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writes:So I met this girl online and she doesn't live to terribly far from me, a few hours. We've been talking for literally about a year and a half. I really like her, and I get the feeling she feels the same. However, she is a really good friend, one of my best, I know I can trust her. My problem is that I kind of want to be straightforward and tell her how I feel, but I don't want to risk the friendship. We may be going to the same college here in the next couple years as I am going to be transferring. I've looked at a bunch of colleges, but she has been wanting me to go to the same college. Anyone in a similar situation, or have any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Philosophyzer +, writes (8 August 2010):
 I'm thinking she might like you. Test the waters and ask her what happens once you two start attending the same university. Will you just be best buds, hitting the latest parties? Or is she going to let you take her out and pamper her like she deserves? ;) Set it up as a playful joke and see how she responds. If it seems positive, as I am sure it will be, set a more serious tone and tell her what you hope it to become. Best of luck!
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (28 July 2010):
 don't tell her cause you might mess up the friendship between you and she won't trust you any more you need more time to know how she really feels about you ......all what you can do is sending her some signals....tell her to imagine how things would be if you were couples if she freacks out tell her it was just a joke!!....then change the subject....good luck man(i've been in the same situation and i lost him even as a friend )
ps:i hope she feels the same way about you even more
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