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Dating: Help and advice

How can I tell if shes really moved on from her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I'm only 15 and you may think that this is only something trivial but it's tearing me apart! This girl I know I really fancy and I have for quite a time now. She has recently (2/3 weeks) split with her boyfriend who cheated on her (twice) and she is ...

How can I increase the intimacy in my relationship slowly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I recently got a boyfriend and he stayed over at my house. We were lying on the bed fully clothed and he took my hand and slowly guided it to his penis and i rubbed. he groaned nd it felt immense to feel him. I want to do more but start clothed.. ...

Are guys just automatically wired to like women smaller?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Can someone please explain to me why before you lose weight you are told the infamous line of "you look good just the way you are" by your signifacant other..but as soon as you drop 20 lbs they are all over you and the sexy,hot compliments are never ...

She says she loves me, then that she only sees me as a friend! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - There is a girl that i really like, well love. she loves me too. she said so herself. she also said that she would love to date me. but when i asked her out, she said "it would seem weird for me to call you my bf because your my best friend". how ...

1st date and I'm really nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Im nearly 16 and have got my first date ever coming up this weekend!! We're just going to spend the day together chilling and chatting in the sun by the sounds of it which sounds perfect to me but Im really nervous :( I've never had the chance t...

Worried about b/f's health and weight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hi :) my boyfriend is very heavy for his height and age. We've been together 7 months and I love him so much that I've actually realized sometimes i dont even think about what his body looks like because I'm so happy just being around him. But I do ...

Is being 'too cute' a good thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - alright, so here's my situation. i've known my best friend for almost 5yrs. and he's always been there for me, always, he's great. and a couple of months ago i told him that i was in love with him and a week ago he told me that he has feelings for ...

I was so wrong, How can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last week over something that I thought happened when I was drunk but didn't actually happen. Now I wish I could undo it, but he doesn't believe in getting back together. He thinks it never works out. He thinks that ...

I've fallen for my online BFF, should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - So I met this girl online and she doesn't live to terribly far from me, a few hours. We've been talking for literally about a year and a half. I really like her, and I get the feeling she feels the same. However, she is a really good friend, one of ...

Football for 10 hours a day!!, or is he avoiding me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - i'm 16 an my boyfriend is nearly 18 and in the last few weeks we just kinda growing apart. we live far away so dont see each other that much but we used text all day everyday but over the last week or two he has been spending more time alone like. ...

Long term relationship gone forever???!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mods Note, OP's own title: im 18 and i have been seeing this boy for 5 years of my life. hes 18 also. we've been getting into small arguments lately because he took a promise ring back from me because he thought i lied to him. they have been my faul...

What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married? I'm not looking for the obvious things here...Wondering what other engaged/married couples come to discover is important to know be...

The sex doesn't feel that good to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mods Note: OP's own title: I have a problem. I am really in love with my boyfriend and i am really attracted to him. I love having sex with him and I do want to have sex with him. But lately we haven't had alot of sex and I really want to. And then...

His secret email address is attached to porn site, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) - I was fiddling around the net and I googled my bf secret email address: I found out he commwnted an erotic pic on an amateur porn website stating how beautiful that woman was and telling her to email him, if she wanted to. I don't even know ...

Is it normal to want to know the relationship history of the person you are dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: OP's own title: I would think that it is normal to want to know about the relationship history of the person you are dating. Especially as you are getting closer to them and more committed. Some folks seem to disagree with me...but I c...

Does sending me raunchy pics, mean she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - So this female friend who I've know for about 2 years and is one of my best friends and who I used to have the biggest crush on. Sent me topless pics, she has a boyfriend, who hates me, and he found out about the pics and is giving me death threats ...

Why has he removed his relationship status?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Hi, I've been seeing a guy for a while and we're not yet offical due to the distance in the summer and both of not in the same city until september comes again. He seemed to be really into me, and his ex then popped out of nowhere, ...

I really like someone who lives far away? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so there's this guy who I have a huge crush on:P (he's actually my cousin's cousin, but that doesn't matter;)) i've actually known him for forever, but a couple months ago i saw him after not seeing him for over a year... and sparks flew, ...

PLEASE I NEEED ANSWERS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Hi everyone i'm new here and i have a problem that is occupying my mind all day .. so i go out with a guy who i like he started to tell me that he loves me and all and that he likes me since the first day he saw me in college we a...

How can I make her say 'I love you' first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I told my gf i loved her about a month ago and she said it back to me right away, but she will never say it to me unless i say it to her first. She will reply with "I love you too" but will never say it unless i say it first. I've talked to her ...

Why has he asked me out when I always thought he hated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - ( Sorry if my English is bad ) Well there is a guy I know since I was a child I don't remember every thing but I remember that he used to tease me . He sometime say to my best friend that she is pretty in front of me . I got jealous and beca...

He says I'm not a rebound, but is this true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've become attracted to a coworker and we've been hanging out every day for the past two weeks. We're not officially dating and we consider ourselves just friends, but there is a definite mutual attraction between us. He just came out of...

Should I call him and just let him know how I feel to clear things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy 4 years ago when I met him it was a odd situation for me because at the time I was very shy and A VIRGIN. but we started to hang out and he wanted to take me on dates and tried to get me to go out and not just stay in his house.( ...

The guy I liked asked me out on a date to my total surprise but nerves have taken over, how can I calm down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - ive been crazy about this one guy at school for a while now. hes gorgeous and everyone wants him but no one ever seems good enough for him and no one asks him out cos most people assume hes taken. he knows i like him but for a while he didnt seem ...

