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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Do I stay and hope that all these things will happen with my partner or do I leave and find them with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid. As I leave 2017 and start 2018, I'm wondering if I should stay in my relationship of three years or walk away...because within these three years he doesn't seem interested in saving.... I'm 24, he's 23...We are renting togethe...

He's losing interest. Is he trying to get me to break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly a year (it will be a year in February 2018) suddenly doesn't like it when I touch him. I don't mean sexually, I mean casually. I don't understand why. This has never been an issue before. He has been legitimately getting mad ...

I don't want to continue this relationship but I want my money back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - I start to resent my boyfriend of 3 years for some money I lent to him in the past. I will explain, he asked me if he can buy a phone with my credit card because his phone was not working at one point and he was having some financial issues. so I ...

No sex in 3 years! Is he gay? Am I just a cover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

30 December 2017 (F) - i've been seeing this guy for three years now I only see him on a Saturday till sunday, some times not even that we haven't had any sexual relationship yet sleep in the same bed , he said he don't think about sex ever , yet I found Viagra an durex ...

My partner's sex drive is lower than mine and I've started developing feelings elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

30 December 2017 (M) - Gay male in a long term relationship for 3.5 years with another gay male, similar age. For the first six months of our relationship, we had sex multiple times per week. After that it petered out and since then, we only have sex about once a month, ...

My boyfriend planned a week long New Year's party at his parents' holiday home despite knowing that I wouldn't be able to make it because of my upcoming exams

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

30 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend [24M] of 6 years decided to throw a week long New Years party with all our mutual friends (roughly about 20 people) at his parents holiday home, which is couple of hours drive away, while I [23F] stay back and study for finals for grad ...

I feel my girlfriend is cheating on me... With her ex husband's new wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

29 December 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her "S", for about 11 months. She has a 4 year old son, I have no children. She's divorced, and it was rough. He was an abusive, meth-head a-hole. I've never been married, but I've been cheated on ...

Can this violent, abusive relationship be saved?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over two years now. We have a house together and before we moved in, we had a great time. However when we moved in, he kept throwing parties and his friends would strip naked and jump into our bed, be ...

Could he be ashamed of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I’m in a new relationship (few months) with a man about 6 years older than me. I adore him and he’s a sweetheart but I am finding that we tend to argue a bit too much over silly things , we never fall out though and we make up with each ...

I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but something is holding me back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2494 days ago

27 December 2017 (M) - I've recently been dating a lovely girl for the past 2 months but we haven't made it "official" so to speak. We'll call her Sofia. She's 25. We've dined together, slept together, taken pictures together, and text each other virtually every ...

He's not for me and I don't know how to end things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - I started dating a guy just over a month ago, things were very exciting the first couple of weeks, I got the butterflies and could tell he was really nervous when we had our first couple of dates (even though we knew each other about 10 years ago) ...

Girlfriend getting friendly with my colleague. Should I worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

27 December 2017 (M) - My girlfriend recently became friends with one of my work colleagues on Facebook. On Christmas morning, whilst I was still asleep, my girlfriend sent my colleague a message saying Merry Christmas along with a selfie of herself fully made up. She's ...

We're both 26, been together 3 years and done nothing sexually beyond kissing! It's just driving me up the wall!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

27 December 2017 (M) - Have been dating for over 3 years, we clicked in more than one way and we're fond of each other. We're both 26 and haven't had sex yet (both virgins) . It's likely she hasn't ever had an orgasm or done much "exploration" on her own either. I have ...

How do I tell my mum that we're back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - I've been through a bit of a messy break-up in the last 6 months. Naturally I turned to my mum for advice/someone to cry to. I've told her a lot of the problems me and my bf had been having, and how he'd been treating me. As far as she's concerned, ...

Is she interested? How can I tell and how do I tell her without sounding too full on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

26 December 2017 (M) - Hi, I hope some of you can offer me some good advice. A colleague of mine left a few months ago and we got on like a house on fire, so I was a little upset when she left for another job. I also was really attracted to her, but not wanting to mix b...

