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writes:alright hi girls this for you:what do you think of man who cries ( emotional person) can you be with him, do you think he is weak I can't be with such a person or ... tell me, what if he cries for you, beg u ... Reply to this Question
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reader, josephy +, writes (4 July 2009):
josephy is verified as being by the original poster of the question I thought I love him but something changed inside me I felt like pity for him that he cried for our love. is this means that I don't really love him and I just do for him to satisfy him. is this all or I really in love I'm confused.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 I don't mind a guy who cries a little when the situation calls for crying - someone dies, a major emotional fight, a really sad episode of Oprah... but a guy who is verging on pathetic - i.e. begging, bawling and pleading for me... that just is too much and it feels too needy!! And, as "sugar sugar" mentions, it would feel like he was trying to make me feel guilty, that's no good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): I'm going to be a bit two sided on this question. But yes i can be with a guy that cries. For some reason i find it attractive that he can let loose his feelings and it shows that he cares. It all depends on the reason that he is crying about. Once this guy that i was in love with was crying. I told my friends, both male and female about the situation and they started laughing and they said that he is soft/weak. My male friend told me that he doesn't want me with any soft guy.
Is it that you are not in love with him and he is crying and begging to be with you? He might be needy...needy guys are trouble or should I say some.
A guy crying may not mean that he is weak. He may be trying to work some reverse psychology on you as well.
Just my opinions...
So if you can't deal with it, don't try to because it will always annoy you. If it's a "fault" that you can't live with....
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (4 July 2009):
 Depends on the tears. I don't mind a guy that cries from time to time, for valid reasons. I can't say I'd be terribly turned on if my guy was crying while watching The Notebook with me :P
I find guys that will cry at the slightest hint of a disagreement the ultimate turn off - it seems childish and weak, as though trying to guilt me out of whatever discussion is pending.
In a healthy relationship I shouldn't see any reason why a guy is crying and begging for me.
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