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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My ex still likes me but I like his friend instead

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - last summer i was going out with this guy that i really liked, and i invited him and his best friend to come play baseball with me and my little brother. i kinda started to like his friend... me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a few months ago and ...

Would this bet make a girl mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - Ok so my question is, would a girl (I`m dating) be mad if she found out about a bet I made with my papa(Grandpa). The bet was that I could wait to have sex till I`m married. The winner gets $500, I feel like I should keep it a secret when I get into ...

I feel I'll love my ex forever... help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - hey....I am madly in love with my ex boyfriend but he doesnt know he thinks im over him because when he broke up with me he asked me if i was over him and i said yes.... i dont know why i said that coz im totally not over him... i cant stop thinking ...

What to do... who to choose???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I have this problem here. Actually a few, but they all mend together somehow. Here it goes: I got accepted to school in Fall and I have no idea if I should go. I have a boyfriend here at home and I take us really seriously, and he does I the same ...

Do I tell my boyfriend my ex was married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Hello I have got a new boyfriend who is very special to me, the problem is do i tell him that my ex boyfriend was married when he asks about previous boyfriends or do you think he won't ask me anything?...

Girlfriend of 5 years has become disinterested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - I'm a 27 year old guy and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We moved in together 2 years ago and for the first year everything was great, the 1st four years of our relationship was exactly what I wanted, we were communicative, we laughed, ...

I feel like she's tricking me into having kids...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - I have 2 questions: My GF is 40, never been in a committed relationship (just FWB) and wants to get married and have a family. I love her, but am getting on after a divorce and while I can see myself with her, just dont have the mindset to think...

Help!!! I have a boyfriend but I like another guy... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend lives about an hour away and i see him every other weekend. we have only been dating for a month and a half. we dont talk because his fone broke and im only in love with him when we see each other. (is that wrong?) but the guy i like ...

Confused and torn, help me get over my past mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - i am a real pickle. i have been in a loving relationship with my partner for 3 years now and we are still going strong. back at christmas i had an affair with someone from uni. my partner knows and we have sorted all of this out. the guy i had an a...

How can you be too busy for someone you care so deeply about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy "greg" online about two and a half weeks ago. We met the second day we talked and went out three nights in a row. He lives 3 and a half hours away at school but was raised where I live at. He comes home in march. We really hit it off ...

Feeling like an old married couple... will it end or should I just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about three years now. It's not my first long-term relationship. He used to try to have sex with me all the time, but rarely does anymore, unless it's morning-time -and I can't help but to think it ...

I forgot the real date of his birthday!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - What should i do now? July 16th is my boyfriend's birthday but i thought it is july 17th. On july 16th, he had to go to another country for a few days and we would not be able to contact each other by phone or email so in our conversation, i said ...

Does his offish ways mean he's not interested any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Hi, a couple of weeks ago I went on a date with a lovely guy who i'd been chatting to on facebook for a few weeks. It went really well and we got on brilliantly. He even suggested another date after our evening! So, I waited a week and heard n...

I love her but I can't stop my drinking and partying ways...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - I am 21 years old, dating a woman who is about 7-8 years older than me and let me say I do LOVE HER, but I am not ready for a committed relationship right now. I don't want to lose her because, she is the best woman I have ever had, in fact, she is ...

This sounds like borderline prostitution to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - I recently found out my girlfriend did sexual favors for a mechanic who worked on her car. This incident(s) happened after we met, but when we were friends and before we got romantically involved. When I first met her, this guy was texting her all ...

Help me to see this for what it is...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 July 2010 (?) - I fell in love with a man who treated me very good, and we were compatible in every way and got along so nicely. We were integrating friends and family nicely, making vacation plans, and moving to the "I love you" dialogue. When we were together, ...

My friend said he's just using me for sex!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - i've been having a fling with a guy for 3 months, I've grown strong feelings for him, i think about him day an night, he says im too emotional and he dont do emotional talk. once he told my friend all he wanted from me is sex and im not getting ...

How to overcome shyness...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I am really shy when it comes to relationships. I have a wonderful girlfriend and things are going great but I need to overcome my shyness. We shared our first kiss after dating for a month ( we both wanted one sooner but we we...

How do you cope with being apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have it really easy. We see each other every day. Sometimes it's all day, sometimes it's all night, sometimes it's just for half an hour. But still every day. I've gotten really used to this. And now tomorrow, we have to spend a ...

They both like me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - ok so im in sort of a situation with two girls and one likes me and i kinda like her but the other one we dated for a while then we broke up for a while but she said she still loves me and i love her too but she still wont date me how can i winher ...

I like him, but he might be gay...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I am in a situation where I am crushing on this guy but I can not tell if he's gay or straight. I can not ask him because I don't want to offend him. Do gay people use words such as fag or homo or do they find these disrespectful and would never say ...

I'm scared to get close to a guy because I don't want to be hurt again. How do I show interest without getting too close?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Well, I am scared to get to close to a guy because I don't want to become hurt again. How do I show I really like him and still not get to close to them?...

Can we fix this or is it unfixable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Ok friends, I need some more help here. My bf and I have been dating for 10 months now, known each other for 8 years and dated in the past for a year. I was afraid to let him abck into my life when he came knocking because I was left brokenhearted ...

Is height really important? And is there any way I can grow taller?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I need to know from women how much height is important. I'm 21 and 5'6 which bugs me a great deal. I think it stands in the way of me scoring a good date. Girls always think i'm younger! What can i do to grow a little bit taller? Please ...

Nervous about dating in high school

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - im 14 and ill be in high school by the end of august, and im very nervous, not because of grades, not because of bullies, but because of dating. ive had two girlfriends. the first one dumped me after a week for someone else. my next girlfriend was ...

Will a threesome ease my retroactive jealousy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - Ok where to begin! I was in a relationship of 8 years and that ended 1year ago, for the past 5 months I've been dating and living with a woman who 24 years old! She has 2 children and I love her and them! The problem is she has done soooo much ...

After I accepted his invitation, I hadn't heard from him for a week. Should I give him the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Dear various agony relatives, A guy who I know through friends and I have been emailing each other. I happen to be interested in him, but want to know a bit more about him (chances are he likes a lot of people right now). He asked me if I wou...

My girlfriend thinks I'm unreliable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. Lately, I haven't been able to do stuff with her like hang out, because of my parents. I ask them and beg them to let me hang out with her. My girlfriend doesn't believe me, and says I'm the mos...

I've worked hard to overcome my insecurities -- how do I show him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was in a serious relationship with an amazing guy I dearly loved,and still love.However,my repeated insecurities and jealousy kind of killed it. i promised so many times that i would change,but i failed.we were fighting over the most...

Is waking him up with a blow job a good idea?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - When I stay at my boyfriends house we usually end up staying up until 4am being intimate, cuddling, or talking before he has to go back to his room. (still lives with his parents) This weekend we are both attending a party at a friend of mine's. ...