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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it a "cop out" to cheat on someone and then not tell them what you did?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Posters Own Title: I've heard so often "I can't tell them I cheated on them b/c it would really hurt them." That seems so hypocritical to me. If this person was so concerned about "hurting" their partner, they probably wouldn't have cheated in the ...

I have just seen a picture of a naked girl on his email....i don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - hey guys im so angry right now with my sweetheart, my love and only one boyfriend. i just seen a naked pic of a girl on his email address (deleted) and i dont know what action to take. plz help...

Do I wait for this guy? Is it worth it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys! Right, here's the deal, met these group of friends a while a go, and one of them i had a bit of a thing with, but well it wasnt really anything, i wasnt attracted to him, it was just one of them things you go with, well that's passed n...

Problems with girlfriend, she puts her friends first all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I really don't know if my problem is unique or not. Probably not but yet, i haven't seen any couples with stuff like this. So anyway, my girlfriend is really a great girl, i love her, i'm prepared to do anythin for her, we've been together for ...

At 6 months, shouldn't he know if he loves my by now? Or am I rushing things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Ok i need help! A bit of history is that my childrens father was a serial cheat throughout our 10 year long relationship, this ended 2 years ago. I t took me a while but i am now over it and feel really ready to move on. I dated a couple of guys ...

Up until a few months ago, he never mentioned money! I don't know how to react to the change!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - (first of all I'm 19 not 26) My bf of 2 years never ever mentioned money or cost in front of me. Always he tells me "do you want something" and he buys me stuff and all and I always tell him to stop because he is spending to much money and he would ...

For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if...

Do I i.m. him or ask him to hang out? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I went to Panera and thought this kid Alex was hot, so I left him my number and he never called so I called him a week later and he explained how he had a girlfriend and he said to visit him and then I went to and a worker told me his last name ...

23 and always single...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Well, I have a problem. I am always the single girl. I've always been the single girl, always. Save for a few dates, I've never had luck with men. And I don't see that changing. Truth is, I've got an odd look to me that you either love or hate. I ...

Jealous boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - im in a weird position right now my ex still loves me, and is telling my boyfriend to break up with me cause he is dead jealous... he said if he doesent his gonna hurt my boyfriend.. and me and my boyfriend LOVE eatch other.. i dnt know what to do.. ...

Help Me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I like this guy. And to my knolledge we are dating. He is 17 and a virgin. im 16 and i am not. Ive dated him befor in middle school then he moved to Rome. He is back and i think we are together. Everytime we hang out its like he is the one. but when ...

How to people meet their partners if not in work or education?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - How to people meet their partners if not in work or education? I'm 22 and I have got one more year left in university. I do not want to rest my hopes of finding "the one" on my last year at university, moreover I'm doing a dergee which is consider...

He's 3 steps ahead of me emotionally, how do I get to where he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Alright, so there is this PERFECT guy who likes me. I met him online and we went out on a date and he seems too good to be true. Personality wise. He opened doors for me, paid for the entire date, actually listens to what I say. He seems ...

He asked me out but doesn't act like he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey...... this guy asked me out, i really like him but he doesnt act like he likes me even though all his frends say he really likes me alot!!! i dont know what 2 do i like him soooo much Please help...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or put a strain on our relationship, but I just wish he would understand that my grandmother does need me too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My grandfather recently died, and now my handicapped, 88 year old grandmother is home by herself. She is of sound mind, and can take care of herself, but she does have a number of health problems that are managed by medicine. Both my grandp...

Do you ever really forget your first love..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I met mine almost 3 years ago, we were together for a year and a half, and yeah things went quite badly towards the end, he changed and what not. But it's been almost 2 years since we broke up and I still think about him every single day, I st...

I want to know how to ask her about how she feels about this guy and not ruin the great friendship we have

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok so here's the story I about 1 or two months ago I met this girl at church. We started talking and we have become really goood friends. She knows about my life and I know about hers. I really like her nd I'm starting to have fellings for her but ...

Does she like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 22 was in a four year relationship and broke it off due to trust issues in past. Well I started talking to this girl I known for about 4 years I told her I liked her and she said she did too. we have been talking for 2 months and I really ...

Does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i'm in love with this boy and he claims he loves me back but he is the player type and i think he says this to any girl he trying to get with at the moment . ( he's liked me for 3 years ) but still i don't know whether to believe him or not . any ...

