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Dating: Help and advice

Should I be concerned that a lot of my relatives friends are attracted to me?

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19 July 2010 (F) - I dont know what's wrong with me. For some reason, a lot of my relatives friends have fancied me !. There was one person who worked with a relative of mine, who was much older than me, who said that he thought i should be a model. And there were a ...

Why do I feel so poorly about myself?

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19 July 2010 (F) - I wish I had a boyfriend, I always feel the last few months especially that I am fat and ugly. I have put on a few pounds but nothing major but cause I have I feel not worthy of one. I know it sounds silly but I feel jealous of my ex's having ...

Does this old friend want to destroy everything I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Well an old friend knew I was having relationship problems with the guy i was with back in september and took advantage of me being weak and we ended up sleeping together. But now he's going around telling people that I planned us having sex ever ...

I feel like a fool. Has he changed or was he always like this?

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19 July 2010 (F) - what can i do i feel a complete fool i really like a guy at work and thought we were close friends or at least he gave me that impression. he used to call me several times a night and i didnt have much confidence after coming out of a really b...

How long to wait before proposing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hi, my name is louise and I am 16. I am deeply in love with my girlfriend of 2 months and we both agree we are soul mates. My question is how long do couples normally wait to propose? i am confident she will say yes so don't want to wait but will...

How do I manage to stay strong or those rational thoughts to help me get through a guy NOT calling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hey all, I need help or in fact, words of encouragement and talking some sense into about dealing with when a guy doesnt call. The last guy I was dating when things started going wrong I ended up having the most awful panic attacks and anxi...

If he's so into me, why have I not met friends at least after 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a relationship with an older guy, I have proof that hes not married and all. It's been five months, never met friends or family and yet, he's met mine. He refers to my god-daughter as "our baby" and is so very affectionate towards me. The ...

He told me he wanted to see me again but now he's distant?

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19 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a few questions.... Here goes...A man that I have a business type of relationshi recently invited me to his home for the weekend. I was a little intrigued and agreed to go. We had a wonderful time (nothing sexual)and on the way home ...

He sometimes hints that he loves me, but then shies away

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19 July 2010 (F) - ok so i'm really stupid when it comes to love....i've been talking to this guy off and on for about 7 months now and I think that i am falling in love with him. Problem is that sometimes he will hint around that he is falling for me and then after ...

Girlfriend wants a break but still stays in contact

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19 July 2010 (M) - So ive read through many posts on this similiar topic and need a little help myself. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months (shes 18 im 21). Everything was great up until a week and a half ago when we go into our first two arguem...

It's been a year since they dated.. can I snag him up?

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19 July 2010 (F) - I like my bestfriend's ex boyfriend....but she still has feelings for him eventhough it's been 1 year since they broke up.but we reallyyyy like each other...im so confused :(...

Again? But I don't trust him.

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19 July 2010 (F) - Okay so, Recently I was in a relationship with this guy, and me and him were also practically best friends and got really close, but he dumped me because he liked this other girl who I'm also friends with and know, and apparently she dumped him like ...

Should I break up because her daughter drives me nuts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Every time I go out with my girlfriend and her now 6 year old daughter the girl misbehaves. she's always climbing on things and I mean EVERYTHING, and touching things that don't belong to her. Then when you tell her to stop she does it anyway in ...

Should I go out with my uncle's friend?

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19 July 2010 (F) - Ok, this is kind of a strange situation. I know this guy who is friends with my uncle, and this guy is married to my uncle's ex. Lately, my uncle has been said that this guy has been asking him to ask me to come along when they go out for a drink. I ...

I'm scared because we don't seem to have anything to talk about anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I met this great guy 2 weeks ago. We've been texting non-stop and it's been made clear that we both like each other. He almost always starts the texts and is the one to continue them. But for the last two days, it just seems like ...

I've met his family does that mean he's serious?

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19 July 2010 (F) - I am going out with a guy who has just come out of a relationship. We have fondled and cuddled a lot plus shared the bed when I stopped over. Friends have commented that we are going into things too soon, but I am confused as to why. Are we really ...

He says he likes me more than her but I know he had sex with her

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19 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I'll get straight to the point. I've been talking to this guy, his nice and everything his like prince charming but not so perfect. We met up once and had a blast. Problem is, he kissed me, i accpeted the kiss and kissed back, i really li...

Dating, sex, and his ex

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19 July 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 2 questions put together.. I have been dating a guy for a month now. He is a year older than me and appears quite nice so far. Things between his ex weren't going well and he recently split up from her when he met me. He saw it coming b...

My two best friends are dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I had a best guy friend that I was really close to, and we met on a conference for school, but we went to different schools at the time then, he came to my school, and met my best girl friend, and one night he told me he liked her. When I told my ...

