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Archived questions from: January, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Did I just ruin the best thing that's ever happened to me with one bad decision?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2155 days ago

29 January 2019 (?) - I feel like a complete fool. Tonight I did something stupid and opened a message on my fiance's phone. I didn't even read the message bit then lied to him when he asked me if I had read his messages. I did come clean and it has really upset him. He ...

Do I have cold feet or am I overthinking? I feel marriage is a huge responsibility that I want but I'm not ready for

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for two and a half years, and engaged just two months. We've always had a great relationship. I was so touched when he said yes and soaked up all the engagement bliss during the first month. During the sec...

How much do guys tell their friends about their dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - I'm wondering how much guys discuss their love life with their guy friends. I tell my girlfriends everything, who I'm going out with, whether we hooked up etc. I'm on a dating site and I was seeing this guy who I liked for about a month. We only...

He’s obsessed with his appearance and I’m becoming I attracted to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - Hi all, so I’ve got an interesting issue that I’d love some insight on - so I’ve known my partner 11 years and have been together 3 years. He’s over 6ft tall, blue eyes and the buffest guy you’ll ever see yet he remains very modest (ie doesn’t ...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal? He's admitted to going really strange sexual things relating to the girl he liked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2155 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - Hello. I’m starting to become a little bit freaked out by my partner. I just wanted to know how “normal” this was. He’s a normal man, hardworking, provides for the family, kind, caring and loving. He hasnt had many girlfriends in the past due to ...

I just found out that he's married and having an affair with me behind his wife's back! I want to run but he makes me happier than I've ever been. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - I have been dating the love of my life for 4 months. I am an extremely introverted person, but felt extremely comfortable with him from day 1. The connection that we share is indescribable. He is the sweetest, most loving man that I have ever met ...

If he wanted to see me, why doesn't he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

28 January 2019 (F) - I met this guy online about a year ago, he lives an hour away from me. He kept messaging me about how beautiful and hot I was and said he wanted something fun and non committal. I said I wasn't looking for that and wished him luck in finding it. A ...

He doesn't have a life beyond me and I don't like the pressure that it puts on me. I want a way out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

28 January 2019 (F) - Hey all! This is a hard one for me... I am 26 years old and so is my partner. We have only been together about 3 months now. The relationship moved VERY fast, and we were saying I Love You after a month. I always told myself I wouldn't do that...

I feel like he likes me but isn’t sure about taking the next step?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2163 days ago

26 January 2019 (F) - So I’m in a bizarre situation at the moment. I’m 20 years old but I only just had my first kiss with this guy I really like. We met at a party and started messaging every day. I was going overseas so I invited him to a friends party - he didn’t ...

He's coming on too strong, talks about sex a lot, has a child with an ex. Should I ignore these red flags?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

24 January 2019 (F) - So about 6 months ago I met this attractive guy.. we met in a cute way as I got him lost accidentally by trying to help with directions, and he later gave me his number and name, which I hadn't asked for. I added him on Facebook and he messaged me, ...

Why would my boyfriend's behavior suddenly change? How do I approach him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2166 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - Hi hope someone can help I’ve been with my fiancé for 7 years now we have had a lot of trust issues due to him sexting his ex girlfriend I ended it but we talked and I gave him another chance that was 5 years ago just recently whenever he has text ...

How can I show him without lecturing, messaging too much or irritating him that it would be great if we were exclusive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - Sorry but this is long , Me and this guy met on a dating site 3 month ago. We both deleted our profiles but are not exclusive. I told him i want a future with him and he knows how i feel about him. His words were lets just go with the flow. im ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to go out on the weekends! He just wants to lounge around and have sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2164 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't want to go out on weekends and just stay in and lounge around and have sex all weekend. He says he's tired as works all week but I'm getting bored not going out with him and I feel every time I bring up the subject it becomes a ...

I need my boyfriend to want me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2166 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - i recently met this guy and i feel good about things. He is well hot and seems v nice. The trouble is he is a bit backwards at coming forward. My last B/f was like a mad stud in and out the bedroomanad we would just do stuff were and when ever. Th...

How do I overcome my fear of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2168 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 6 years. He sleeps over at my apartment every night and has a bunch of stuff here, but we live apart. He has been trying to get me to move in for at least three years now, but it is a mental block for me. Almost everyone ...

