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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I feel like my boyfriend has double standards!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Today was Easter and my boyfriend left me alone. Though I am not religious at all, it's a holiday and we had agree to at least see each other (actually, he even got a bit sad when I said I'd spend the day with my family, instead of with him). He i...

I've just found out he has a baby son! He never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been seeing a guy casually for nearly a year and a half now. I am developing strong feelings for him but now I have just found out that prior to meeting me he got a girl pregnant and had a baby son. I found out from one of his friends not him ...

Girlfriend wants space but I don't get mine.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Please be honest and tell me if I'm being unreasonable. Today my girlfriend told me that she wanted some space to spend with her friends, etc. I completely understood and said that that was absolutely fine. I left her at hers and went about ...

How can someone walk over you and leave like you don't exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Why does someone think that it is ok to just walk into someones life, make him love you, and then just leave and not want anything to do with you for no reason?...

I don't know how to play the game of being chased

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have a problem with being pursued by men/boys. I don't know what is wrong with me but I don't know how to let a man/boy pursue me and work for me and my attention. It causes problems because I always drive away the boys that I like because of my ...

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at ...

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed ...

He said "I love you" after only 2 weeks and it has really freaked me out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend told me he loved me when he was drunk after 2 weeks...? It really freaked me out and I said nothing back. Should I confront him about it and tell him I don't think love is possible until about the 6 month mark and that it made me feel ...

I know there's plenty of fish in the sea but I want this cold fish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - So there's a (busy) guy, we met at university; we're in student council and other organizations. I know him for 5 months, and after 3 months, I got feelings for him. I told him I liked him (which he already knew as we flirt). He told me he had...

I think I set my standards too high for girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi Guys, I feel like I have a very odd problem. Now, I've never been great with girls, the only time I've ever slept with people is when it pretty much falls right into my lap, like I've never done a huge graft for it, so I feel like I lack co...

I want to see him again but things got awkward. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - last night i met a boy who i have mutual friends with at a club. it was a big group of us and we got off. but he was really sweet holding my hand and talking as well for most of the night. the thing is despite hinting he wanted to meet again, things ...

How do I tell my partner nicely that I don't like what he does without even asking me if its alright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - This is a difficult situation so please bear with me and read it all. My partner and I have been together 4 years, we have gone through alot together, his mum passed away and we took on her home/debts/ money etc. We have only just started to g...

Who do I chose? My g/f or my best female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months. and she gave me promise ring but I havent seen her for almost 3 weeks cause her car broke down and then got sick from her a bff female and the kids. But I have a bff female that we have bee...

My deployed Bf does not trust me anymore. How can I make things better between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hey , I have been with my deployed boyfriend one year and half . We had a great time sure it were a lot up and downs like everyone else. I do love him so much and want to work out things . It just he seems still hurt from his past... And he d...

Does eye contact mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - What does it mean when a guy gives you eye contact when he walks past you? Does it generally mean that he finds you attractive (Do guys normally give girls eye contact when they find a girl attractive)?...

Fear of rejection keeps me from asking him out to lunch

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I like a guy who works at the market I only spoke to him once an basically said he was really funny ever since never spoke to him since now everytime I walk by he stares at me an I turn red an look away also he talks to everyone but me I like him ...

Should I be worried that he's still not over his ex yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sex...

I just want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Alright so I'm almost sixteen, the only serious relationships I've been in have had to be secrets cuz the guys were older than me. I've done everything but have sex. Now I seriously want a real boyfriend! Problem is is that I can't find anyone I...

Should I keep that little place in my heart for him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I used to date O years ago he was sweet and we had known each other since we were just 6. We lost contact and I met M who messed me about constantly but I was young and in love. He dumped me for someone else. O asked me out again I said yes bu...

What are the best options for me, if I don't want more children? I do want to get back to dating and put my life back together. What if my soul mate wanted children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I thought about getting back into the dating scene but I might meet the guy of my dreams my soul mate but I don't want to have anymore children. I have three and I have experienced a hard time with their fathers. My oldest daughter and son share th...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

He makes me feel uptight. Should I stay with him? I can't relax with him as he gives me "grades" on basic domestic skills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So this is probably going to seem like a really bizarre question but I want an outside opinion on whether this is weird or I'm just being uptight or something. So I find that my boyfriend makes quite a few corrections about my messy habits aro...

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

Would it be wrong to date my cousin's ex boyfriend?

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30 March 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to date your cousins ex boyfriend? They have 2 children together. I dont feel like its wrong but i am worried about what my family will think... My cousin's ex is doing really good for himself now has a good job and takes really goo...

Should I text the guy I had first date sex with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hello I asked a question last week after I (stupidly) had first-date sex and I am still not sure what to do. This is my original post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sex-on-the-first-date-how-can-i34.html OK the thing is, we had sex and...

We've been together for 5 years but I'm getting urges to date other guys

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together for 5 years and I love him with all my heart but lately I've been feeling like I want to date other guys. I feel really guilty and it's been eating at me for the past few days. He noticed ...

