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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and I didn't really respond),I know he just wants a bit of fun nothing serious obviously I want more but today I just thought if that's all thats on offer then fine but when it came to it I was like a rabbit in headlights, I have never had a boyfriend because I don't think I am good enough and this guy wanted me and I just wish I could have went for it more but I really didn't know what I was doing and it showed, he initially wanted a bit more but he decided just a snog and a feel first but I was rubbish and couldn't stop shaking, I don't know if he noticed my hands shaking, he text me to say we should do it again but I am worried I will just be the same, he was quite forward and is very expeienced when it comes to woman. HELP welcome.
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reader, urbanking99 +, writes (27 February 2009):
Sounds to me deep down you were over excited. This is what it should be like, the anticipation, the fear, the excitement.
I'm 45 and if I see a woman I like, yes my heart beats a little bit faster, and I get a little excited.
Have some fun with this guy and let him teach you things about your body and yourself. The earlier you learn to let yourself go the more you will enjoy life and great sex. Also everyone is good enough for everyone else. Don't do yourself down. Remember be honest to yourself first then you can be honest with everyone else. Its finding the one that makes you feel like this all the time, even when you have been with them for years.
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