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writes:I am 70 years old and my boyfriend is 65. We have been dating for 6 years. Sex has been g-r-e-a-t great! We went on a trip in the summer of 2009 and we only had sex twice. Normally, when we go on vacation we have sex every day, or every other day. This time he was different. Within 3 months we have had sex twice. Last night he told me he had no sexual desire and he did not know if he ever would. He has used testosterone patches for years and was always ready to jump my bones. Help!! Boy do I miss the hot, hot sex. I don't know how to handle it. He is great in every way. Always giving me gifts and he makes me feel special all the time. Is it because he has developed ED recently? I know you don't love someone for just sex but it really helps to have sex. What can I do. We do love each other. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe can not use viagra because of other meds. I like the second response "give him a break." I will let him rest for a while and see what happens. I am 70 but in great shape in every way. Most people think I am in my late 50's they are knocked off their feet when I say no I am 70. I exercise daily and I walk 6 miles a day. I am very, very, energentic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): Viagra?! Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): I think you should give him a break for a few days and see what he says then. Maybe he's just tried or stressed. I doubt that sexual desire can suddenly just disappear. Men do think, off and on, that since they are older they may not want sex. Its a phase and does not really last :)
After some time see if he brings up the topic again and restart things... In the meantime, enjoy physical closeness with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): haha dont break a hip
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