If he refuses to give it up his drinking and his abuse, then would I be right to leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend drinks of a weekend...not a problem but when he has a drink he either turns nasty and sometimes violent or the complete opposite...he stinks of beer and i hate it! we are arguing about this issue constantly, his reply to me 'nagging...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

He is a wonderful man. But I'm not sure if he's the one. Should I wait a couple more years to see if things changes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We started dating our junior year of high school. We are both the same age now. I've been out of college for two years and he still has a year left. I guess now that I'm done with school and found a g...

Who makes the move? How do I know when is the right time to kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi do I wanna know if it is the right time that I should kiss my boyfriend. So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for a year and I want to finnaly kiss him. I am afraid that he'll tell someone cuz he usually tells people a lot of crap ...

How can I get over my insecurities regarding my body weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - How can I get over my self-consciousness? I'm 20 years old, have dated a few guys in the past, but things didn't work for various reasons, most being that I just didn't "click" with them. Now, I'm overweight. In person, I have thick thighs and ...

Am I with the wrong sign?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I'm a Scorpio and in a relationship with a Virgo. We have been dating for about 5 months now and it’s been fun and kind of romantic. We've known each other since childhood but he decided to tell me he was in love with me during my 17th birthday ...

My brother's friend has a girlfriend and yet he keeps staring at me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - One of my older guy friends (whom I like a lot but only as a platonic friend) whom I met through my brother last year literally won't stop staring at me every time we meet, despite the fact I don't see him around too much (I'm at uni though I ...

I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid I'm holding onto him for the wrong reasons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - Hey everyone, I've been pretty sad today and would like to try and get some opinions and advice. This is going to be quite long and I'm sorry, I just want to explain this as well as possible so please read it all. I am 19 and my boyfriend is 23 and ...

He's so rough that I find myself sore afterward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Whichever way I say it, it will sound awkward so here goes.. I have only had a sexual relationship with one guy, as many I didn't really know what to expect blah blah blah so I pretty much let him do anything. He was quite rough especially when ...

Should I move forward and contact her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - ok simple questions here for girls or any guys that know from experience. So a couple months ago (sometime in January) I reconnected with a girl I liked in high school. We haven't talked in nearly 12 years and in January we had a nice long chat on ...

It is sad that our society is so quick to reinforce the idea of "old maids"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - So, I just want to challenge an attitude that I've found rather unappealing on here. Recently someone asked a question about a woman who was single at 42. She had never married, and Fatherly Advice presented the view that if you have not found a...

Trouble in figuring out this college girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - There is this girl in my once a week class that i'm into and i'm pretty sure she likes me too, because I've caught her staring at me more than a few times;not that she's just staring without looking but that whenever she does and we make eye ...

How do I tell this girl that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi cupid I am planning of telling a girl that I like here. I am seeing her for two weeks. how should I proceed and what exactly be a good way of saying that? like.... well, I wanted to tell you I like you?? ...

Why can't I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I have tried to have sex with my women two times this week and my penis has not worked well at all. Even with her giving me head ....I don’t know what to do. I only 32 and this has never happened before! What is wrong? ...

I'm 36, no boyfriend. I want children! I feel like I'm OLD and time is running out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - All of my friends have found significant others and have been married for a while. I was in a long term relationship that didn't work out. He left me after 7 years together for a 25 year old. I find myself single, 36, no prospects. I'm in college ...

I want children and what if my almost 39 year old girlfriend can't have them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I m a 40 years old man. I never had a chance to find someone who I wanted to share mylife with and have children with until a year ago. I had girlfriends but never anyone who I could marry. I m also an only child, as my mother had me in her lat...

Dilemma--ex girlfriend pregnant wants me back but I'm dating someone else now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Well, in late nov I met this rlly cute gurl n we really hit it off and we had sex for first weekend and we had sex again a week later n she told she took birth control. And she had her period in the same week. And then she blew me off n hurt me n we ...

He hasn't tried to hold my hand nor kiss me or anything. Should I believe him when he says he wants to be more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a guy and we have been hanging out 2-3 times a week since then. I'm very confused by him though. In the few short weeks we've known each other, I've met his family, we made plans months in advance, we are doing couple things b...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

Help! My Boyfriend keeps on hanging out with this other girl. Pays no attention to me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does. That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with...

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

What can I do to attract girls and still be fun to be around despite my life choices?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I don't drink, smoke nor enjoy going out, this makes me boring to a lot of girls. I have no desire to do any of those activities. So what can a guy like me do to attract girls and still be fun to be around despite my life choices? ...

How can I help my boyfriend and get him to open up about what is troubling him? Or does he need some more support than I can offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Well I'm back together with my long distance boyfriend and everything was great, or so I thought. Lately he's been slowly going back into his old habits we talk less almost not at all and when I do talk to him his responses would be "i don't know" ...

Help, dating younger guy, and he cheated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I am writing for any thoughts, ideas, or help in what has become the worst thing that has ever happened to me. I started seeing a much younger guy 3.5 years ago, (he is twenty years younger). I knew from the very beginning things could only be betwe...