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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: helloI'm dating this girl almost 2 month now, before anything happened she had boyfriend for 2 years and they broke up 6 month ago. we got closer and right at the time when i asked her out her ex boyfriend come's up from no where and i think she still loves him but over all she care about me to and she doesn't want to lose me (that's what she told me) i told her don't talk to him any more because its gonna end up bad she sad ok and she did.next day we went out to eat and she told me that they were done.same night she text's me that she's not gonna be with her ex boy friend but she's not ready too be in anything at all she sad she want to be on her own for a lil...i don't know what to do i really care about her and i really want to be with her and i will not try to move on cuz i know she's the one.thank you for your time and plz try to help
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reader, Luaris +, writes (1 March 2009):
 shes better than my ex. Mine just dumped me for the guy. at least yours is being open with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You So Much, I think that's a right think to do.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 Unfortunately there is nothing you can do here apart from accept the situation. She has done the right thing by telling you she is not ready - there is no point in her having a relationship with you if she has not moved on from her ex as she would only end up hurting you.
All you can do is give her the space and time she needs to move on and get over her ex properly. Stay friends but dont put any pressure on her by telling her "your the one" etc or telling her you should be together, this will only push her away.
Be her friend and hopefully one day she will be ready and she will come back to you. Be patient and hopefully everything will work out for the best.
I hope this helps!
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