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Stuck between a rock and a hardplace

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Question - (27 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, *unkhead869 writes:

Okay, to start it off.. .I will begin from the start.

I met this girl 8months ago, we progressed and we got to know literally everything about each other. We talk about everything, we see eachother at school 5 days a week, and hang out around twice a week, everyweek. We talk pretty much everynight on the phone for about an hour too. She is two years older than me though. She says she "Loves me so,so,so much" and she tells me she likes the way I care about her, my views on life, how I am religious, I always seek out the best things in life, and how I am a person who seeks temporarily satisfaction. She of course says I have a really sexy body and etc.. This list for both just are endless. She always tells me that I saved her when I told her "I love you" and that I continue to save her, that I am her angel.

So, heres this twist. She has a boyfriend of two years. She told me she sleeps with him about twice a week, everyweek. She always tells me about these fights they have cause she wont sleep with him more than that and she wont go get drunk at a bar/club all the time with him. She see's him about two -three times a week, but she also tells me that they never talk, and the only things he wants to do is get drunk, party, and have sex.

So she tells me how she wants to be with me, and to see what its like. But, she continues to date this man, because she said she wants things to be as good as they were when they first started dating. And she tells me she cant promise anything with me. But she loves me, and she loves him.

What do I do? I love her so much, I really want to be with her, but I have no Idea if she will ever be single, or when. I cant wait forever. This shit confuses me. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009):

The thing is she is a tramp with him, but no one else. She hates being sexually harrased and has only slept with him. She hates when people eye her and treate her like an object. Still though, all that sex is trampish...

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