Should I delete him out of my memory?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - i hooked up with my colleagues ex boy friend(Actually it've been almost 3 years and i saw him again at a party and he told me about his broken up with his girl.at the second time we met at a friend's birthday party,we kissed and had a great night ...

Should he be flirting with her at all?

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19 July 2010 (F) - i've been dating this guy for almost 2 months, we have broken up a few times because of jealousy or people interfering but now our relationship is better than ever as i hadent even kissed him or hugged him until the 3rd time so now its good but i ...

Falling in Love

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19 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy on April while working I never did talk to him but during that month I decided to add him on FB and from there we hit it off so fast next thing you know we were texting everyday till the next month we decided to be in a relationship. ...

Should I be worried about her sexual past

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19 July 2010 (M) - I've recently found out some things from my girlfriend of nearly a year's sexual history which have made me think. I'm 23 and she's 30. We met and she was married, we started out having an affair and very quickly she separated from her husband and ...

I want a boyfriend but at the same time I am terrified of being hurt and used again

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19 July 2010 (F) - Its been a year since my ex totally broke my heart, he didn't even had the manners to talk to me, to tell me he was seeing another woman. He deliberately drove past my house with her in the car as his way of showing me he was seeing her. I am ...

I feel like he's pulling away!

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19 July 2010 (F) - ok I have been dating this person for a year now. Since we met , well about a month after he told me that he was falling in love with me, I refrained from telling him the same because It takes me longer. Everything with us is pretty good, so I ...

Our families don't approve of our relationship!

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19 July 2010 (F) - i'm a girl and i'm currently in a relationship with a another girl. in other words, lesbian. and i think there's nothign wrong with that but both side's of parents seems to be breaking us up and hope that we stop seeing each other. What should i do? ...

Was it too soon to move in?

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19 July 2010 (M) - Three months ago I separated from my wife of four years and moved into a flat on my own. About six weeks after we split, a former friend of my ex wife's, who has been a friend of mine and rock climbing partner for about two years, confessed her feel...

What did he mean by saying he wanted to date other people before he could be with me?

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19 July 2010 (F) - Hello Everybody !! I am in need of some advice. I was in a relationship for 4 years and after we broke up we remain friends. But actually it felt has if we were still together. The reason we broke up was because I cheated and after that situa...

Is keeping him as a friend a good idea?

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19 July 2010 (?) - Okay well I have broken up with da biggest lover I've had I've had I've known him for 3 years know and ever since I've loved him. We were a off and on realation and a month ago he left to another state with his mom and won't be coming back till 2 ...

Committed with a daughter, but wanting to experience others!

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19 July 2010 (F) - my partner is 20 and i am 19, we have a 6 month old daughter together. We both lost our virginity's to each other so i have only been with him although he has been with one other (cheated). is it normal for me to be unsure as to whether or not i ...

Is it better to have someone perfect who feels "wrong" or someone imperfect who feels "right?"

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19 July 2010 (F) - what would you rather have: someone who satisfies and anticipates your every need, but feels "wrong" or someone who makes mistakes and is oblivious to your wants, but feels "right"?...

I'm 18 and attracted to older men. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] Well i am 18 years old. I'm not attracted to guys my own age. I'm finding that i'm attracted to guys in their late 20's to mid 40's. the one guy who impacted me tremendously is 41 years old. he made me feel like no one has ever...

Would it freak him out to give him my phone number?

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19 July 2010 (F) - just so you know how nervous I am I have never had a boyfriend. But there is this guy that I really like. And i'm pretty sure his interested in me too. But so far all I know is his first name and that he's only summering in my town. He hasn't asked ...

Can you get pregnant from this? Please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Posters Original Title Can you get pregnant from dry humping? I'm so worried. My boyfriend was over a few days ago and we were dry humping. I was completely naked but he was completely dressed. Is there any way I could be pregnant from...

I have never been in a relationship in which girls were threats...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Well, to start off, I am a twenty-three-year-old gay male with an extreme amount of insecurity about my appearance when compared to others. I have an anxiety disorder (mainly social anxiety), and quiet, shy, reserved, do not like big parties, and ...

Tired of condoms, time for an IUD! Maybe?

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19 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note:Posters Original Title So me and my boyfriend have been using condoms for over a year now and I was on the pill for three months, then nuvaring for two. I reacted badly to the hormones, mostly it made me very dry and it made it near impo...

Ticking, Timebomb!

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19 July 2010 (F) - Mod note: Original Title I am in a relationship that I am unsure about. Certainly I love my boyfriend but I feel very unfullfilled. I am 32 yrs old. My most desire in the past 5 yrs is to have a family, husband and a home and I don;t have neit...

My boyfriend worries too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - This past November my friend convinced me to join a dating website, knowing I didn't have enough time to find someone with so much to do for work and college. Soon after I got a message from a shy, quiet PhD student at a local Ivy League school. We ...