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How to make-out with a guy.

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Article - (1 July 2009) 1 Comments - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, Lady-Rawr-x writes:

SO this is my first article but I have just answered a question which was how do you make out with a guy so I thought I might aswell just post my entire comment and more.

Here we go.

Just because you feel like your doing bad doesnt mean you should stop, just keep trying. Being nervous or anious is normal and no matter how much experience there is, people are still scared.

At first try just cuddling, hugging, nuzzling, or pecking each other.

When your comfortable and feel like the anxiousness has died down, then just look at his lips, then kiss his cheek if hes turned away from you. When he responds he should just be doing closed mouth kissing so basically just a long peck on the lips. Make sure your comfortable first, and that you are ready to move on.

Then try to move. Hand movement is key to making sure the kiss is still intimate and not boring. The type of hand movement depends on how far you are willing to go. If you just want to make out and not go further then either run your hands through his hair, on his cheek, on the back of his neck, through his belt loops, in his back jean pockets, up or down his chest, or just a mixture which is better to keep the kiss moving and energetic.

While moving, you've got to be watching your lips aswell so don't focus on the hands as much.

If and when your ready try opening your mouth slightly. This is like a signal to the guy for him to enter, which you will be aware of when it happens. Dont be scared or freaked when it does thought cause that could throw you concentration. When you feel his tongue in your mouth, let it roam for a moment or two before trying to touch it with yours. Movement of the outer parts of your lips is good too so try that. Make sure your breaking in between because breathing out of your nose isn't exactly easy when its pressed against someone.

Noises can help conjure up the mood. So try moaning or groaning once in a while. Dont be nervous about this either because its totally normal. If you do this, the guy could get turned on by knowing your enjoying it and that keeps the kiss passionate.

Humping occasionally is basically just thrusting your hips up, down, and side to side. This is also great movement.

Finally all this should keep everything going for as long as you want. The obvious next steps are just touching and feeling so again thats easy. After you've made out finish with a nice peck either on the cheek, neck, or lips, softly though just to keep him wanting more..

Hope I helped and contact me if you need anything else.

Lady Rawr at your service x x x

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A female reader, love-struckxo Canada +, writes (16 July 2009):

love-struckxo agony auntGood advice. I remember how nervous I was when I had my first kiss!! Now it's a piece of cake.

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