Is my first love ultimately "the one?"

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Subject: maybe he is "the one." C and I dated for almost 9 years. Met at 18 in college, love at first sight, and broke up officially last May. I called it quits because I wasn't happy. We spent little time together, he was always busy with one business venture after another and I really just thought our interest and values had changed. Classic case of "growing apart," so I thought. Well it's been about 8 months and I still think about him every day. We keep in touch, there's no bad blood between us, but we don't regularly and we are seeing other people. I wish he had his life together more (I.e., car, own place, steady job/business) but he's pushing hard to get there. Just no results. The life of entreprenuer I suppose. Anyhow, I still love him and wonder dang, is he really the man I'm to marry? P.s. He tells me every chance he gets how much he loves me and wants to marry me and how no other man will ever be good enough for me. Please!? An outside perspective...

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