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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Because of his ex, he mistrusts me and brings those issues to our relationship, how do we solve this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am madly in love with my boyfriend, but we recently had a terrible disagreement. You see him and I have been seeing one another for going on 2 years. We have never had a verbal fight, neither he nor I have raised our voices nor cursed at one ...

I think about him constantly, and him about me..but he is with someone else!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up since End of Nov. 2009. He immediately started dating someone and after 6 months of no contact shows up to my work and says he still cares for me and that he can't stop thinking of me. Well he is still with the same ...

Scared that if I break up with him I'll regret it later

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - heyy..okay so the problem is i dont really know if i actually still love my boyfriend... i dont think about him THAT much anymore i like spending time with other guys more than him i try to avoid seeing guys i know when i'm with him so they don...

Should I still be friends with him, or call our friendship officially over and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - So i dated this guy for six months, and i thought our relationship was the best thing that had ever happened to me. He seemed like the perfect guy. Unfortunately, we broke up, but we were still best friends. However, a week ago a found out that he ...

Is is possible to get married after my boyfriend is done basic training for the army, & could I live with him on base housing when hes done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - so i been with this guy joe, im very happy. he's in bootcamp right now for the army, and were getting pretty serious. Im 16 years old, young yes, but very mature. Im turning 17 in december anywho. I really wanted to know if its possible to get ...

Girlfriend or potential, lucrative job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend of 1-1/2 years to death (though we've known each other for 11 years), and can't wait to propose to her someday. My girlfriend is extremely attached to me, and whenever I have been away for a few weeks, she gets upset. I...

I don't think my fiance is fit to be a father... but how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - When I accepted to marry my fiance I knew that I would be giving up the family I have always wanted to have. Our parenting styles and ideas are too conflicted. I love him so much I'm willing to give this up, but recently he has started talking ...

Do girlfriends discuss their lovers in detail?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Another post had me wondering... when you girls talk about your BF's to fairly close or very close friends, what is the limit on discussion? Do you just say things like "he's great in bed" "he's very tender", or do most women go into more detail ...

Am I in a dead end relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend for over two years now, we see each other on weekends he stays with me, I am a single mum of two, he has never had any experience with kids before and is trying hard though my eldest son likes him he find it hard to bond with him ...

She gave intimate details about me to my whole social network of friends. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I'll make this short... I met this great girl and we hit it off. We had our first date a few weeks ago. It was all going well until we had sex - for some reason I couldn't perform, it wouldn't stay hard. She said it was okay, but the date ended ki...

How long will the forgiving/forgetting period last before our relationship goes back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I were at this party together, and he broke up with me in a fit of anger because I supposedly left with another guy and came back. This is the same guy that caused trouble between me and my bf before. What makes it worse is ...

My love triangle...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - What do i do when i feel for two guys but I don't know what i feel for them. It feels like my heart is torn in two an i dated both but one broke up with me then asked me back out and i broke up with the other one. What do i do??...

Should I stay with him? I feel like he's going nowhere fast.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he is 30 and still lives at home with his mum he doesn't pay rent, clean up after himself and to be quite honest I'm sick and tired of it. I love him, but I feel like love is not enough anymore. All my ...

He doesn't seem to like anything I give him, should I talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Every present I give to my boyfriend ends up unused in a drawer, and it's really starting to bother me. I wondered if I was just getting presents he didn't really like, so this year for his birthday I got him something I knew he wanted because h...

In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending al...

Is he just being nice, or is he confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - So confused! Dated this great guy for several months. Things were going great. I think he got scared b/c he told me he needed to take some time to think about the relationship (he did say he cared about me). After a few days, I get an email ...

Is it just sex? Or could there be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I've been "officially" dating this guy for about a month now. We started off as sort of friends with benefits but we started having feelings for each other. Now we see each other almost everyday and the sex is AMAZING! I have absolutely NO ...

He broke up with me since he liked someone else too but he says he still wants to be with me as well!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am a teenager and i was dating this guy i really liked. i met him a year ago and we were friends, we talked and stuff. so a couple months ago he finally asked me out because he trusted i wouldnt cheat on him since we lived a little ways away from ...

How can I make this girl see the guy she is dating is a jerk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hi. I am 16. There is a girl that I love. We have gone on dates and spent a ton of time together. The problem is, I had assumed we were already going out. She recently started to date this other dude. He is not nice to her. She still wont dump him. ...

Should I marry her and have kids or live alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Well, my question is probably not that different from most. I had a relationship with a girl for 6,5 years. Around 3 years we broke-up because she wanted to marry and have kids and I just didn't know if I wanted to do that (I already have a s...

I'm too nervous to talk to girls at school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - How do I impress girls at school. I can't seem to talk to them I get extremely nervous....

