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female
age
36-40,
*lutonious
writes:I've been having thought of my own with my long time relationship going on for six years.He says he is happy with me, he gives me all that I could possibly think of emotionally. He's the perfect guy for me. We fit.Yet, it's been a week and I've been having doubts of what this relationship has become and what will happen if anything will happen?it's been six years, and no freakn ring?And his past before me, they were both much in love w/ each other and broke it off because he moved to a different state. I also remember a long time ago that he wants our relationship where him and i could break up and always come back to each other with hesitation. I guess that's how it was with his past.I do understand why he wants it that way, it's the perfect relationship. Yet, I sometimes feel like I"m not good enough for him because I've messed up MANY MANY times before within the first two years of our relationship. I've done stupid things, but never once I've cheated.Sometimes, I feel like Im too dumb to be around him because he is the smartest person I know.Yet, I know I could answer a few good questions and "A's it. He commented on our relationship that this relationship he has with me is the best relationship he ever had. but sometimes, i feel like it doesn't seem that way to him even if he says the opposite. What the heck is wrong with me? Maybe i need more attention from him? and we don't have the same days off anymore for the past year now, and it sucks. we never have the same schedule whenit comes to work it's ALWAYs opposite. he's at home, i;m at work when i get home he has to sleep for work, and this is 5 times a week. grr.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Dear Grr,
you look like you need commitment and reassurance from him.
most obvious thing is talk to him? you could always ask him to marry you...? or just say where are we going - where will we be in 5 years time etc.
hope that helps star...
Hugs star.x.
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