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female
age
36-40,
*icolhoney
writes:I've been dating this guy for almost two years on and off. He has problems with smoking pot and used to promise he would eventually stop but it only has gotten worse. I even moved in with him under the condition that he would not smoke anymore. I was very hurt and dissapointed to find that it was just another empty promise so we only lived together for a few months and now I'm back at my parents house. We stoped taking for two months after I moved out of our place and now we started talking again. He says he loves me and we sleep together now and then but he says he is not ready to get back into a relationship?! He says he got so hurt before and that he needs to focus on himself and school!??? I just shouldn't see him then, right? I can't continue sleeping with someone that doesn't want a relationship. I just feel used and I'm so lonely that I even settle for this kind of relationship.... I feel hopeless....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): Hi,I may not be a profesional in relationships, but it sounds to me like this guy really isn't prepared to treat you right. He has used you, lied to you, and one of the problems, he does drugs.Your right, it sounds like he's using you and doesn't care so much about how you feel, and it's important that the person you're with makes you feel appreciated, good about yourself, and if they say they love you, you should know it.You may feel alone and down now, but sometimes we just have to move on and find someone that can make us feel good, you as a person deserve that for yourself. Hanging around will sadly most likely keep you tied down in pain. I hope you can take my advice and move on, i know it hurts though.Hope I could help
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