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writes:so i am a 13 year old girl but i only fantasise about 15-17 year olds is that a problem or not i really need to know bc i dont like people younger than me or around my age they aren't very mature ive never dated some one younger or around my age before is that also a problem?? just let me know please. Reply to this Question
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (20 January 2010):
Looking back to my adolesence - it sounds very normal to me!
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reader, GoGreen126  +, writes (20 January 2010):
Completely normal--don't worry!
I wouldn't really suggest acting on those fantasies, though. Most 15-17 year olds are in high school, whereas you, 13, are probably in middle school. I know that seems like no big deal to you, it didn't to me either, but now that I'm in high school, I realized how big that is.
When I was 13, I went out with a 15-year-old. It went really badly, but I won't get into it. When I was 15, I went out with a 17-year-old. That was nice.
Do you know legal issues where you live? Watch out for those--they're more of a big deal than they seem. Read up.
I digress; the fantasies are normal. Just wanted to share my experience in hope it'll help.
--GG
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): Girls mature physically earlier than boys but I don't think there's much of a mental difference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): its perfectly normal for girls to be more attracted to older guys. girls tend to mature earlier than boys, there is absolutly nothing wrong with it.i know i certainly wasnt mature at 13. i hope this helped.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Yeah i would say so, maybe u just feel that boys your age are immature, which they are, and that you someone who is a bit older might treat you better or understand feelings better? Im not sure why, but its perfectly normal :)
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