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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so i had this boyfriend a two years ago. we dated for a year, before i knew he had cheated on me with his co worker, i found out n broke up with him.. at the time his dad had passt away n mom was not very well, i gave my condoleses n told him he coulnt play games and has to grow up be the man of the house.. okay going bak to how we met,in 2007, i went to the make up store with my friend mel. he was satning out side with his friends, both me n mel talked to him became close then she hooked us up n we were bf n gf it was real nice r relatioship was great. very cute n lubby wubby high school thing, n who i hadnt talked to him since last year when we broke up, idk why we satrted talkin again but i was checkin out his myspace profile n found out that one of my bffs was on his top i knew she had added him but not that they talked.... so i asked why she was on his top... he said that they had a history like no other, that she was his lady for a while..... n i was shock. to hear this i mean i could care less he went out with her, but that she my suposeably bff dintt tell me anything about her dating my ex...?? she calls her self a great friend and im hearing this now from him not her, that just made me realy up set...my question is issnt there a rule about bffs not dating eachothers ex?? should i be mad? should she be punished? should she have told/mentioned/asked me about this?should i confront her about it... ? i dnt kare but it kindda hurts she sint tell me, her being my bff n all... i mean she gave me all this beef for making out with a manwhore in a moment of weakness at dance when my date had left.. i mean the guy i made out with wasnt a total stranger i had mixd feelings for him for the longest...but yeah what should i do about my bff, should i tell her something.... me n my ex r goood he has no reason to lie to me much less to my face... idk what to do im hurt... not like big time hurt just idk if she can be a real frend n trusted????
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that it has nothing to do with my ex. but rather the fact that my besfriend when out with him..... that she did it it bothered me that she did.... that i found out from him and not her that it was the same time i was with him that she had already known him.... but any who im over it now and dont kare any more past is past id wished he being my bff she would have said something to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): There is no rule who can date who. An ex is an ex. It would have been better to ask how you would feel about it,but it in real life you and your ex are over so it shouldnt mean anything to you.
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