Is he trustworthy or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I really like this dude but I been reading my zodiac stuff and I don't think I can trust this girl I been hangin with, how do I figure out if he is secretly likeing her instead of me PLEASE HELP!! I'm so confused...

Is he just not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - So I have met this guy, real cute seems very well mannered and just nice! lol I took his number as I am a bit of a control freak and said I would call him. I text him the morning after as he came down to where I live and had to drive home so i ask...

What do you think about these actions of a guy I think might like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I'm friends with this guy. We've been friends for about 1 year and only became friends because of a mutual friend. I'm really shy so I could never just come out and ask him. I don't see myself as the type of girl that a guy would like so I don't ...

Why hasn't he contacted me in three days and what should I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been "seeing" each other for six months, most of that time he has been deployed. For the entire six months we talk almost every day - if he got really busy for a day or two he would send brief notes and say he was busy and ...

Intelect and the uneducated.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I recently met a woman who I'm not sure I should be dating. Here are some facts about us. She is beyond a masters degree, I have a HS diploma. She is highly intelectual, very smart. I am not the brightest bulb in the box. She is Jewish, I am ...

Confused young girl......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Soo, there's this guy. I like him A LOT. I don't know if he likes me back though. He use to like barely ever talk and then I found out he was talking to another girl so I got mad and deleted him from my phone and myspace. A few days later he texted ...

I regret not making a move on her back then, but should I add her as a friend on Facebook now even though it has been 3 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - There was a this girl I liked back in high school. She was a really nice and beautiful girl who I hung out with every lunch our of that semester. I don't think there is a girl other than her I've fallen for this hard ever. I was devastated when I ...

I'm hesitant to move in with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my BF for a year now. Great guy, fantastic relationship, respects me a lot, we’ve met each other’s families etc. He’s been talking about living together one day and recently the talk’s gotten serious. He’s got this plan that he’d l...

I like a boy, should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - i hav really really liked a guy for what seems like forever. my friends say he likes me too but im not sure. he does smile at me in an way that he doesnt do to any other girls. my friends say that this is a green light for me and that he likes me ...

Can you honestly love someone else after having had such strong feelings for someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex little over two months ago. Things were complicated between us because of jealousy. His jealousy. It was too much. We told each other many hurtful things in the relationship, and sadly, we got into a circle of breaking up and ...

Not head over heels anymore. Am I just comfortable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I'm 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for three years.. We have been living together for 2.. We get along great and have lots of fun together!! I don't feel head over hills for him anymore and often think about what it would be like to be ...

Why do I always push my girlfriends away by finding faults with them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Ok I need help in working out if I always push my girlfriends away, or if I'm just very judgement, or both. And if so why? I feel I do this by trying to find faults with them. I find faults which genuinely do annoy me and then make them feel b...

20 and never been in a relationship...Advice please!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hey, im 20 straight male, and still have never been in a relationship in my life. Girls have always been attracted to me my whole life but It seems that once things start to get serious and i go on a date or something im just not myself and it gets ...

When is he going to start telling people I'm his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - i've been dating a guy for 3 mos.and he still he introduces me to everyone as his friend, and he sometimes stays over,i introduce him to everyone as my boyfriend and i told him that i love him , he said thats a strong word to say but i was ready to ...

Should I contact him or is he not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago in the mall and the same day he text me and called, and the next day also, by the next night we watched movies together all night and we eneded up fooling around, the next day we went for lunch and hung out, he text ...

My girlfriend is stunning, and this causes problems in public, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hello all. I've been with this girl for 2 months now, she is stunning, but this is a bit of a problem because whenever we go out, there is always someone staring at her behind or her legs or something, and if they aren't just staring, they'll say ...

Why doesn't anyone like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - all of my friends have been "snogged"/"been with"/"made out with" somebody. i find this kinda frustrating because i'm the only one who hasn't. all of them say that i'm pretty and sexy but i dont understand why nobody likes me. im 13,a little bit ...

Am I her fall back guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - So I am confused and lost so I'll keep this short and simple. I met this girl over 7 months ago and started having phone and text conversations with her. We had a brief argument which led to 2 months of avoiding each other. We have been on...

Is he waiting for the next move or just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - So there is this guy and I really like him and the other day we were drinking and he kissed me we made out pretty heavily for a while but it didn't go farther than that now he doesn't act awkward or anything he just hasn't tried anything else with ...

I really want revenge on this shameless, unthankful liar...help?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I was unhappily married for 13 years.I still respect my wife but love was just not there anymore.We have together three beautiful kids.I was more and more sad by time and didn't know what to do.Then two years ago I meet new love of my life.I am 35 ...