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*ames dean
writes:I have a huge problem !OK, me and my girlfriend are going on 6 months with each other. in the beginning thing were great. We hung out more we talked more and our love life was good.but recently she has taken things down a few notches and we don't talk for long on the phone. We don't see each other very often (1-2 times a week.) She has alot of guy friends and it's very hard for me to trust her around them simply because i am not around her.I'm afraid to breakup with her . I love her..We seem to get into lil arguments almost every time we talk.In my past relationship, I was lied to even though I trusted her. she cheated on me.and now it feels like the same thing is happening. My girl says she is stressed. has mid terms,work, planning a prom. But i will be talking to her on the phone and she always has another call or tells me to hold on. She never really has her attention fully towards me. especially when we haven't talked all day and it's 10 at night.and she posts pic's on myspace with another guy and her. eating pie with each other. she says there just friends. i don't know what to do..can you please give me some advice ?i don't want to end this relationship-I want to save it..
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reader, tallbloke +, writes (12 February 2007):
Just ask her outright if she wants to break it off. If she says yes, it'll hurt but at least you have the truth & you can move on from this. Also it'll make you look cool & you can walk away with your head held high knowing that you had the strength and the maturity to do the wisest thing :)
You're in limbo at the moment, there is nothing worse that stewing. It's ruining your life when you should be enjoying it.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): Sorry to say matey but it seems to me that she doesn't want to hurt you but you seem to be doing that on your own ! She is trying to tell you but you seem to be blind to this girl ! I can see that you think far too much of her and Not nearly enough about yourself You are the most important person to you ! Dont forget that ok Go find sombody that will return your feelings But remember CHILL theres no rush try devolping your self esteem you will be very suprised and you will find true love one day and you will know ! Ive being there ! Good Luck
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (24 January 2007):
 It seems like you're the only one in this relationship. You say you are afraid to break up with her because you love her. Love is a two way street. It's tough to love someone when they don't love back.
I'd give her some space and see what happens. I'd also start going out and meeting new people. There may be nothing here to save.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): i don't think im in the right place to give you advise right now but i just want to say ur not alone.. I feel exactly what ur going through...
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