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writes:OP's own title: Hi, I've been seeing a guy for a while and we're not yet offical due to the distance in the summer and both of not in the same city until september comes again. He seemed to be really into me, and his ex then popped out of nowhere, wanting him back even though she dumped him. He told her she wasnt interested and even when she said she wanted him, he rang me the next night, telling me nothing happened and that months down the line, he didnt want this to affect us. However, I noticed that he removed his single status over the weekend on facebook and now has no relationship status up at all. Am I overreacting or should I be worried that he has met someone and is sparing my feelings. Its quite confusing as this guy doesnt reveal much, and second when I approached him last time about where we stood, he got irritated. However I do like him very much, but am I wasting my time with such uncertainty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): This is another big issue since these websites first appeared. I know what it must be like going to his profile all the time, not seeing it there and just wondering. Most people think the worst and immediately wonder why it changed. Honestly it might be nothing. Maybe his ex saw he was single on there and thats why she went after him first. He might want to just not have it there so no one knows for sure. Think of it this way. It would be A LOT worse if he said he was in a relationship there with you, and THEN he took it down. I suggest oppening up to him and asking him about it. He might get irritated, but you still have a right to know what the future holds for you two. If he doesnt want a relationship its not fair to you at all, to just be waiting around for something. Just be positive, be open, and make him see that you truly do care about him and want to be together. You are not trying to pressure him or anything, you just want to understand how he feels and show him how much he means to you. Just take your time and build your way up to it. Dont throw everything at him at once. Just try to see how he really feels about you. Dont ask if you two will be in a relationship soon, but ask if you two will grow into a relationship in the future. Give him time, but only enough to where you are still happy and dont still have to wait around. Follow your heart and do what will make you the happiest.
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