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female
age
18-21,
*eys.theresa
writes:Okay so me and my boyfriend have been togetehr for a while now and he wants to go further. I’m not sure if i’m quite ready for anything because i haven’t done anything since my last boyfriend. Me and him both have don’t stuff, but with other people and we are still virgins. I am very insecure about myself and i’m not sure if i want to let him do anything to me. We kiss all the time but he’s always grabbing me. Like my thighs, butt, stomach. I’m okay with it until he gets really close to my vagina, that’s when i move or tell him to stop. He’s always trying to talk about doing stuff and i kinda just avoid it by saying "i don’t know" or telling him "i hav etongo" stuff like that.I have no clue what to do about this. Please Help.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (22 December 2017):
 Whether or not you let him have a grope is up to you. If his technique is crude you might want to give it a miss until he learns better.
However leave the full-on sex until you are older. There are a lot of issues which come with the physical act that are emotionally complex, notwithstanding the fact that you should be at least 16 years old to meet legal requirements. Then insist on his using a condom should you decide to complete the sexual act. Protection is paramount every time.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (22 December 2017):
 First of all, well done for saying no; it's hard to do.
Secondly, you shouldn't be having any sexual contact at your age because it is something that only brings trouble.
Thirdly, he is pressuring you and that's not okay. If you don't break up with him, he will continue until you give in and that's not a nice boy to date.
If you won't break up with him, at least avoid being alone with him.
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