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anonymous
writes:i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we been together nearly 6 months. i was talking to my cousin who is 28 on a social networking site and my boyfriend wears glasses and my cousin basically said something really nasty to me about my boyfriend wearing glasses. and it really upset my boyfriend and my boyfriend has told me u either choose between me or your cousin because my cousin is always nasty to me and my boyfriend is really lovely. i dont know who to choose!
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (28 July 2010):
well your boyfriend shouldn't be asking you to choose but if your cousin upset you anyway the simply cut the ties to your cousin.
You only talk to him online, he isn't important in your life whereas your boyfriend is and if your cousin is nasty about your boyfriend who you love then you are simply standing up for your boyfriend.
ditch the cousin if he is always being nasty about your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): Erm...I think your cousins abit sad picking on people alot younger than them self.
Get shot of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): Who cares what your cousin thinks of your boyfriend? Your cousin isn't dating him; you are!
You said your boyfriend is lovely, so choose him! Perhaps associating with your cousin isn't necessary, even if she/he IS family. Your cousin doesn't sound very nice. When he/she says something about your boyfriend, simply don't respond and change the topic of conversation, or tell your cousin that you care about your boyfriend very much, and that you don't appreciate hearing such harsh words.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Huh? Your cousin sounds pretty whacked to me, choose your boyfriend who is "really lovely".
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