I'm low on cash but why are dates so weird with me but good to other girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - I am underemployed, I am very up front with guys that I am not earning much. I even offer to alternate paying/split early on. However men I date are very funny about my financial situation. An example is a guy who I dated recently who boasted to me ...

Is it right for me to ask her out despite my financial situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

25 December 2017 (M) - I know a girl and we're at that stage between a friendship and something romantic. Lots of flirting and caring and checking in on each other regularly but I'm between jobs at the moment and I have no idea about the immediate future and when I'll be ...

All he wants is sex, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since July and I don’t know him he loves me he says he does but all he wants is sex I love him with all my heart but do I stay or leave should I wait a year ...

I'm ready to get back into the dating scene, but there are a few bridges to cross first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - So, to start off, I haven't dated anyone or pursued anyone in any way for over a year now, but recently, I have been thinking about getting back into the dating world now that things have been going great in my life as far as my health and financial ...

His depression is sending me back to my depressed days

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - Hey everyone . I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months at first everything was great as usual , weve got to know each other really well in that time and hes told me he suffers really bad depression .I have tried my best to support him in any way ...

Will he wait for me to be ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend got his very first teaching job this fall teaching music at an elementary school. I always knew he would be a great teacher, he loves kids and music is his passion. We met last year in university; he is two years older and kind of ...

Do I buy him a Christmas present?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - Hey all.. I've met a lovely guy - on tinder actually - we have had 3 dates and have both come off tinder as we have agreed we would like to see where this relationship goes. We are seeing each other again on Saturday.. but Christmas day is Monda...

I feel my boyfried obsesses over petty tips!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - Hello I'd like every one's opinion on this : My boyfriend is very big on tips. He worked as a waiter at a small restaurant for a few years and currently an Uber driver. Every day he would tell me how this rider or that rider promised to tip ...

I am never approached by men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I am about to turn 23 in a year and I have never ever been approached by any guy anywhere before in my life nor have I ever dated anyone. I know it is not due to my weight because I am thin and petite (some people tell me that I even look as young ...

I feel I shouldn't move in til he sorts his children's visitation issue.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now. we live separately for the moment he has his home and I have mine. He has asked me to move in his home but, I have declined at the moment for this story I will tell. he has 3 children 9,10 and 18. I have ...

My boyfriend regrets telling me about the woman who gets naked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have a predicament. I've been dating a really nice man for the past year. However, there is this one friend of his family member who in the past 10 years has removed all her clothing and targeting him lets just say more than once. He swears he has ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to be near me when I am sick.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for past 2 years and it's going on good and we meet on weekends and stay together on weekend. One thing that concerns me, not sure if I should be, he doesn't want to meet and around me whenever I'm sick, he says he doesn...

My boyfriend wants me to do stuff, I feel stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been togetehr for a while now and he wants to go further. I’m not sure if i’m quite ready for anything because i haven’t done anything since my last boyfriend. Me and him both have don’t stuff, but with other people ...

How do I get started with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

19 December 2017 (M) - Little background: I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. Total geek, overweight, and not handsome/physically attractive in anyway. Basically no redeeming qualities for the opposite sex. I've long thought about just seein...

1st date, he touched my butt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - So i was texting my coworker for almost 2 months and sometimes we were flirting and sometimes we were talking about work or trying to get to know each other. He has no girls, he does not drink like me, and he does not go out so often.Finally 2 ...

He wants sex 2 times a day or more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - I started seeing a mew guy. I really really like him. Hes very very affectionate which i love. However, he wants sex/relief twice a day, sometimes even more! The other day he woke me at 3am to have sex, but in the morning he wanted it again. Every ...

Would a guy settle for one woman if he can't have another?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - A guy complained that girl A does not like him. Girl A treats him indifferently. At the same time the guy was, and has becoming closer to girl B; who has always been in love with him. This guy and girl B having a relationship now. It seems like the...

Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...

Three men and I can't date them all. Who would you pick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - I appreciate your help in advance. I don’t know what to do with these three men in my life. I’m 40 years old divorced with one child. My ex husband who is trying to take me back and hasn’t moved on 3 years after our divorce. I know the first guy who ...