He deleted his dating profile. Did he meet someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - Ive been on 4 dates with a guy I met since Oct. I blew him off a few times because I was worried having sex too soon would ruin things but i do really like him. I was tired of all my past relationship mistakes by sleeping too soon and never getting ...

Why is he so reluctant to move in together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

22 January 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of 18 months is reluctant to move in together. We have discussed it and he has said that he wants to, in the next year. But when I try to talk about it he gets grumpy and seems uninterested and irritated. For example, I had to go home ...

I’m sad and lonely and find myself masturbating too much. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

21 January 2019 (M) - ive just turned 30 and I've been sad and alone recently. Every time i asked a girl out either: they're gay, not dating "right now", or see me better as a friend. recently things in my life haven't been going well. personal failures and lif...

I’m going to see my ex, is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2169 days ago

20 January 2019 (F) - My ex and I broke up a year ago due to him moving, and me being in uni still for the next year. Fast forward a year later, and we reconnected and are still in love with each other. I got a great job here in my city after I graduate in a few months ...

I lied to my boyfriend about the time frame last time I had sex before him. He STILL doesn't know the actual truth. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2166 days ago

19 January 2019 (F) - Hey all! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We are both 26 years old and in very transitional phases of our lives. We also recently (within the last year) ended long term (3-6year) relationships. Both relationships we...

She’s become obsessed with getting a visa and I feel neglected!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

18 January 2019 (M) - Hi everyone I lived with my girlfriend for 2 years and everything was great, then she had to leave the country and we've been long distance for 1 year. She has decided we should get married so i can get her sponsored to come here. The problem is, ...

My partner's behaviour towards me has been very questionable ever since he lost his job. What's going on here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

17 January 2019 (F) - This is a little uncomfortable to write, I'm not sure if I'm the problem or not. I've been in a relationship for 2 years and up until about 8 months ago it was really care free, relaxed, and just a joy really. Now, however, it's... I don't ...

I see his ex as a threat. Am I being silly or do I have reason to worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

17 January 2019 (F) - I am probably being silly but my partner was married a few years ago and been divorced over ten years. He has told me that how he feels about me is far deeper than his ex wife, he said he was very unhappy with her and he looks back and knows it was ...

Should I contact my boyfriend again or just give him space?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2172 days ago

16 January 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 months has suddenly gone odd. We had pet names for each other on social media. He not really spoken to me much in the last few days. Today he cleared the nicknames we had for each other and he wont reply to any message i sent him ...

Should I tell him what I know and see if he has had closure from the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2172 days ago

15 January 2019 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, he is awesome, treats me like a princess, (him and I met in January 2018,) but in early 2017, he started going out and getting to know this other girl which was in his day to day work ...

What would my deceased boyfriend's family think of me moving on with his cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

15 January 2019 (F) - My sons father passed away almost two years ago and I’ve been single since then haven’t even Pursue anyone since. Recently his cousin that I’ve never met started coming around a lot lately and once we started communicating we started to like each ...

How can we get married when my LDR man doesn't get a job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

14 January 2019 (F) - I have met a wonderful guy, it's been 15 months in our relationship, I have introduced him to my family, they accepted him, I haven't met his family yet because we live in different countries, we met through a friend, he is a good man, problem is, ...

I can't climax and I'm worried he will leave me because of it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

14 January 2019 (F) - Hi, I am in need of some advice. I have been dating a really nice man for over a month. We have been intimate with him a few times. It was an amazing experience even though, I did not climax. He seemed really worried about it. Would tell me when I ...

Is she The One?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

14 January 2019 (M) - Okies, I really need your help with this one. I want to make this the year I sort this out. So, I have known my female friend for 10+ years and I liked her from early on. We have lived together even shared the same bed (platonically) a...

We aren’t in a relationship yet, but I’m concerned about his sister-in-law!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

14 January 2019 (F) - We are not yet really in relationship yet, we are getting close there. His brother family is living with him. Recently he told me that he feels like his brother’s wife likes him, she kept trying to be close to him. Few time she tried to hug him from ...

How to impress a woman on a Speed Dating event

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

12 January 2019 (M) - This question is mainly for men but the ladies can chime in as well. If you meet a woman for the first time and have only 5 minutes to talk what will you ask or say to her that would leave an impression on her? I am asking this because I go ...

I have fallen for my boyfriend's cousin and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

12 January 2019 (F) - I was in a weird relationship with this boy , I’m 20 now he’s 24 I met him when I was 17 but it was really just a hi and bye thing he was dating my cousin at the time and they were sweet hearts . Me and him got involved when I was 18 and my cousi...

