows is right. Good luck and let me know if what you did works, maybe it will help me!
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Shandy, is right. Your thoughts matter here as well. What are you feeling? Is he the right guy for you..Is he the one you want to be with forever? It's normal to evaluate the relationship before taking a big step like that. If the doubts are making you uncomfortable...ask him exactly what it is he doubts about you. You may be surprised as to his answer. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): You have a future too. What exactly do you want. You two need to sit down and have a long chat. Decide what you do want. Do you want to sit around waiting for him to decide. I wouldn't like that! I would give him his marching order, sorry, but he either wants you 100% or not at all.
Take care
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