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writes:Ive been seeing this girl for like 3 months already, lately she went through some family problems, and work. So she pretty much asked me to give her space, and so i did. now it seems the storm has pass as they say, we now started talking again, she has a great attitude and stuff. but i still feel like we are not back to where we where at, I mean am I rushing things? how much alone time does she need? should i confront her about our status? I cant even remember the last time we kissed. right now we just talk, and it feels great, so i know she is still interested (i hope). But the days go by and i think about her more and more, I am always wondering if she is doing ok, if i should call her, text her or whatever, its so frustrating because i don't want to smother her. It makes me sad not being close to her, I can definitely say that I am developing some deep feelings for this girl, and I am scared out of my mind to tell her. I have been down that road before and it has ended in disaster. I am so confused, I really really like her, but i dont want to mess things up :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell today i went out and spend like an hour picking out a card for her, i finally found one. so i whens ahead and wrote down the way i feel about her, how i am always thinking of her and how i cant think, talk, when i am with her. I put it in the best possible way, writing straight from my heart. I don't know how she is gonna respond to it. but its all pretty much there. Its gonna come down to whether we continue with this or its over there and then.
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reader, teapot236 +, writes (30 July 2010):
Well, it's sweet that you are being patient through her storm. I would say it would be really sweet to just get her some flower just because. Let her know that you are still there and waiting for her. If you feel like calling her call her. If you feel like texting or call her do it.
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