My boyfriend's 12 year old doesn't like me and boyfriend will not step in and do anything

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

11 January 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a bit of a dilemma and seriously need some advice. I’ve been with my bf now for 7 months. We both love each other And have spoken frequently about marriage and living together. However here is my problem. I have met and get on ver...

My partner makes it out like I am thick and always wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2177 days ago

9 January 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship now for 6 years but he is so annoying at times he makes out as though I am thick and I know nothing about anything im always wrong in everything I do from tidying the house up after his mess to looking after our son I work 2 ...

My boyfriend tries to have anal sex without my permission. Does he not respect me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2094 days ago

9 January 2019 (F) - I am 64 female,boyfriend is 60,seeing each other for 6 weeks now and have had amazing sex,he is much more sexually experienced and into porn very much. He tried to enter me analy without asking me and I jumped back because it really hurt,told him ...

My boyfriend won’t stop lying to me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

8 January 2019 (F) - Hi I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months. He just turned 19 and he goes to college 5 hours away. This isn’t a problem we started dating Way before he started college and he didn’t plan on picking a school that far away but we make it ...

Boyfriend says he doesn't have time to be with me when I am sad or upset

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

7 January 2019 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 months has been staying away from me for a few weeks now after we had this fight. It was over the matter regarding my promotion and i was talking to him about it and got carried away talking about the promotion related other stuff ...

Is he actually seeing someone? Am I just entering a situation I shouldn’t? What are his motives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

5 January 2019 (F) - I’ve been talking to a guy (via messenger) for around 10 months now, we originally met on a dating site. It’s very casual and flirty but we’ve not met due to us both agreeing the distance was a bit too far, however after months of us both dating o...

I thought he liked me but then he went ahead and completely ghosted me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2181 days ago

5 January 2019 (F) - To make a long story short: Started talking to this guy online..We hit it off. Met in person about a week later. Had great first date. He texted me when he got home to tell me he had a great time and wants to see me again and said he is inter...

How do I approach a fine woman to talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

5 January 2019 (M) - so i saw this fine woman at the gym today and i wanted to talk to her but i dont know how to start it off or approach her...what should i say? when and how should i approach her? ...

The man I have a baby with won't commit to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

4 January 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my daughters dad going on 7 years. We have talked about getting married but he’s never proposed or really made that step to commit. We live together and he provides for me and my daughter but when it comes to talking about getting ...

After a nice first date, why he hasn't asked me out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2186 days ago

3 January 2019 (F) - Hi All, I recently met a guy through arrangement from my dad. My parents and I together with his mom and him met for thr first time through lunch. The guy and I didn't interact much in our first meeting but we exchanged phone numbers. Days af...

Why am I not as interested in sex as I should be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

2 January 2019 (F) - I dont quite get it. Im 22, have been having sex since i was 16. I've never really been one for it thoughm and it seems like the older i get the less it even interests me. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and things were hot and ...

Do you think I should stick the relationship out and if so, how do I tell him I need a bit more support?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

2 January 2019 (F) - Need a little advice please! I got out of a very serious relationship early last year and since moved to the city in a houseshare and regained my life again. I became best friends with one of the housemates and the other moved out a few months...

I love him but he doesn't feel the same way about me..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2176 days ago

2 January 2019 (F) - Ive written a few times on here but im starting to feel low. I am dating a guy and at the start we were both looking for a relationship he would do and say things that made me think he wanted more than where we were at. He has said he doesnt feel ...

My brother is too touchy-feely with his girlfriend in public and it's embarrassing!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - Would you say anything in this situation or stay out of it. My younger brother is 25 he is dating a really nice girl who just turned 20. He is a good kid, never been in trouble before. It’s very plan to see that he is head over heels in love wi...

Why would a guy hold back from sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - Why would a guy hold back from sex ? ive started dating a guy for the last 4 week (we only see each other no-one else ) we have done everything apart from sleep together. He did say he wanted to wait until date 5 before sleeping with me. He ...

I'm sick of him screaming at me night and day. Should I leave? What if I don't find anyone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

1 January 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since I was 18, I'm now 26 and we've lived together for 3 years. In truth I feel like he is my 'comfort blanket' - I feel safe around him, he makes good decisions etc. And looks after me, I feel safe having him there, And ...