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writes:Hey all.. I've met a lovely guy - on tinder actually - we have had 3 dates and have both come off tinder as we have agreed we would like to see where this relationship goes. We are seeing each other again on Saturday.. but Christmas day is Monday and I'm panicking, should I buy him a present??I mean I wouldn't know what to get him as although we go out and talk and laugh all night i dont know his particular likes..We haven't had that conversation, how should I bring it up? Do I bring it up or would I sound needy?Any advice on how to handle it would be great x
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 December 2017):
 You could find something small and Christmasy - box of cookies, little mince pies, something along those lines but nothing bigger or more personal.
It's still the getting to know you phase, so don't overdo it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for you replies, it took ages for my question to be posted and we saw each other last night. Thankyou so much for your replies thoug. I got him 2 small gifts.. he's got me 4!... I like what i got him but they are small I just hope he likes them, and his card is lovely whereas mine was just a normal one to him. Gentle tip to others, stay single till boxing day!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for you replies, it took ages for my question to be posted and we saw each other last night. Thankyou so much for your replies thoug. I got him 2 small gifts.. he's got me 4!... I like what i got him but they are small I just hope he likes them, and his card is lovely whereas mine was just a normal one to him. Gentle tip to others, stay single till boxing day!
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (24 December 2017):
 Carry a small gift in your handbag. Nothing personal but something general that you would gift an acquaintance. If he gives your something first, then you can give him his gift. Otherwise don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2017): i was with my boyfriend for 3 month , in that time we had my birthday , his birthday and christmas , we didnt buy each other anything in that space of time . if i was in his shoes i wouldnt expect anything and if he does then hes greedy to want something so soon after meeting
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reader, singinbluebird +, writes (24 December 2017):
 Nope! Three dates only ? Just send a happy birthday text or when you see him, a small Christmas treat only. Keep it light and easygoing for now :)
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