I want to ask her out but I don't want to bother her with too many texts! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hi there I have a problem which I really need help with. A week ago I was out with a group of friends from work and with them was one of their friends who I have met before. We spent the whole night talking and while my friends kept telling me ...

Is it just normal doubts or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - A couple of weeks ago i started dating a guy, well my friends told me that he was lying and that i knew it, i just did want to believe it. However, when i confronted him about the lies he said that my friends were envious and that they were just ...

Who do I choose, my boyfriend or my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we been together nearly 6 months. i was talking to my cousin who is 28 on a social networking site and my boyfriend wears glasses and my cousin basically said something really nasty to me about my boyfriend wearing ...

What are the sure signs that a guy is into you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - what are the closest to sure signs you can get from a guy that he is interested in you; what kind of: eye contact, touching, talking, attention, etc... are giveaways? xoaintno...

Is my girlfriend and her past worth turning into a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a few months. She is 23 I am 24 She is first real girlfriend Ive had since I was 19 which was a relationship that ended badly. She also has not a boy friend since high school. We love each other, and I dont think I ...

Should I pursue her again or just stay friends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - So there is this girl that i have liked for about a year and a half now and i ended up asking her out on valentines day 2010. She said no and she didn't talk to me for 3 months. Then we started talking again and now we are good friends again. But ...

What did my bf's response mean when he found out another guy was hitting on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Here is a question for the guys... well my boyfriend stays at his bestfriends all the time. i understand that, the kid is my bestfriend to. its just his friend keeps (hitting) on me. And he told my boyfriend he does. All my boyfriend had to say was ...

After his cheating, I forgave him. But why can't I get over these thoughts of mistrust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I feel like ever since I caught my boyfriend flirting with some girl on facebook who happen to be in his class who he was planning on meet up with, I feel like I can't really trust him...but I love him alot...and I forgave him...We moved on from ...

How do I make him like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - *OP's suggested ttle* I really like this guy at my church. He's obviously very shy, and I'm kinda shy too. I've never talked to him but he said hi to me once. He looks over at me too kinda often. I know that I should "make him like me", but I don't ...

Should I let my ex bf back in my life...or go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a tough spot. Here's some background... I got with this guy when I was 17, we were together for 6 years, and had two kids together. The relationship was.. rocky, to say the least. It was always him cheating on me constantly, leaving me for ...

I want to get close to her again, but don't want to overdo it! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Ive been seeing this girl for like 3 months already, lately she went through some family problems, and work. So she pretty much asked me to give her space, and so i did. now it seems the storm has pass as they say, we now started talking again, she ...

What do I do abt my fiances interfering ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - What do i do about the always interfering ex?my fiance and i hv 2 kids and hv been 2gether 4 about 4 1/2yrs off and on,our relationship has had alot of problems thanks 2 his ex...when we 1st started dating she would send me emails about her having ...

I was betrayed and now I'm not sexually attracted to him ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hi all. My boyfriend and I dated last year, broke up in December, stayed sleeping together, and got back officially early this year. During the time we were broken up, we were still constantly sleeping with each other and still spending time ...

What is his problem with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I wonder if someone could shed some light on this. I was with a guy for several months about a year ago and lost my virginity to him. I ended up cutting off all ties with him because he didnt want a relationship and was immature. He ...

Housemate hates my bloke...why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I'm in love with a fantastic man, who can't do enough for me. He's handsome, fun to be with, smells fantastic, intelligent, a mind blowing lover, he adores me and we're the best of friends too. There's nothing that I can't say to him, we're totaly ...

Why do guys like to play these silly games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Soo here I go venting. I'd like to know, do guys like to play these games or something? It really isn't fun. I've been talking to this guy, and usually he'd be the first to contact me. And he use to complain about him always being the first to ...

Should I give this a shot and how should I go about doing this if my only chance to see her is at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I have a crush on my dentist and want to ask her out, just for lunch for starters. I'm a 55yr. old male and she looks to be early 40s'. I'm not married and am financially ok so it's not about going after her money I'm doing alright on my own. My pr...

Would I be sloppy seconds if I chose to go out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy for about 4 months now, on and off, and he's sending some pretty mixed signals. Just so you know, he's really sweet and would never knowingly hurt anyone. We had a class together in school and I was positive he liked me ...

Our 'dates' are all at his house but I want us to go out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Ok... Ive been seeing this guy recently. Date 1: We was supposed to go out for drinks. He called after he finished work saying he was tired but i could come round his place. First off i said no and said we would do it another day when he was less ...

Why does he masterbate at every opportunity???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mod note: Your title you chose is already in use. My bf masterbates every chance he gets. Evertime I leave the house even if I just go to the store.. We arnt haveing alot of sex right now. Its really starting to piss me off. I have told him how it m...

Please help me, he says he loves me, but wont speak to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) - *Reposted* No one answered the first time I posted this so... My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I absolutely love him with all my heart. The only problem is that lately we've barely been talking. He works nigh...

Should I be happy that he is only drinking 3-4 beers a day now?`

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hello all! Okay, so I'll try and sum everything up in a quick paragraph because I desperately need advice. I am 20 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and 1/2 years. For the most part, our relationship has been really good, however, there ...

Does alcohol affect the effectiveness of oral contraception?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Does alcohol affect the effectiveness of the pill? I got hammered at a party at the weekend and am scared to have sex with my boyfriend just incase? ...