Is my boyfriend too sexually demanding?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend around half a year. He has really bad anger issues which he has been trying to control but he still has his outbursts. One of the things that triggers these outbursts is when I don’t give him head when he wants it. ...

Her kids and mine are cousins, is it okay to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

16 December 2017 (M) - So I have started to date or have been with and seen, my ex wife’s brothers ex wife I have a son with my ex and she has two kids with her ex who is my ex wife’s brother. Our kids are cousins but we both want no more kids. We both feel this could be ...

Do I need to step out of my bubble with this outgoing guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles I'm not in any precarious situation but just looking for some advice on things in my relationship i've just not encountered before. About two years ago I left a long term relationship, it was wholly amicable and ende...

My negative body image is ruining my life in every way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, without going into too much detail, I used to be overweight through out all my teen years, and after a major depression for a period of over 3 years, I was obese at 340 pounds. Over the past 2 years I got weight loss surgery and have...

In a long term relationship, partner isn't paying attention to me, I'm cheating on him with someone who's also in a relationship but isn't "long term boyfriend material". So confused! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - Hi there, so I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, living together for 2. I’ve been completely loyal until now, but have been feeling unhappy and a little taken for granted for a while now. My boyfriend has a good heart and is loyal, but he is also ...

How do I get the power back in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I started an affair with a guy from work around 1 year ago, who actively pursued me. The relationship I was in was physically and dometically abusive and around 5 months ago after police involvement I left him and moved out on my own, which was ...

I'm doing all the work in the relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I really love him and feel like he could possible be the one to walk into my future with. He carries a lot of baggage in regards to sexual abuse, drug abuse and so on. He is taking anti-depressants ...

I always seek validation, but I shouldn't really need it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - Why do I attract these men or better yet these people in my life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 next month and I am at a dead end with men . I have stoped daring and having sex for the last year an a half but I don’t jnow why I attract men that are ...

He wants me to change, I want him to love me as I am.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I'm feeling kind of hopeless in the relationship I'm in. We'e been together nearly 10 months, age gap between us is 15 years. We get a long great, there is so much chemistry. We love each other very much. There is however an issue that we find ...

My boyfriend is being brutally honest and I can't cope with it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

12 December 2017 (F) - Been dating for a year and it's the BEST relationship I've ever been in. However, he's starting to be brutally honest and I'm not liking it. I've told him how I felt, even cried and I try to avoid certain topics just because where it can lead to. He ...

Hard for me to tell if he is genuine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

11 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I’m just asking for advice because I’ve been out of the dating game for a while and I’m not sure how to go about pursuing a relationship. Basically, my ex and I broke up in March and it took me until October to really get over him. I ...

I want to work on myself and stay single. How do I keep from letting men distract me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

11 December 2017 (F) - Hi ladies, as the end of 2017 is approaching I’ve made a decision to be single for awhile. It seems like 2017 was full of meaningless sex with people I thought it would work out with and it just ended up not going anywhere. So I decided to work on ...

Do I owe her an apology?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

11 December 2017 (M) - Dear cupid, Guys I've done something stupid and I don't know how to make it up. I feel like I am a dirt bag for this but I feel like I was being taken advantage of and I lashed out. See I've kind of sort of been seeing this girl for the past 7 m...

Do I tell my girlfriend about an unwanted kiss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) - Hi I am a male aged 25 , I have been with my gf for almost 2 years , I am studying abroad so we are in a LDR for like a year , yesterday I went out and I was with my friend there and he talked to a girl and I was his wingman and started talking with ...

I was cheated on and now feel like every man will cheat on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Basically, one year ago I ended a 3 year relationship with a guy who I figured was cheating on me. I was devastated and I think it has affected me a lot in all my relationships with people. I doubt everything anyone says to me. I recently met a guy ...

This is the second abusive relationship I've been in. Am I picking the wrong type of men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Last night my boyfriend punched me in the mouth. I've left him. He asked me not to leave. But I said I have to be alone right now. It came about after an argument over a male friend of mine. My boyfriend said that my face lit up when my friend a...