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Is it just normal doubts or something more?

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Question - (28 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A couple of weeks ago i started dating a guy, well my friends told me that he was lying and that i knew it, i just did want to believe it. However, when i confronted him about the lies he said that my friends were envious and that they were just trying to break us up. After he said that he broke up with me!!!

Well about a month later, he txt me saying that he still had feeling for me and that he wanted me back, etc.... I said ok we can try it again. The thing is i have this nagging feeling inside that he is lying, but when i ask him if he is lying he gets mad and tells me that i am not trusting him.

So the question that i am asking is should i trust my gut, or is it just normal doubts that every relationship has?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010):

You knew he was a liar, but you took him back. You're asking to be lied to again by simply giving him a chance. He's demanding that you trust him, but isn't doing anything differently to help show you that he's interested in you and only you. You simply can't trust this guy, and that will not make for a very happy relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010):

Your being very unspecific on what you think he's lying about!

What do you think he's lying to you about?

& yeah every relationship has wee niggely doubts that are sometimes rather hard to understand where they come from.

Such as I always believed my ex cheated on me from day one,

I'd look thro his fone ect & NEVER once found ANYTHING simply because he NEVER was cheating on me.

It was just my experiance's in previous relationships that lead me to believe so.

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