24 (almost 25) and has never had a boyfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - ok,I'm a 24 year old female almost 25. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never had sex. Lately I've been depressed because I feel I have a good personality, and should have found some one by now. I have always been a tom boy. I am obese, but ...

I still love her, and sometimes we talk like friends, but she kissed another guy and really hurt me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Okay so, right now I'm devastated because of just one girl, just one girl. It al started around January 28 I was with this friend on facebook and I received a friend request, at first I had no idea who it was, but then I found out she was from my ...

My boyfriend deleted his Facebook profile! Was this because or me or because he doesn't use it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - This is gonna sound silly but I recently changed my profile status on FB to "in a relationship".. i didnt say who i was in a relationship w/ even though my bf is in my friends list. So today i changed it to him..and it said it was gonna send a ...

I am 17 going on 18 and still haven't had a girlfriend! I am feeling bad, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I am 17 year old guy and i am going to be 18 in 10 months and when i look back i never had a real girlfriend actually first one i had when i was 8 and our relationship lasted just 2 weeks long. Since then i just had dates which were just happening ...

Should I be happy or embarrassed by this incident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I was playing around on my computer, my window is open (it happens to open right onto our front porch), and all of a sudden my brother is right outside of it; needless to say i was scared all to hell. my dog starts barking, i tell her to shut up, he ...

Is it love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone can shed some light on my current issue. A friend of mine (we'll call him person A) met this person over the internet. They fell in love, and I (person B) was supportive of my friend as I was told of this person he ...

Interracial couples. Black man, white female. What do you think about that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - How many people are really against Interracial couples, especially those of which consist of a white female, and a black male. I (hear) many white males became completely unattractive to the woman, or would never want to have anything to do w...

Friends or lovers? does he like me as a friend or is it something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey boys I’m gonna try and make this quick but this is the situation: I had this male friend and we were friends for a couple of months…about 5 I wanna say. Then he admitted to liking me but it was long distance all along and he had quite a few ...

Why would he go on 2 dates with me and have sex with me if he wasnt at least somewhat interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I have had a huge crush on this guy for the past 2 years. I am unsure if he likes me at all...we went on 2 dates (I asked him) but nothing seemed to come of it. I was at a 4th of July picnic at his house. He was flirting with me and asked me to ...

My best friend: to date or not to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - So I posted this question but got no answers. So here it is again. Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best fr...

I need hope for my date on Tuesday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Listening to my sister and mom go on about relationships makes any prospect of a fufiling relationship sounds hopeless. I'm feeling down. I hear this soundtrack all the time and it seems everyone is in a bad relationship and it would be foolish to ...

Does he really love me or is it because I always help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi I'm 23 years old and I have a friend of mine who's 26 years old we've known eatch other for almost a years.He lives in a different country from where i live whenever he got a problem i always be the first person for him t...

The intimate details of my past partners are hurting my gf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - A few months ago, my girlfriend and i started dating. before this happened, we were friends for almost 2 years. Things are great, for the most part, if it wouldnt be for 2 things. 1- we live 1000 miles away from one another, i just recently was ...

You have to have some rainy days to enjoy the sunny ones?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hello all . Today I had a vision . shall we say . and I want to know if any girls or guys of any age would agree with this . and some would even say this is the way it always happens. Ive always always always said . I have to be physically ...

Love sick? I might be talking about sex with this guy to make him happy and so he wouldn't lose interest!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I really like this guy and we have talked about having sex but i think i might have just been saying this to make him happy and so he wouldn't decide that im not worth his time. Now he wants to hang out alone and stuff but i keep making up excuses ...

He seems confused, he loves me, he doesn't, any suggestions as to why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i have been dating this guy for over a year now and he says he doesn't love me, but the strange thing is he said " i love you" first, so finally I got the courage to ask him why he doesn't love me anymore, and he said it's because we had sex to ...

I suspect something happened between her and her stepfather, she denies it, what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and 4 months. but i have an issue! i was on the phone with her yesterday and she lives with her grandparents. but she has to go up to her moms house to take care of the dog. and she was taking ...

All I want is to meet somebody! Will I be alone forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I'm 30 years old and a single father. I've been single for four years now. I'm not good looking - some might say I'm ugly and although I'm not fat I don't have a great body. My ex cheated on me then walked out on me and my kids for another man. ...