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writes:latley My girlfriend hasn't been acting the same. She just got back last week from us being a apart for a month. She went home for break. For the past week I feel like i've been forgotten. She doesn't call, or talk to me. It used to be that we would spend everyday together and never tired of each other.Also when we are in the same room she doesn't treat me like a boyfriend other than the ocasional peck on the cheek, she treats me like another one of her guy friends.But in her defense her parents were in town the past week and her room mate had 4 other girls in the same apartment also for the entire week. So I can understand her difficulty in trying to treat me the same but they all left Sun morning and she still hasn't changed and I don't know what to do. I told her that we need to talk but she got all mad at me. She thought I was trying to break up with her, but I really do just want to talk about this. We've been dating for almost a year and we've both said we love you and I don't want to break up with her but I don't know what to think anymore. Should I just end this and see if I can find someone who would treat me the way I should and want to be treated?? Or is this just a rough patch that every couple has and we can work out??Sorry about its length and I have more details so if you need them feel free to ask and I will gladly give them to you I just didn't want to make this post tooo long. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): hey man im sorry your feeling the way you are and the way things are going it doenst seem good. well ive read alot on women psychology and one of the things that might be different is her attraction towards you. thats what sparks everything at first and you need to build that back up. i know you guys been dating for a year and you love her but dont become a wussy because thats when she'll turn away from you. Make her want you back, pretend it doesn't even affect you, if you want, play that game "hard to get" with her and she'll want you back. i hope that i've given you some advice i truly do. i've been in your situation and she's probably not calling back or acting the same because she got bored. So make yourself a challenge, next time she wants to see you put off the day and tell her you're busy but in a way that your still interested. What ever you do, dont succumb to her. Make her want you and i guarantee she'll want you back. alright hope it all goes well. take care
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reader, Skintooth4 +, writes (31 January 2007):
Skintooth4 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well for all those who care I just talked to my girlfriend and she broke up with me. Said that she needed to prove to herself somethings and what not. I'm still not quite sure what happened I'm in a state of shock so yeah i got not much more to say. other than women can be such bithces. I mean just last week she took me to dinner with her parents and then today told me shes been thinking of breaking up with me for a while. THEN WHY THE HELL TAKE ME TO DINNER WITH YOUR PARENTS???
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reader, Skintooth4 +, writes (31 January 2007):
Skintooth4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell for all those who care I just talked to my girlfriend and she broke up with me. Said that she needed to prove to herself somethings and what not. I'm still not quite sure what happened I'm in a state of shock so yeah i got not much more to say. other than women can be such bithces. I mean just last week she took me to dinner with her parents and then today told me shes been thinking of breaking up with me for a while. THEN WHY THE HELL TAKE ME TO DINNER WITH YOUR PARENTS???
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reader, Skintooth4 +, writes (30 January 2007):
Skintooth4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFor Shandy POP I am 20 and my girlfriend is 21. And I am supposed to talk to her today bout this so I will update you all later. Thank you for the advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): Ok, so how old are you two? Maybe she feels a bit trapped and is a bit too young to stay in this long term relationship. If you two have been together for a year then surely you can talk. Try and sit her down and find out exactly what is wrong. It cannot be that bad. You cannot just give up on someone because they don't seem the same. You need concrete evidence to finish. Get to the bottom of it and try and sort it then you can decide what your next course of action is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): I agree with eddie, if you jump ship so easily you'll never stay with someone longer than a few years.
If you love each other then rather than assume this is breaking up material try being honest about your feelings and tell her what is upsetting you. She will not want to see you unhappy I am sure. When two people love each other things are easily fixed, you just have to practice good communication with each other - don't get scared and assume the worst and think things like ending the relationship. If you don't want to break up with her then don't even think it - work at fixing the problems, I'm sure it'll be much easier than you think it is. There is nothing better than getting through a problem and being able to look back on it together, it's what makes couples strong. All the best:)
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 You've been going out for a year. One rough week and you want to pack it in? THAT doesn't make sense. Just talk to her. There might be something else bothering you.
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