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writes:I need some advice please.My boyfriend is doing some work somewhere away from me, and I can't see him. I would be with him but my school and education get's in the way :\But I still talk to him on the phone, msn and facebook. But there is this girl who is writing on his facebook calling him 'babe' and saying 'love you'. My boyfriend has said to me 'ahh i've made a new friend today' and has told me that he thinks shes weird and stuff like that.But, I feel upset about it. I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me, he's promised me, he's not that kind of person.Am i being too protective of him?Please help. Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice :)
I spoke to him about it and he got abit sensitive thinking that I didn't trust him :/ but I described how i felt and how it seemed to me and then he understood
He wasn't cheating on me or flirting or anything :) The girl was flirting with him but he never took it that way and never flirted back.
I hate girls like that tbh :/
Like, don't understand the words 'He has a girlfriend' and that :/
But thank you so much for your help :)
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reader, meltedfire13  +, writes (20 January 2010):
that would make me REALLY mad. does he see her? some girls are stupid and weird though and would probably say that despite how he responds to it. some guys will text me all the time no matter how much i ignore them or blow them off, and ill tell my boyfriend i think theyre weird but i wouldnt be surprised if he thinks im lying. you would think they would catch a hint but some people just dont. i know its not exactly the same thing, but it could be a similar situation.
anyway, i would say something and i dont think youre being overprotective. and just because he promised he wouldnt cheat on you doesnt necessarily means he'll keep his promise. i doubt many people would actually say, "yes, i would cheat on you." when youre in a relationship its kind of implied but many people do it anyway. im not saying he will though
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