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writes:Can someone please explain to me why before you lose weight you are told the infamous line of "you look good just the way you are" by your signifacant other..but as soon as you drop 20 lbs they are all over you and the sexy,hot compliments are never ending! Are men just wired to automatically like you a couple sizes smaller? Im not saying that its a bad thing nor did I lose weight for anyone but myself...but if I was "fine" before then why all the attention now that Im smaller? Maybe its because all of his ex's were small and petite.Maybe he's finally rejoicing!Lol! Just venting.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Some are, some aren't. But the majority of men generally like fit women.
What they are actually wired to do is say 'You look just fine' to their partners.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 This one is, yes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually Ive been a runner for 15 years.Ive also competed in several Hooters bikini competitions.I had a miscarriage which contributed to the weight gain.Dont assume Im lazy and need a man to reaffirm my self esteem.Im assuming by your comment you are fit as well..then you should understand right? Im far from unattractive..just needed other female opinions.
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reader, phoiyikas  +, writes (29 July 2010):
Umm .. I'm assuming that if you lost 20lbs, you probably weren't the most physically fit before? I think most men like women who put effort into their appearances (like not in terms of wearing a lot of makeup, etc, but in terms of taking care of your body). Your sig. other probably told you that you look good the way you are because he didn't want to hurt your feelings or get you angry at him! But (from my experience), your level of physical attractiveness probably went up after you became more fit (as opposed to being "smaller")
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