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Dating: Help and advice

How to be myself again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Today I did something that I didn't want to do. I broke up with my girlfriend. We aren't officially broken up though. We just got into a really bad argument and so she didn't want any major decisions being made while we are emotional. I broke up ...

Why the sudden change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend suddenly changed today. Everything was great last night when we were hanging out and I had done nothing that could upset him but this morning he stopped touching me, seeking me out or anything and he seems down or distant with me when I ...

He has problems, borrows my money, has fits of anger, is this worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Wondering if my boyfriend is going to be worth all the trouble he is causing. He's been in jail because his xwife lied, in court, about him sexually abusing his kids. He's had addictions up until a few years ago which have also gotten him in trouble ...

I lied about my age to my bf, should I come clean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - when me and current flame started talking, i never thought things would get as serious as they have, and i deffinitely did not think they would last past a week or two. he was 2 years older than me and very very mature so i was worried since i was ...

Why do my gf's stories change over time, is she hiding more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I am having issues with my GF of 10 months gradually revealing things to me that are a bit worrisome. She has gradually increased the extent of stories about her romantic and sexual past. Guys that she once said she never touched, suddenly became ...

How do I get my bf to be more protective of me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I really want my boyfriend to be protective over me.. I know it sounds stupid but I really want him to be the protective type, He doesnt really stick up for me much like when other boys try to hug me he doesnt really care too much , b...

Only been with bf six months, have clymadia, how do I tell him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - hi ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, i recently had a smear test done ive had urine tests before and nothing showed at all but now I have clymedia and i have no idea on how im going to tell this to him, i have no idea where i got it from! ...

On again, off again bf needs time, hanging with new girl, what do I do?

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15 July 2010 (F) - okay so i met this guy almost two years ago, and we have been off and on, and im usually the one that breaks up with him, but he says he loves me and he acts like he does, but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause he was going to a new school, and ...

I thought we had a deep love, now he's gone, think he'll come back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hello Everyone, i would like to ask your opinions even though i already have my idea of this whole. A week ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I know it was not a long time, but we were friends, very close friends before, so we kn...

Does my man fancy me at all???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Does he really fancy me? Hi! My fella is a typical man of few words - and doesn't like to show his "emotional" side! - I have often wondered if he really fancies me at all. Anyway - today I asked him what attracts him to me - thinking he...

Was I wrong to have sex with him so soon?

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15 July 2010 (F) - i am in a relationship with a guy from last 3-4 months but i knew him from last 4 years. we were in a relationship some 4 years back but then it was just a childhood fling types. now we indulged in a serious and committed long distance relationship ...

The spark is gone...

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15 July 2010 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and few months about 2 weeks ago because there was just too much dumb fighting and stress but a few days later i decided to give it another try. Yesterday i ended it again because i just didnt feel any spark ...

How do I show him he is the love of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for over a year now but sometimes I feel like he doesn't know how much i really truely love him. I gave up modeling jobs, and a chance to compete in miss teen USA, but most of all i gave up my virginity all up for him. I ...

Awkward dating situation, I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I have a complicated story. I met this girl about couple of months ago and I found out she was so cute. I took her to a nice French restaurant, we went to a nice jazz club and to a live music show. All things were going so well. She once travel ...

I slept with his brother years ago and now my b/f can't get past it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We have our rough times but love each other very much. We live in a small town, where we both grew up, and know each other's families. Years before I met/began dating him, I met his older ...

I feel my life is passing me by... I'm at the end of my tether in this relationship, advice needed!

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15 July 2010 (M) - I'm currently at the end of my tether with my relationship with my girlfriend. I'm 25, she's 26. She has two kids, a 9 year old girl and an 18 month year old son, both to different Dads. We've been together for two years now, but in the last ...

Help! Why don't I want to have sex with my boyfriend any more?

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15 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost five years, and we're eighteen. We're both extremely happy and in love, and we know we will be together for a very long time. But fairly recently, I've stopped wanting to have sex with him and I c...

Do I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - i have boyfriend whose 14. im 13 and ive known him for maybe 3 and a half years. ive always liked him and we havnt had sex or anything. i plan to but not now. i have really strong feelings for him. hes all i think about and i want to say i love him ...

