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writes:Okay, so there's this guy who I have a huge crush on:P (he's actually my cousin's cousin, but that doesn't matter;)) i've actually known him for forever, but a couple months ago i saw him after not seeing him for over a year... and sparks flew, haha;)then, a couple weeks later, we ended up going to an amusementt park together (well, my family, my cousins, and him;P) and we were talking the whole day? and after the day was over i realized that i REEEALLLLY liked him:/ever since i was literally counting down the days when i'd see him again, and i finally saw him at my cousins party last weekend:) and we had an amazing time, and we talked a tonn:)and ever since we left i felt like i have this hole in my chest and i can't stop thinking about him:/ i've never liked a guy this much before:/he doesn't actually live that far away, like an hour, but the problem is that i don't see him enough:/ in fact i probably wont see him for another 2-ish months:(ohh, and i forgot too add that i'm pretty sure he likes me too. i thought he did, and my mom said she thought so, too, and also so did my cousin:P so yeahh...ughh:/ what do i do? he doesn't have a cell phone so i cant text him [we're both almost 15 by the way], and we're facebook friends but that's about it...also, abbout the whole 'cousin's cousin' thing... I know he isn't related to me and such, and i'm pretty sure my mom knows we kinda like each other and she seems to be totally okay with it, but... would it be weird? how do i talk to him and get to know him better and stuff if i hardly see him?? what do i do:/?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (28 August 2010):
 First of all, it might be wayyy to complicated to get involved with your cousins' cousin. Yes, ok, you're techincally not related (at least not by blood)and it is legal for you to get involved with him, but what if things went wrong and you broke up? Kind of awkward for your cousin, don't you think?
All you can do is arrange weekends where you can hang out together, maybe you each get a bus or train halfway between where you both live and hang out for the day? E-mail each other via facebook often. Just chat and you'll get to know stuff about him. Then if you think he's interested and you still like him, ask him out. An hour isn't really that far, imagine what it's like for people who have a loved one in another country!
Just e-mail and talk a lot, you'll get to know what makes him tick. Then if you still like what you see, go for it!
Good luck
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