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female
age
41-50,
*lairyfairy
writes:Ive been single for 8 months now and i havent had sex. I dont do one nite stands neuer had one never will. Ive only ever had longterm relationships.of 5 years and 3 year im 26 I dont want a one nite stand because that is not me having random sex with a stranger! Im am getting urges now and i know i could just ring me ex and get it if i wanted but thats wrong as theirs still feelings there! From both partys! Im trying to move on and doing good. Its just i fancied him like mad. Its not even the sex really.as he only lasted a minute! Yeah less sometimes.its just the closeness. Cuddles. Holding hands. Kisses.snuggling in bed talking thats what i miss! And i wouldnt get that with a one nite stand.i just want a relationship.and im jealous of couples. Im not happy. Its like everything i do i always have the same saying in my head! I wish i was with someone now enjoying this with them! Im so lonely. I get offers all the time.but i just given up dating i cant find anyone who ticks my boxes.i find it hard to meet anyone. Ive tried internet dating but they never seem like they say! I have a daughter i would love a family unit 4 her! Help. I hate feeling like this! When will it happen? its disappointment after disappointment!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 January 2010):
Yeah cuddles are great.
All you can do is keep dating. You'll meet someone eventually, you just have to give it time. Be selective though! If you get warning bells going off in your head, then dump the guy, don't waste your time just because you WANT him to be perfect.
You say part of your motivation is to find a family unit for your kid... well to be honest I would hold off on that until you are very secure in the relationship.
A lot of (really nice) men I know are put off by single mums as they just think they are looking for a new "daddy" to help around the house and pay the bills.
Make sure you make it clear you are just looking for a boyfriend and if it gets serious then you can re-assess the situation.
Good Luck!! xx
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