Why do nice guys end up last?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hello ladies, I have a really deep question which I'm having trouble getting the answers. I'm currently 26, and I've had over 30 Relationships failed, I never gave up but I keep asking myself why. My friend (who is a gal) says that I'm "Too Nice", ...

Guys, if you tell your friends a girl is gorgeous (even though she is heavier), does it mean you like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - there is this one guy, and i've been into him since i moved into town 4 months ago... but he's stereotypically good looking (athletic, blonde hair, blue eyes,...) and i'm generally not the type guys like that go for (pretty but not exactly a size 2...

How can I deal with this rejection from a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - After meticulous assessment of a girl following rejection after asking them out, what can i do to get back on my feet? I feel i've grown a little cold over years, and high school is a very discouraging environment. How do i recognize love in myself ...

His lifestyle is making sex almost non-existant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody, I am currently traveling Australia. While I was doing 3 months farm work to get my visa extention I met a guy and we fell for each other. We planned to travel together around Australia and set in place a plan. At first the sex was ...

Trying to get over him, am I doing it right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My ex was a huge jerk to me, lied, was inconsiderate and never really was into me inn the end. I got so mad about things. And I keep looking up ways to get revenge and what i read the most was to just keep on living my life and seem just ok. I'm ...

Is this really a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - So, ive written a little before. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 yr and 4 months. I just am not sexually attracted to him like i used to be. i love him, but i just feel like i can do better. is it normal to feel like ure settling? i dont ...

What do girls prefer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - what does a girl prefer? to be honest, i'm going into college with absolutely no experience with girls. the most i've done is kiss/made out with a girl. i want to go farther, but i'm scared of what a girl may think of my "down under". do girls pr...

After finally convincing my boyfriend to marry me, I'M now the one having second thoughts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I am a woman who likes to live life according to plans. I had my next year all planned out and my heart set on it working out as so. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. We just graduated from college and I have one year before ...

Any suggestions for overcoming shyness with women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - what can i do to gain confidence with girls? as summer goes on i get closer and closer to going to college. one reason im not too thrilled about this is because i have no confidence when it comes to talking to girls. im very shy around everybody, ...

I like him but I think he smokes pot

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15 July 2010 (F) - I really like this guy but I think he smokes pot and what if I go back out with him and kiss him some day what should I do?...

Should I be her hero?

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15 July 2010 (M) - If you could, take a few mins and help me be creative :) normally, i have no problems with girls what so ever. But... this case is different. Ive tried to date her in the past. Once sophomore year. Nearly worked, except best friend was an a...

Why does he take a long time to reply to my emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I was dating a guy 8 years ago.One day a common friend told me that he graduated from graduate school.So, I wrote him an email to his job account saying congratulations for your graduation, what do you plan to do now. It took him a week to reply and ...

In love with a girl who doesn't love me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - [OP original title] I dated this girl for 3 years, we broke up and dated other people and explored life a little on our own, after nearly 4 years of being apart i still feel the exact same way about her, we have been talking and hooking up alot late...

Unsure about a hookup, how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hello ok this is a long story so thanks for patience! i'm on an apprenticeship at the moment but in a few months i'm returning to university. I have visited through the year and found out this guy who is in my year and is a friend, really f...

It turns me on when he asks me and I don't know why, any clues??

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15 July 2010 (F) - Hey, well i was wondering do you guys have any clue why it turns me on when my bf tells me to do some thing? I have no clue why it does lol thanks....

After a miscarriage my girlfriend is devastated and drifting away. How do I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now and we just seem to be drifting apart. We found out in April that we were going to be parents and that she was nearly two months gone. We were so happy that we were going to be parents and we ...

What is up with guys who chase, capture and vanish??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I'm just wondering why guys always seem to be interested in a girl when she is unsure of the whole thing but the second she gives in and begins to fall for him and lets him know that she's falling for him, they run away like little girls? This seems ...

When she goes away, she gets strange and distant, anybody have a clue??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi all. I've been dating this girl for about a year now. I am 26 she's 18. She lives and goes to school in my town, but her hometown is about 40km away. Problem is this, as long as we are in the same city our relationship is doing just fine but ...

She has issues that make the relationship difficult, keep trying or move on??

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15 July 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend has a lot of issues that have always messed with me to a certain degree. I basically know nothing about her personal life ( we have been with each other only for about 4 months), besides the two of us. I know a friend's name, her ...